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11岁就能考，12岁到了就可以用！据说过了12岁可以给小孩上个lesson得个baby sitting的证书什么的，然后就可以开业收玛尼了。
急问，急问：孩子在学校受欺负 该教孩子怎么应对？
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俺娃11岁半的时候考的，花一天的时间而已。^ _ ^您有经验。
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爬了下楼，没看全，不过有点诧异。如果家长有条件，能给孩子穿的讲究些潮流些，当然无可厚非，也没什么不好。不过把孩子受欺负不够popular和穿衣服联系起来，我觉得有点扯，至少在孩子小的年龄段，扯不上。
如果我的孩子从这么小就从穿着来区分和judge孩子，如果我的孩子嘲笑别人衣服上的图案，我一定会反省自己对孩子的教育失误；如果一个老师从衣着来judge孩子，我一定不希望我的孩子有这样的老师。
培养孩子合群开朗，多交朋友，靠自身的内在能力树立威信，才是家长的重点，至于穿什么，在家长的能力范围内干净整洁就可，穿什么和孩子会不会受欺负有那么大关系吗
如果我的孩子从这么小就从穿着来区分和judge孩子，如果我的孩子嘲笑别人衣服上的图案，我一定会反省自己对孩子的教育失误；如果一个老师从衣着来judge孩子，我一定不希望我的孩子有这样的老师。
培养孩子合群开朗，多交朋友，靠自身的内在能力树立威信，才是家长的重点，至于穿什么，在家长的能力范围内干净整洁就可，穿什么和孩子会不会受欺负有那么大关系吗
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网上扒来的哈，虽然俺也听过无数遍。
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About bully, I don't think kid at 4-5 years old that really understand it. And the teacher here, usually has zero tolerant for bully.
eg. My daughter is a kid that usually bullied other kids in class in the view of the teacher. So we got warning notes in communication book, and sometimes even phone message, when talking with her, she doesn't think she bullied other kids, she thought it was for fun and play with them.
When you thought teacher didn't take action, the teacher could already notify the other side's parents.
for us, we taught her if the other kid said "stop", just stop it, because he/she didn't like the way you played.
For clothing, my kids don't care at all. she normally wear the same snow suits for 2 years.
and she only has one pair of mitten in the winter, I usually dried them at night, so she can wear them again tomorrow.
eg. My daughter is a kid that usually bullied other kids in class in the view of the teacher. So we got warning notes in communication book, and sometimes even phone message, when talking with her, she doesn't think she bullied other kids, she thought it was for fun and play with them.
When you thought teacher didn't take action, the teacher could already notify the other side's parents.
for us, we taught her if the other kid said "stop", just stop it, because he/she didn't like the way you played.
For clothing, my kids don't care at all. she normally wear the same snow suits for 2 years.
and she only has one pair of mitten in the winter, I usually dried them at night, so she can wear them again tomorrow.
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Now I learned I should buy some brand clothing for her, so the teacher will like her more, as I'm usually cheap on clothing but would like to spend money on kids' activities/study.
I know my daughter is popular in class but not with her teacher.
I know my daughter is popular in class but not with her teacher.
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