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Diane Bishop beamed as she held up a giant mock cheque and posed for the cameras in Atlantic Lottery's office in St. John's.

"Should I do a little dance?" she asked with a crackly voice, a side-effect of chemotherapy. Then she began to bounce, gently, from side to side.

"It's OK. My hip isn't too bad today."

'Something said, "Buy a ticket" that day.'- Diane Bishop

This is not a typical photo-op with the winner of a $1.5-million Super Set For Life jackpot.

"This money wasn't about going out and buying a new house or taking trips," said Bishop. "This was about survival. I can survive now, and my kids can survive."

Incredibly, Bishop — who has Stage 4 breast cancer — has just hit the jackpot not once, but twice. Her "Miracle No. 2" is that she is finally, after several failed attempts, responding to treatment.

"It's like this big ball of weight has been lifted off my shoulders. The stress is gone, the anxiety of being sick, I know I can't beat Stage 4 because you're a ticking time bomb, but it's given me hope that maybe it can go dormant for awhile ... and I can live my life."

Life-changing gamble
Bishop, whose cancer has spread to her pelvic bone and lung, had been bracing for her last resort: a clinical trial in Toronto.

For a single mother with two sons in their 20s, one of whom lives with her, the disease had taken a toll.

She walks with a limp, has trouble raising her right arm, has a weak immune system and struggles to get out of bed in the morning.

Her job managing a Needs Convenience store in Mount Pearl had become increasingly difficult.

"I may not survive if I get pneumonia, so I had to weigh the pros and the cons and say, 'OK, you know what, there's got to be a way to make it, if I don't work.' My health has to come first."

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Bishop's 'Miracle No. 2' was the news that her cancer is responding to chemotherapy for the first time. (CBC)

But Bishop made a troubling discovery — she couldn't afford to stop working. Government support would amount to just over $1,100 a month, barely enough to pay her mortgage.

In October, she told her story to CBC, and her situation began to change. Strangers offered help, randomly showing up at the Needs store to give her money. She ended up with several thousand dollars she placed in a fund to help pay the expense of experimental treatments in Toronto.

Weeks later, Bishop did something unusual. She purchased a $20 Super Set for Life scratch ticket from the store she manages.

"It was weird. Something said, 'Buy a ticket' that day. I can't explain it."

The choice was life changing for her and her two sons.

"We were all jumping and screaming," she said, describing the moment she discovered the $1.5-million win. "It was like, 'Oh my God, oh my God, we actually won this and our financial troubles are gone.'"

Under Atlantic Lottery rules, any retailer, relative of the retailer or employee winning $1,000 may be subject to an investigation and wait 30 days to claim their prizes. The money was expected to officially be released to her today.

Power of prayer
After learning of her lottery win, Bishop's first purchase was a therapeutic, adjustable mattress to help ease her aches and pains. Her second purchase — a comfortable electric chair for watching television while recovering from chemotherapy treatments.

Bishop's biggest comfort? She can leave her sons, Jordan and Shane Parsons, with financial stability.

"I can pay all our debts off and we get a clean slate," said Bishop. "If I need to go anywhere, there's still money left over. I can invest the rest for the future, and it makes life a whole lot easier."

'It's like this big ball of weight has been lifted off my shoulders.'- Diane Bishop
The news from her doctor a couple of weeks later brought more hope.

"This is the only chemo so far that has worked for me," said Bishop. "It had taken the fluid out of my lungs. It has shrunk some of the cancer that is in my lung, and it actually healed part of the bone that's in my leg."

It was like winning the lottery all over again.

"We jumped, we hugged, we kissed, we did it all, myself, the doctor and her nurse." said Bishop. "And all I kept saying is, 'I'm not going to Toronto, I'm home for Christmas.'" Home means being with her family, enjoying precious time she didn't think she had, and a new financial reality she had never dreamed would happen. She's also retired from her convenience store job.

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Bishop bought the winning ticket at the store she manages in Mount Pearl, so had to wait to claim the prize under Atlantic Lottery rules. She says she will donate a seller's bonus to Daffodil House, where cancer patients stay while getting treatment. (CBC)

"I really believe that it's the power of prayers," Bishop said. "I've had so many people praying for me. They email me through Facebook, they come to the store, they call me, they text me, and they told me their churches are praying for me."

Sharing the wealth
Bishop is looking for ways to pay it forward.

She also receives a one per cent bonus that's awarded to the retail ticket seller, because the ticket was purchased at her work location. She plans to donate that bonus to Daffodil Place, a non-profit that supports cancer patients who travel for treatment, and also plans to give the thousands of dollars in donations from strangers to another patient with an inoperable form of cancer.

Her new financial safety net has also emboldened her to lobby government on behalf of other cancer patients who can't afford to quit their jobs.

"I'm going to continue to fight," said Bishop. "This money doesn't change anything. Retirement gives me more time to make more emails, more phone calls so government is not off the hook."

Bishop knows Stage 4 cancer is incurable, but she's now content with whatever the future holds.

"I got everything I wished for. I can go happy, but I'm just not going yet."
 
Fighting 'chemo brain': Mother determined to make good memories
Diane Bishop had to cut back on work because of cancer and worries about paying her bills
By Carolyn Stokes, CBC News Posted: Oct 18, 2017 8:00 PM NT Last Updated: Oct 18, 2017 8:00 PM NT

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Diane Bishop won't let herself constantly think about cancer and tries to smile as often as she can. (Mark Cumby/CBC)

Carolyn Stokes
Journalist

Diane Bishop was grateful to celebrate her son's 24th birthday recently. Like mothers do, she bought a cake with a big 2-4 on it.

'I'm trying to smile every day, and I do.'- Diane Bishop
The response was laughter. Bishop's son was actually turning 23.

She blames the mistake on "chemo brain," chuckling as she tells the story to CBC News.

"That was a good laugh and a good memory he will have — 'Mom forgot how old I was.'"

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Bishop, pictured here with her two sons, is fighting an aggressive form of breast cancer. (Mark Cumby/CBC)

Bishop raised two sons on her own and said good memories are the most precious gifts she can give.

"We're celebrating for next year. Just in case I'm not here, we have 24 taken care of."

Bishop has Stage 4 triple negative breast cancer. She was diagnosed in April 2016 and since then, the aggressive form of cancer has spread to her pelvic bone and lung.

'I force myself to get up'
She endured surgery, three rounds of chemotherapy and radiation, but so far, nothing has worked.

The treatments have ravaged her body. Bishop walks with a limp and has trouble lifting her right arm.

She has a collection of hats to keep her bald head warm. Wigs, she said, are too uncomfortable.

Bone and joint pain, nausea, headaches and severe fatigue make daily life difficult.

"I force myself to get up," she said.

"I force my way through, and I go to work. Because that's what got me this far, getting up and going to work, and keeping your daily routine as normal as possible."

Bishop has been the franchisee of a Needs Convenience in Mount Pearl for the past five years. She loves her job, and finds comfort being around her customers.

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Bishop has been the franchisee of this Needs Convenience in Mount Pearl for the last five years. When she's at the store, she sees 'customers not cancer.' (Mark Cumby/CBC)

But physically, work is a struggle.

"You try to stay one step ahead of what's going to happen so I started thinking, the store is becoming a little more difficult to get up and go to, so what happens when I can't do that anymore? What happens when I can't work?" she said.

"I started making a few phone calls, and it's not good."

'How do we buy groceries?'
Bishop found out she can't afford to quit. She was told she qualifies for $1,127 per month in employment insurance and Canada Pension Plan disability benefits. That's barely enough to pay her mortgage.

"I am the sole breadwinner in this household," she said. "So if I take my $1,127 and pay my mortgage, then how do we buy groceries? How do we pay normal household bills? We don't."

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Bishop wants to remain in her home while she battles her illness, but fears she soon may not be able to afford it. (Mark Cumby/CBC)

Bishop has lived in her Mount Pearl home for 10 years. The idea of selling it now and moving into a cheaper apartment — if she could find one — is overwhelming.

"When you get sick you want to be in your own home, in your own bed," she said.

"I want to be here as long as I can. This is my comfort zone, this is what I know, and this is where I want to stay."

Bishop doesn't know how much longer she has to live, but she does know the odds.

It happens on a 'regular basis'
Unfortunately, Bishop's case is not an isolated incident, according to the Newfoundland and Labrador chapter of the Canadian Cancer Society.

"We see it on a regular basis and people saying, 'We've had to sell off property, things that we own,so that we can come in and get the treatment' that they desperately need," executive director Matthew Piercey told CBC Wednesday.

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Matthew Piercey, with the N.L. chapter of the Canadian Cancer Society, says Bishop is not alone in her struggle. (Mark Cumby/CBC)

"That should never be the case."

Piercey applauded Bishop for sharing her story and said eligibility criteria needs to be reviewed.

"Continue to be a voice talking to government so that when her situation is being heard, that's when people are going to start making change. You need that champion, so she can be a champion," he said.

'I can't frown and dwell'
Patients like Bishop who have Stage 4 triple negative breast cancer typically survive 18 months to two years, Bishop said.

So she's acutely conscious of time passing, and wants to spend every moment with her family, making memories that will outlast her.

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Bishop pictured in a photo with her two sons. (Mark Cumby/CBC)

"I'm trying to smile every day, and I do," she said.

"I go to work and I smile. I go out and I do things, and I smile. I can't frown and dwell on cancer every day. But unfortunately now I face the new problem of how do I financially survive?"

Bishop is taking a fourth shot at chemotherapy and she'll find out in November if the treatment worked. If it doesn't, she has no more local treatment options.

She will then look at joining a clinical trial in Toronto — another expense she can't afford.
 
Strangers rally cash, support for mom fighting cancer and pushing for government support
'It's given me a wonderful outlook on how people pull together ... Newfoundlanders are known for it'
By Stephanie Kinsella, CBC News Posted: Oct 20, 2017 2:34 PM NT Last Updated: Oct 20, 2017 3:43 PM NT

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Diane Bishop says people's generosity has rendered her speechless, which she says 'doesn't happen too often.' (Sherry Vivian/CBC )

A woman batting Stage 4 cancer says the kindness — and hugs — of strangers are giving her the grit to continue her fight and push for government action.

"There are no words to express how I feel, but you can see by the smile on my face it's given me a wonderful outlook on how people pull together," says Diane Bishop.

"Newfoundlanders are known for it and I'm actually really seeing it now."

She was diagnosed with Stage 4 triple negative breast cancer in April 2016 and since then it has spread to her pelvic bone and lung.

'[People] want to see me fight and they want to see me survive.'- Diane Bishop
Bishop shared her story with CBC 's Here and Now on Wednesday, detailing her physical and financial struggle.

She said she cannot afford to quit her job as a franchisee of a Needs Convenience in Mount Pearl, since the CPP and disability benefits total about $1,100 a month — which barely covers her mortgage. Bishop also said she has endured surgery and three rounds of chemotherapy and radiation.

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Bishop, pictured here with her two sons, is fighting an aggressive form of breast cancer. (Mark Cumby/CBC)

She said the response from the public in the last two days has left her "speechless."

"They are so touched by the story that they have hunted me out at my store and they have come in and they've given me small monetary gifts. They've snuck it into my hand, 'Here, this is to help you with your situation,'" she told CBC on Friday.

"I've hugged more strange men in the last couple of days," Bishop added, laughing.

Government needs 'to step up'
She said people are sharing their own stories, offering prayers via social media and emails which are coming in from right across the province — and Bishop vows not to let the momentum slow down.

"So we need to keep this going," she said.

"The positive feedback that I am getting ... we need government to step up now and change the system."

Bishop questions how, as the sole breadwinner in her Mount Pearl home, she could quit her job and still support herself and two sons, who she has raised on her own — all while battling Stage 4 cancer.

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Bishop wants to remain in her home while she battles her illness, but fears she soon may not be able to afford it. (Mark Cumby/CBC)

She is meeting with MHA Paul Lane next week and hopes to speak with her MP, Veterans Affairs Minister Seamus O'Regan, too.

"Hopefully we can get the ball rolling to help people like myself, which would be wonderful because it will give me strength — and everyone else strength — to continue," Bishop said.

In the meantime, she will use the money from strangers to travel to Toronto for a clinical trial.

"I pretty much got it covered, from the kindness of people who want to help me. And they want to see me fight and they want to see me survive," she said.
 
没有经济上、工作上和生活上的压力了,心情舒畅一放松,说不定她能多活些年。
 
不是所有得癌症的人都中奖哦!照片中的妇女这口板牙真够黄的。
常年吃药打针的,免不了有的药会把牙齿变色的!
 
常年吃药打针的,免不了有的药会把牙齿变色的!

她戴着帽子。估计头发掉光了。
 
加拿大51岁妇人中奖150W 不到两个月病逝
2018-01-11 来源:温哥华港湾

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纽芬兰省Mount Pearl市4期乳癌患者毕肖普(Diane Bishop),去年11月赢得150万刮刮乐彩票奖金,同时化疗也终于开始起作用,一度成为加拿大头条新闻。

然而,她的家人星期一(1月9日)晚上在Facebook上公布了她的死讯,终年51岁。

毕肖普是位单亲妈妈,在纽省以特许加盟形式经营一间便利店。去年10月,她曾向CBC讲述自己的遭遇,说如果不工作,就无法应付生活所需,也不能偿还经营便利店的贷款。

在媒体的帮助下,很多陌生人开始捐钱给她,帮助她去多伦多治疗。

几星期后,她心血来潮,在自己经营的店里,买了一张20元的彩票,最后竟然中奖。

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当时癌细胞已经扩散到她的髋骨和肺,令人意想不到的是治疗方法终于见效了,这让她重新燃起和家人再共度一段时间的希望。

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她在中奖后曾表示,要把公众的捐款转捐给另一个晚期癌症患者,并为争取癌症患者权益投入更多的时间和精力。

她生前还强调,彩金不会拿来买房子或者旅游,而是用来生活,让两个20多岁的儿子日后不用为钱而担忧。

据了解,毕肖普2016年4月份被诊断出第四期三阴性乳癌。这种乳癌占所有类型乳腺癌的15%到20%,预后较差,侵袭力强,而且更容易转移。
 
I do believe in miracles in life, even though you may just explain it as an event with very small possibility.
 
since the CPP and disability benefits total about $1,100 a month — which barely covers her mortgage


抱怨政府给的钱少。
不知道感恩的人。
 
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