hello, Lungo
I have one word for you after I read your last comment. I don't think you'll get a result if you just want to find out who is right or wrong... What I want to say is both of you are humans, so think about her feelings. Think of her pressure when she lives with your parents, show some understanding and I am sure she will understand you. I think she is a good daughter in law cause she never say something bad about your parents (from what you said). She is sure a good wife and mom as well. You are a lucky guy!
I have one word for you after I read your last comment. I don't think you'll get a result if you just want to find out who is right or wrong... What I want to say is both of you are humans, so think about her feelings. Think of her pressure when she lives with your parents, show some understanding and I am sure she will understand you. I think she is a good daughter in law cause she never say something bad about your parents (from what you said). She is sure a good wife and mom as well. You are a lucky guy!