最初由 RegularMAN 发布
请结婚的或结过婚的人士回帖,谢谢。
婚姻多年,与夫人争吵多年。感觉很苦闷。我想幸福或者说正常婚姻不该这样。以前从来没有想过要离,但近来有些想。这里不去说谁对谁错,肯定有我的不是。
想请教个位:如果离婚,我自己全部带养和教育一个10来岁的BOY,应该走什么样的生活道路?
在下谢谢啦。
补充一点:多年来的观察,她有些神经质,反复无常。
Well, I think all the couples would have this or that kind of quarrels once a while. Me too. But think it back, every time after the fight, what you felt about her. Or if she came to say sorry to you, did you feel touched or forgive her right away? Or after a while, you felt that you are the one should say sorry....
Yes, if there is a serious problem between you guys, sometimes maybe caused by the pressure (all kinds of), it may be better for you to seperate for a while, cool down, and see how you feel... If this still can't work out, well, go ahead do whatever you want. After all, remember, we are the man, right?
Good luck.