回国还是不回

最初由 firestone 发布
有人问一位得道高僧:什么是禅?高僧答:饿来就吃,渴来就喝,困来就睡。此人又问:那一般人不就这么活的吗?高僧答:一般人做这些事情的时候心有杂念,并不能做到平常心。 不光禅宗崇尚宁神静虑,儒家和道家也都如此。 儒家的诸葛亮说:夫君子之行静以修身,俭以养德,非淡泊无以明志,非宁静无以致远。如果从做人的角度理解,这句话说的是儒家中庸的哲学,不激进,不张扬,简朴,低调,宁静,但又志向远大。
真美啊!
 
最初由 ZHB55 发布
是鸡肋---当然并不针对所有人。

鸡肋, 比喻的好呀!

夫妻双方还是不要分开为好.......
 
有人丢了钱包,去问路边瞎眼的“算命先生”请教。真是可笑!!你自己长着眼睛不去找,反而问个瞎子!

楼主的帖子就和这一样。你不去和你家人商量,和自己的心谈话,反而来问我们这些素不相识的人!
1. 我们怎么知道你家的情况。
2. 你自己的生活,是非得失和我们没有任何关系。

我只能从我的角度回答:“你应该回去,最好把你的工作推荐给我。” :D :D
 
对于同样的问题,每个人都有不同的侧重点,每个人都有不同的取舍。想多听听别人的想法,扩展一下思路。

“老爸的生意虽不大,但包含着老人家多年来的心血。回去做一些力所能及的事,多少是对老人家的一丝安慰......”

“担心的是:长时间旅居海外,对国内的一切都生疏了......”

“国内学Double E的,待业大有人在。老公在国内很难找到同等待遇的工作。”

“已经入籍, 回国可能不是很方便....”
 
Re: Re: 回国还是不回

最初由 lifeisfun 发布


It all depends on your personal preference and ability. If you would like to face challenge and be a business woman and you feel yourself has such ability, you could choose to go back. But if you feel calm life, don't like the life in business (especially in China where you have to go out to meet people for the purpose of doing business), also you would like to spend more time with your own family, your kids. Then maybe here is a better place. I saw some friends rather stay here to spend more time with the kids and family, than going back for some development. As we always heard that nowadays many of our friends in China succeed and have lots of money. But they also paid the price of spending little time with their family, living a busy life. As for the kids, it's very harsh for them in China, competion after competion, they will suffer a lot even they may do pretty well in China.

So calm down, and ask yourself a question: Do you really care about the feeling of success? Or you care more about peaceful, calm family life? I saw many Canadian living a simple life, but they are happy.
So which kind of life will make you and your family happy. Then go for it.


多谢。
 
最初由 木子美 发布
对于同样的问题,每个人都有不同的侧重点,每个人都有不同的取舍。想多听听别人的想法,扩展一下思路。

“老爸的生意虽不大,但包含着老人家多年来的心血。回去做一些力所能及的事,多少是对老人家的一丝安慰......”
--不能只为这个目的。
“担心的是:长时间旅居海外,对国内的一切都生疏了......”
--这不是问题。
“国内学Double E的,待业大有人在。老公在国内很难找到同等待遇的工作。”
--哈哈,怎么说的那么对呢!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
“已经入籍, 回国可能不是很方便....”
--也没有什么,只是要签证,付钱。 好象国内长期有生意的可以申请绿卡。
 
最初由 test 发布
look at your name 木子美 . You definitely should go back to China. You can make future there.

是呀,为什么叫“木子美”呢:confused: :confused: :confused:
 
最初由 dark chocolate 发布


是呀,为什么叫“木子美”呢:confused: :confused: :confused:


It is just a virtual name. Do not take it seriously.

Why do you take the name "dark chocolate"?

Just for fun. Not a big deal.
 
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