如果这样你能忍受么!?

[lazy susan]

I've been there. My husband and I were separated for over 3 years. He was in Toronto and I am here in Ottawa. He was lazy to call too but he came back to Ottawa at least once every two weeks and he had his excuses, " hey, I just left, why call?; I am about to go back, what good is a call for?" Sometime, gays don't understand women, it is that simple.

Since you're married, it's good for you and your husband to see each other every couple of weeks, either you travel or he does, or alternatively. Calls only won't do the job

 

[hardtoname]

agree with Lazy Susan. Men don't understand women. My brother-in-law and my older sister seperated right after they married, since my brother-in-law went to USA in early 90s.He had not written a letter for half a year.Call was very expensive at that time. My sister asked him about this after they reunioned, he said: I knew you were good, and you knew I was good, what else do you want to know?

 

[AfterDie]

最初由 Melody 发布
长距离恋爱就是这样的。往往女生付出的会多一些，男生多是没心没肺的。别老吵架，凡事想得开一些，日子长了，你会觉得有时候2个人分开过段日子也是很自由很开心的

男生多是没心没肺的

take it easy, do not qi1 yi4 say li2 bie2.

 

[ミ古堡の柠檬ペ]

前天晚上给他打了个电话, 他竟然问我为什么一个月了我都不给他打电话..

我电话他也知道..我奇怪难道我不给他打电话他就不给我打电话了!?~~

 

[amigo111]

我BF也不打电话给我 他说他不爱讲电话 这个我也可以理解~~ 因为我也不爱打电话

关键是你和你老公在一起的时候感觉怎么样啊 如果不好就别犹豫 结束也是一种开始嘛~

 

[ミ古堡の芒果ペ]

人生其实没有多长，更何况现在最美丽的日子短之又短
别把时间放在不开心的事情上
当你年老的时候会后悔的，为什么那么美好的日子却过的不愉快

每一个决定都一定是深思熟虑过的，虽然你很冲动，但是我相信在这件事上不是

婚姻是一种责任，不要当做儿戏

:blink:

 

[ミ古堡の柠檬ペ]

这话你跟他说啊~~别老跟我说教,问题都不在我!

别回了,让它沉了算了~~

 

[steveyh]

最初由 ミ古堡の柠檬ペ 发布
我们买的电话是包年的, 一年20块钱随便打

hehe
也许他想让你们体验一下久别剩新昏的感觉？

 

[心竹]

冷静，冷静！

千万别冷战，别赌气。你要知道为人妻和做女朋友是有细微的区别的，冷静下来把你的感受告诉他，别逼他，最重要的是了解他的真实想法。如果答案不是你想要的，长痛不如短痛；如果并非你猜疑的，好好找到解决的办法，或者结束分居，该放弃的就放弃，如果你认为值得的话。

 

[ミ古堡の柠檬ペ]

最初由 register0001 发布


您究竟多高贵的身份啊？倭国皇族还是共产领袖？值得男人用婚姻来换取？

我没多高贵的身份, 自认也不是美女, 只是可惜我从小就跟爸妈来加拿大了~~其实什么假结婚骗身份什么的, 或许就是楼上喜欢做的!!

 

[ミ古堡の柠檬ペ]

p.s, 那个叫 register0001, 少在哪儿自己没事给自己丢脸, 我现在心情不好, 没事别老跟狗一样叫唤!!

 

[coffeeman]

人说宁拆十座庙，不破一门婚。还说过夫妻之间会有７年之痒，也就是结婚７年左右夫妻之间会有矛盾，不知道你们结婚几年了，有没有小孩。但如果真的一个月没有电话，干脆离了。给父母都不会一个月只打一次电话吧？

 

[SUVrider]

If you don't live together for one year, you can get divorse without him signing the paper. Legally your current marriage status is "separated", as he and you are not living together. After separating for a year, divorse is just you filling a form. This happened to my friend before, he didn't even know that his wife divorsed him because he didn't sign any paper.

 

[ミ古堡の柠檬ペ]

楼上的你老婆不要你受刺激了吧!?

 

[ミ古堡の柠檬ペ]

最初由 SUVrider 发布
If you don't live together for one year, you can get divorse without him signing the paper. Legally your current marriage status is "separated", as he and you are not living together. After separating for a year, divorse is just you filling a form. This happened to my friend before, he didn't even know that his wife divorsed him because he didn't sign any paper.

那怎么能证明现在是分居呢!? 还是只要和律师或证政府那里说我们已经分居一年了就可以了!?..