谈谈你对"远程爱情"的看法

guest · 2002-01-07

<HTML>"Long distance relationship" is a somewhat contraversial topic. If you are attracted to a girl who is very far away from you and the girl seems to be quite fond of you too, what is the best way to handle this kind of situation? Is it a good idea to develop the relationship?</HTML>

guest · 2002-01-07

听着象网恋。有点老土了吧？你三十好几了，还玩儿这个？

<HTML>老实点，在本地找个安分的吧。

就算不是网恋， long distance relationship也基本是扯蛋。</HTML>

guest · 2002-01-07

Re: 听着象网恋。有点老土了吧？你三十好几了，还玩儿这个？

<HTML>靠山吃山，靠水吃水。天上的仙女虽好，董永怎么样？够运气了吧，最终还不是悲剧。当然，如果你要追求凄美的浪漫爱情，也不妨害人害己一次。</HTML>

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guest · 2002-01-07

Re: 听着象网恋。有点老土了吧？你三十好几了，还玩儿这个？

<HTML>到哪去找啊？
网恋是不可靠。
但是如果你和她先见面，用一个月时间相互了解情况，然后再通过电话，INTERNET联系还是可能的。有人就是这么做的。</HTML>

guest · 2002-01-07

Re: 听着象网恋。有点老土了吧？你三十好几了，还玩儿这个？

<HTML>不是网恋, 她是中学时的校友, 比我小三届. 现在美国做博士后研究.</HTML>

guest · 2002-01-07

反正都在北美，男未婚，女未嫁的话,

<HTML>逢年过节小聚一下，也不赖。女人就算是做到博后了，也还是女人嘛。</HTML>

guest · 2002-01-07

旧情难却

<HTML>不错，值得一试。校友，知根知底，彼此了解，容易勾通。国内的家在一个城市，将来回国探亲也方便。</HTML>

guest · 2002-01-07

Re: 旧情难却

<HTML>Not bad, it's already better than in China, anyway both of you are in North American. Not so far.</HTML>

guest · 2002-01-07

Re: 旧情难却

<HTML>I have a friend who just got divorce, his ex-wife was his classmate in high school. That's something we call "旧情难却", but they got apart finally. Because they had separated for quite a long time. Distance make them feel some kindness and love when they separated, but he got disappointed after they stayed together over a year.
As my option, once you get the one you want to end up your life with, make to stay with him/her whenever you can.
However, good luck guys!
:love: :love: :love: :love:

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guest · 2002-01-07

to: Jane

<HTML>more encourage pls. telling a successful story makes point. otherwise, who wants to get involve into marriage.</HTML>

guest · 2002-01-07

马踏， marriage will be always disappointing.

<HTML>This is something for sure. However, nothing is perfect. Can you have a better deal than engaing into a marriage finally?

Probably not.

Can you get better off when you stay single for the whole life?

Probably not.

Answer is very clear. Engaging into a marriage when you feel necessary. You will regret it for sure. But that is the best deal you can afford.</HTML>

guest · 2002-01-07

Re: 马踏， there is some postive marriage 2!

<HTML>Stay with your bf/gf whenever you can, experience what he/she suffer, share all the sadness and happiness with him/her. Try your best to understand him/her, and understand his/her change. There is some postive marriage I have seen, at least I have the one.
BTW: 马踏, I remember you are the one who already have ring, why you want to get involve into marriage?

:crazy2: :crazy2:

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guest · 2002-01-07

Re: Jane

<HTML>我是说大家应该多鼓励鼓励过客同志。他最需要的是成功经验和鼓励。我是婚的，跟你们出出注意，想想办法而已。我一向主张成人之美的。我就是不珍惜自己的家，也得珍惜自己的身体呀。是不是。</HTML>

guest · 2002-01-07

Re: Jane

<HTML>鼓励应该,更应该看清现实.距离会美化形象.通过通信和电话了解到的都是对方想要表达的自己.这种有意识的自我表达当然都是表达自己吸引人的一面,和面对面了解到的整体自然有偏差.所以"long distance"对建立感情非常不利.
如果两人已经有感情基础,很了解对方,维持一段距离爱情未尝不可. 如果处在萌芽阶段,在陷入太深之前最好找机会多见面,如果没有这个条件就还是趁早算了吧.</HTML>

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guest · 2002-01-08

Re: Jane

<HTML>多谢jazz的忠告! 也祝你一切顺利!</HTML>

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