Do you believe that people could change?

[Rabbit]

最初由 Chinese 发布
江山易改,本性难移.

可能刚开始那两天记得就改两下子, 后来就什么都忘了. 原型必露!

你受骗了

人非圣贤，竖能无过。知错必改，善莫大盐。:blink:

又回到无休止的争论中，你相信人性本善还是人性本恶 :blink:

 

[wuwei]

人之初性本饿

 

[oread]

最初由 AfterDie 发布
he need 2nd, you give 3rd, YDFR :blink:

Next time at YS, I ask 100, you give me 200, YDFR.

 

[oread]

Re: Re: Do you believe that people could change?

You read my mind.

最初由 icedfish 发布

小毛病能改，本性难移

 

[March]

有时候不计较是因为不在乎。

 

[oread]

Of course, I'm talking about things or people that we DO care. Who has time for those that we don't care about.

 

[March]

真care的，小毛病改不改无所谓，大毛病反正是改不了的了。

 

[oread]

This contradicts what you said earlier.

 

[March]

怎么矛盾了？我不是说分人分事吗？再说人会变和试图去改变别人也是两回事啊。

 

[oread]

I wasn't asking "can you change other people", I was asking if people could change.
You believe that people could change, but "大毛病反正是改不了的了". Isn't that contradictory?
分人分事 = 没说

 

[Riven]

Yes, 任何自然界的物体，给它足够的压力，都会变形

 

[阿搜]

问题是不是总是有压力的。

压力来自于人的话，给压力的那个人岂不是很累。



楼主说的肯定不是小毛病了，小毛病谁在乎啊。
大毛病呢，我是把人看死的。(说的有点难听,但是是事实)

只有类似生与死的考验才可能改变...

 

[逆水行舟]

People are all changing, it's not necessary caused only by pressure. Education, age, life experience......day after day, year after year, do you think that you are still the same person who just walked out from university?

 

[逆水行舟]

最初由 渐渐 发布


Next time at YS, I ask 100, you give me 200, YDFR.

$200 too few le, should be priceless, money can't buy, zhi hao
YDFR take it, do not mention money......:blink:

 

[oread]

Yes and no, I'm not the same person fresh out of college, but my principles stay the same more or less, so far. So in that sense, I'm still the same person. People don't really change, it's probably built in our DNAs.

p.s. Principles refer to those foundational beliefs that form who you are.