expecting the unexpected

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Then maybe the one you care about would get hurt...

最初由 Justin Luo 发布
but why should I get hurt? I want to be the one happy ... ...

 

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but when you find out they dont' care, I feel the pain doesn't worth it.

 

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Well, if that's the case, then I don't have anything to say. It'll give you more pain if you feel regretful afterwards. If you've done or decided to do something, and that's for the good of the one you care about, then do it. If it turns out eventually to be a pity, then forget about it. Nobody can tell beforehand if it's going to worth it or not. That's the complexity of life. Sometimes you bear the pain like what a mature adult should do, you'll feel good in the long term. My experience.

最初由 Justin Luo 发布
but when you find out they dont' care, I feel the pain doesn't worth it.

 

[无忧黄雨]

最初由 Justin Luo 发布
but when you find out they dont' care, I feel the pain doesn't worth it.

how did you know?

love is like a box of ~~~~ what the~~

I mean love is like a stock market~~~~~

 

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最初由 无忧黄雨 发布


how did you know?

love is like a box of ~~~~ what the~~

I mean love is like a stock market~~~~~

been there, done that ...

all the lies and carelessness have been experienced.

 

[1784]

I don't know what is going on with me, but I know I am tired of changing gf every ... 6 month, because something happens, or someone changes, not to mention what or who.

but I am still looking forward to seek love. So I think I am stuck in this creepy cycle of thoughts.

 

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最初由 加猫 发布
Well, if that's the case, then I don't have anything to say. It'll give you more pain if you feel regretful afterwards. If you've done or decided to do something, and that's for the good of the one you care about, then do it. If it turns out eventually to be a pity, then forget about it. Nobody can tell beforehand if it's going to worth it or not. That's the complexity of life. Sometimes you bear the pain like what a mature adult should do, you'll feel good in the long term. My experience.

it is very encouraging. I really want it to be a two win situation, and everything works out fine. But things are just going out of control, from time to time.

 

[大头不愁]

a part of your duty in this world is getting hurt by others. You cannot avoid it--no body can. It's life, and life has highs and lows. Hope you feel better soon.

 

[1784]

I am low, so it can only get better.

thank

 

[香草的忧伤]

认真

 

[1784]

there is something has to come at the right time, too early or too late wouldn't do

 

[微积分]

eek

 

[顺其自然]

True...
After once being hurt, you just wouldn't have the courage again to love someone whole-heartedly...
and you keep reminding yourself: I might get hurt...

But here is the thing: if you were not ever serious, you definitely wouldn't have anything...
So if you asked me whether i regret after going through the whole thing.
I would say: I don't ...because this is me and ...if time goes back, I would do the same thing...

well...about love
sometimes, I think it is not about what you should do
it is more about who you are
so...don't think too much...
When the real thing comes, you would know whether you should be serious or not...
BTW...good luck..