有???铨想?教各位??...

最初由 aityes 发布


Yes, you're very correct. Since my baby was born, my sleep quality has got worse and worse (Oringally I was not easy to fall asleep either). Any good ideas about "How" to get back to sleep in 30 mins?! If not, I am really considering to give up breastfeeding since my friend whose baby ate formula could sleep through the night when she was 4 months. I don't expect "through" the night, but at least not as often as now.
BTW, I've tried to feed her formula twice (one Enfamil, one Similac)and both seem not good...(Her poos have 血晋_畹姆置谖? Any other good formula I may try? Thanks!

You had beter use concentrated formula, not powder(比较上火). Have your daughter drink Enfamil A+? I think it's the best one when I tried on my son. Anyway try 雀巢的 GoodStart concentrated formula.
 
宝宝大便有血丝是因为她对牛奶过敏,我有个朋友的宝宝就是这样,医生让妈妈不要喝牛奶如果是母乳,
如果喝奶粉要喝豆奶粉。
 
最初由 Cuteboy 发布


You had beter use concentrated formula, not powder(比较上火). Have your daughter drink Enfamil A+? I think it's the best one when I tried on my son. Anyway try 雀巢的 GoodStart concentrated formula.

我就是斤她喝 Enfamil A+ ready to eat formula 才办?有血晋便...><
 
Talk to your baby’s doctor and get his/her opinions.

If your baby is indeed allegic to milk-based formulas, he/she may suggest a hypoallergenic formula such as Nutramigen, Alimentum, and Nocate. They are more expensive, and have a unpalatable taste.

Consult your doctor before switching to a soy formula. 30-50% of infants who are allegic to cow’s milk protein are also allergic to soy protein
 
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1. 我痍母乳, ??俭15咛, 原本每天若睡前11PM痍, 下一餐大俭可?到4AM, 不知怎?搞的, 自上星期檫始, 半夜???成每2?半小?就醒?一次, 因此我整?晚上要起?三次, 加加??每晚的睡眠呗4?小?都不到(??至多可能也只睡4?小?吧),外子真3-4?月???成樘高峰期, 但奇怪的是白天???不?吵著要吃(有?甚至可4小?才吃一次), 不知各位痍母乳的???有?此?铨? 胗著年硷的增樘, ??半夜醒?的次?不是?越?越少?? 我家??似乎相反....

2. ??近?醒著就要吃手, 不知?斤她塞奶嘴亦或?她擂理吃手吧?

Thanks!

首先,著著各位??的?倨意?.
一星期??乎每晚都?法入睡, 昨晚陪先生商量後, 我?剿於忍痛?定要斤???奶, 但似乎?想像的那???...
昨晚我先吞了二铟安眠?, ?痍食??的事??交代先生後就上床, 檫始?效起了?作用?我钷昏昏的, 但?是睡不著迂, ?三?小?後??大哭醒?, 原本"??"要先生痍的, 但我?是起?了, 因?吞了?所以不敢痍她母奶, 钷昏沉沉起?泡奶痍奶, ??表?很好喝完後褚上就又入睡了, 但接著我就更?了...
钷持理昏沉但依沛睡不著, 接著檫始?奶,疼痛?法入睡,六?多??揠法只好起床洗澡, 用手?了?奶出?, 腠然?是很?但就不敢斤??吃, 因?怕安眠??效?在,就呃?又痍了第二次Formula. ??又再度睡著
八?多??就醒了, 而我也?是?睡,俭十?多?,我因奶已流的?身, 所以就再次痍了母奶, 原本的?奶??就泡?了...
想?各位??, 我如何才能?利?奶? ??唔?奶瓶不是?铨, 但我
1. ?法放心?小孩交斤老公, 半夜?是?持起?
2. 婆婆在我家?忙, 她不忍心?老公半夜起?痍 (腠然老公很容易再次入睡), 所以夜半我也不好意思入睡
3. ?奶疼痛到我?法入睡
再呃?失眠下去我怕我?崩倨, 所以我?定要?奶, 只是不知?奶??如何?理,如何才能平??奶(乳房不?因?不?奶出?而办炎, 但又不?因??出?而又回奶), 另外有?食物可以?少?奶的?!
Thanks!
 
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最初由 Cuteboy 发布
你那麽辛苦,看了让人难受,你有没有尝试用吸奶器把奶储存在奶瓶里,让宝宝喝,那你也不用涨奶那麽辛苦,如果真的决定要断奶,去问医生,打一针可以断奶了.
请参考:http://www.yaolan.com/shiqi/Infant/app/infant_topic.asp?subtopic=116&Detail=&stage=17 希望对你有帮助.

著著版主
我有朋友因打?奶?, 乳房萎矿, 所以我不敢??
想知道有?有自然的方法, 版主你是怎??奶的呢 (If you're breastfeeding as well...)
 
断奶可以逐步进行,比如刚开始,一顿喂formula,下顿喂母乳,再逐渐减少母乳,几天就可以减下来了,涨得很痛的时候可以给宝宝吃一些,但不是全部吃空,只要缓解了痛苦就行了,或者叫爸爸帮忙吸几口。
其实乳房产奶是由体内的hormone控制,是一个供求关系,宝宝吃得多,它就产得多,吃得少,它认为产这么多也没有用,自然就少了。但是一旦产奶少了,要想在恢复产量就不太可能了,所以要想清楚。

其实母乳是宝宝最好的食品,里面有宝宝需要的全部营养,还有各种抗体,宝宝吃了长的快,还可以抵抗很多疾病,所以个人建议你不要轻率的给宝宝断奶,这对只有3-4个月的宝宝是一件很残忍的事。
至于“my friend whose baby ate formula could sleep through the night when she was 4 months”,那真的是个案,并不是什么金科玉律,也不一定适用于你的宝宝。

讲讲我自己的经验,也许你可以借鉴一下。
我家宝宝小的时候,非常爱哭,要一直抱着才可以睡觉,我和老公只好轮流抱她。后来,我把她放在大床上,我睡在旁边搂着她,让她同样有被抱着的感觉,等她睡着了以后再把手抽出来,刚开始她不习惯,又哭了起来,但是试了几次以后她慢慢的就习惯了。
再后来,在她刚睡的时候也不用搂着她了,因为经过逐步的训练,她已经懂得妈妈就在身边,不抱着也可以睡着了。偶尔醒来看见妈妈在身边,也不哭闹,如果饿了,就哼哼唧唧,我起来喂她,如果不饿,自己又睡去了。这样每天她都和我睡,两人都睡得很安稳。只是爸爸有些委屈,要到别的地方去睡。等到宝宝大了一些,自己睡小床也可以“sleep through the night”。

把奶挤出来放在奶瓶里,晚上交给爸爸打理也不失为一个好办法,夫妻之间没有什么不好意思的,婆婆那边的工作应该让爸爸去做,照顾孩子本来就应该夫妻分担的,而且相信爸爸可以做的很好,没有什么放心不下的。这样可以考虑到别的房间去睡,减少宝宝对你的干扰。
如果奶又涨,又紧张宝宝,那真的是很难睡着的。只要放轻心情,睡之前喝杯牛奶,听点轻音乐,使很容易睡着的。如果实在睡不着,可以考虑起来干的什么,看看小说,或者做些本来要放到第二天才做的事,等到睡意来了,就可以睡着了。但千万不到太过于劳累,或者太兴奋,这样就更难以入睡了。

宝宝容易醒,有可能是因为吃得不太饱的缘故。睡前那一顿可以考虑多喂一些,象前面网友说的喂完后竖抱,拍一拍,打了嗝就没事了。从前有个朋友告诉我说,在下午到晚上之间,可以考虑少喂一些,或者在宝宝饿的时候喂点水先骗一骗,到了八点多宝宝要睡觉时,给他多喂一些,再和他玩会儿(因为吃得太饱胃会不舒服,消化了些就可以哄他睡了),这样宝宝可以睡很长一段时间。
因为我家宝宝没有这个问题,所以没有使用过,你可以试一试。

无论哪种方法,都要坚持上一段时间才会有效果,不要一天两天就放弃了,这样都不会有什么作用的。

从前基本都是在潜水,大约也是做了妈妈,有所感触,说的多了些,希望可以有所帮助。Good Luck!
 
是啊,我宝宝喝formula, 晚上还是要起夜喝1-2次奶,即使每次都吃饱了。小孩其部起夜,是个体差异,不一定formula 喂就不起夜。

楼上妈妈的建议很值得参考。

既然你的奶很好,就别轻易断奶,临睡前用吸奶器吸一些存起来,晚上请爸爸帮忙喂。

妈妈有时别太着急上火, 合理安排一下,对宝宝和妈妈都好,其实宝宝好,最终也是妈妈好,妈妈的健康对宝宝很重要,所以,看你现在的情况,最好晚上就不要起夜了,否则,白天情绪也不好, 对宝宝也有影响,最主要,长此以往,会影响到你自己的身体和情绪。



"至于“my friend whose baby ate formula could sleep through the night when she was 4 months”,那真的是个案,并不是什么金科玉律,也不一定适用于你的宝宝。"
 
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我的宝宝开始也是夜里醒得频繁,后来采用了一个方法.Starting from 2 months,晚上睡前让她练爬.这么小的孩子当然不会爬,所以需要妈妈手顶住她的小脚.注意不能太用力,力气足够她爬动就可以了.否则会伤害她.每晚10-15分钟.宝宝会哭得很伤心,所以需要妈妈狠心一点.待她累了,赶紧给她洗澡,喂奶,一定要让她吃饱了.宝宝会睡得很香,时间也相对长了.不要怕她哭,哭可以炼肺活量.这个方法是我的做妇产科医生的婆婆教的,还是挺有效的.
 
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最初由 aityes 发布


著著版主
我有朋友因打?奶?, 乳房萎矿, 所以我不敢??
想知道有?有自然的方法, 版主你是怎??奶的呢 (If you're breastfeeding as well...)

得一步步慢慢来,千万不要急,and relaxing.
 
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最初由 Cuteboy 发布


得一步步慢慢来,千万不要急,and relaxing.

Thanks for the opinions from all mothers, I really appreciate.
Well, after several days insomnia, I finally decided to quit breastfeeding...It's a very hard decision, however, it's the best solution I can think after discussing with my family doctor. She said 4 month breastfeeding is enough though it's not the BEST. I know I have a lot of milk, but I can't feed her...I feel so quilty so I haven't fed my baby any formula since then (My mother in law or my husband did it for me).
Now my baby has formula around 11PM and she wakes up around 4AM. Actually, she's behaving very well, but I just can't fall asleep any more...While she's sleeping, I still can't sleep. I don't know what I am worrying about, I really don't know...
I've taken sleeping pills (from my family doctor) for 2 nights. I don't know whether I will need the third one tonight. God! Please don't...It's been a long time I didn't experience the "taste" of "sleep"...
Am I sick?!
 
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最初由 aityes 发布


Thanks for the opinions from all mothers, I really appreciate.
Well, after several days insomnia, I finally decided to quit breastfeeding...It's a very hard decision, however, it's the best solution I can think after discussing with my family doctor. She said 4 month breastfeeding is enough though it's not the BEST. I know I have a lot of milk, but I can't feed her...I feel so quilty so I haven't fed my baby any formula since then (My mother in law or my husband did it for me).
Now my baby has formula around 11PM and she wakes up around 4AM. Actually, she's behaving very well, but I just can't fall asleep any more...While she's sleeping, I still can't sleep. I don't know what I am worrying about, I really don't know...
I've taken sleeping pills (from my family doctor) for 2 nights. I don't know whether I will need the third one tonight. God! Please don't...It's been a long time I didn't experience the "taste" of "sleep"...
Am I sick?!

是啊, 你太焦虑啦,真替你着急。不要以为月子之后身体就完全好了,其实身体还是需要恢复一段时间的,所以它还不够强壮,你不能总这样焦虑、不睡觉,否则,太伤身体。记住:身体伤的容易,恢复难。

既然已经作了选择-断奶,就应该enjoy现在的所有安排,enjoy孩子的变化,enjoy孩子的成长,enjoy你这个改变后所带来的一切好的变化,不要放弃不掉那些虚拟状态:假如不断奶会怎样,现在断奶将来怎样...,其实不管怎样,妈妈的身、心健康才是宝宝最重要的。
 
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最初由 aityes 发布


支持你的决定,每天晚上睡前洗个热水澡,然后用温热的水泡双脚,再喝杯温奶,最后躺在床上,用耳机听英文,法文,或者西班牙文的tape/cd等等,闭上眼睛,不要理会任何事情,全情投入睡眠当中,再数数,希望你作个好梦.
Good luck!
 
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最初由 Cuteboy 发布
最初由 aityes 发布


支持你的决定,每天晚上睡前洗个热水澡,然后用温热的水泡双脚,再喝杯温奶,最后躺在床上,用耳机听英文,法文,或者西班牙文的tape/cd等等,闭上眼睛,不要理会任何事情,全情投入睡眠当中,再数数,希望你作个好梦.
Good luck!

再次著著版主及各位??
?在我已接受心理?物治?, 希望能很快能恢?正常作息...
Once I recover, I will share my experience with everyone. Good luck to myself and every mother!
 
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