并非虚构-我们身边的故事

[promise]

最初由 ottawax 发布
朋友孩子的学校要求卖巧克力募捐，他妈妈让他在公寓里敲门卖：嘱咐她要是中国人开门，就说对不起，要不是中国人再卖。

各位听了有何感受？我感觉有点说不出的滋味

偶觉得这位母亲的做法没有什么不妥。因为毕竟中西文化不同。

对于西人，都有在西方/加拿大长大的经历，因为，他们在小学时也卖过巧克力；而对于中国人，尤其是在中国长大的移民而且家庭中没有（过）在这里读小学的家庭来说，可能就不知道这里的小孩给学校卖巧克力的传统/习惯，就有可能感到奇怪或不理解的。

偶不认为这位母亲是种族歧视。

 

[如假包换的马甲]

最初由 zjhclh 发布
中国人不向中国人要钱,好样的.

 

[ccc]

Re: Re: 并非虚构-我们身边的故事

最初由 promise 发布


偶觉得这位母亲的做法没有什么不妥。因为毕竟中西文化不同。

对于西人，都有在西方/加拿大长大的经历，因为，他们在小学时也卖过巧克力；而对于中国人，尤其是在中国长大的移民而且家庭中没有（过）在这里读小学的家庭来说，可能就不知道这里的小孩给学校卖巧克力的传统/习惯，就有可能感到奇怪或不理解的。

偶不认为这位母亲是种族歧视。

This was my point too. Agree.

 

[如假包换的马甲]

最初由 对不起，他是我的 发布
wtf , 遇到过几次，都是外国小孩在卖巧克力，每次我和我朋友都买了，不为别的，为了让小孩子看到人性好的一面，如果你那朋友是老外，呵呵，给我了一个不再买巧克力的理由了！ 下次遇见他家小孩卖巧克力，1。不买2。laugh at him 3。 随手把钱丢给路旁的乞丐，哈哈，当然是大张的！！！

because LZ is a self-loathing SOB.

Piece of Advie To LZ: Just Loath yourself, don't drag all the Chinese with you.

 

[如假包换的马甲]

Re: Re: Re: 并非虚构-我们身边的故事

最初由 anti-virus 发布


I do not normally buy their chocolate. What I do not understand is what the mom was trying to teach the innocent kid. As far as I know -and I am hoping that the kids selling their chocolate bars would aslo agree - it is hard to sell them to just any adult, regardless it is to the Chinese or the Canadian. Most of their chocolates are are "sold" to their friends, their parents and people whom they know. cheers.

Exactly, that's why I said the Mom is a bitch---Mostly to his son. I feel sorry for his son having such a narrow mother.

 

[promise]

最初由 dropinto 发布
中国人普遍比较麻木。

既不会感动别人，也不会感动自己

钗头凤・陆游

红酥手，黄辉酒，满城春色宫墙柳。
东风恶，欢情薄，一怀愁绪，几年离索。
错，错，错！

春如旧，人空瘦，泪痕红?鲛绡透。
桃花落，闲池阁，山盟虽在，锦书难托。
莫，莫，莫！

　　陆游的《钗头凤》词，是一篇“风流千古”的佳作，它描述了一个动人的爱情悲剧。据《历代诗馀》载，陆游年轻时娶表妹唐婉为妻，感情深厚。但因陆母不喜唐婉，威逼二人各自另行嫁娶。十年之后的一天，陆游沈园春游，与唐婉不期而遇。此情此景，陆游“怅然久之，为赋《钗头凤》一词，题园壁间。”这便是这首词的来历。

传说，唐婉见了这首《钗头凤》词后，感慨万端，亦提笔和《钗头凤・世情薄》词一首。不久，唐婉竟因愁怨而死。


钗头凤・唐婉

世情薄，人情恶，雨送黄昏花易落。
晓风乾，泪痕残，欲笺心事，独语斜栏。
难，难，难！

人成各，今非昨，病魂常似秋千索。
角声寒，夜阑珊，怕人寻问，咽泪装欢。
瞒，瞒，瞒！


又过了四十年，陆游七十多岁了，仍怀念唐婉，重游沈园，并作成《沈园》诗二首。 　


沈园・陆游


　　　其一

　　　　　　城上斜阳画角哀，

　　　　　　沈园非复旧池台。

　　　　　　伤心桥下春波绿，

　　　　　　曾是惊鸿照影来。


　　　　　　　　　其二

　　　　　　梦断香消四十年，

　　　　　　沈园柳老不吹绵。

　　　　　　此身行作稽山土，

　　　　　　尤吊遗踪一泫然。




http://www.hongen.com/edu/shfz/clwq/sa012003.htm

 

[ottawax]

very quick to change your cover, as quick as lightning, from bitch to SOB.

最初由 如假包换的马甲 发布


because LZ is a self-loathing SOB.

Piece of Advie To LZ: Just Loath yourself, don't drag all the Chinese with you.

 

[mooncake]

Re: Re: 并非虚构-我们身边的故事

最初由 promise 发布


偶觉得这位母亲的做法没有什么不妥。因为毕竟中西文化不同。

对于西人，都有在西方/加拿大长大的经历，因为，他们在小学时也卖过巧克力；而对于中国人，尤其是在中国长大的移民而且家庭中没有（过）在这里读小学的家庭来说，可能就不知道这里的小孩给学校卖巧克力的传统/习惯，就有可能感到奇怪或不理解的。

偶不认为这位母亲是种族歧视。

对，这位母亲没错，不管是洋人还是国人，都至少尊重对方的价值观。中国人的价值观和洋人不一样有什么错？况且住apartment的中国人收入普遍不高，生活压力比本地人大得多。错的是搂住，以为又找到嘲笑中国人的把柄了。结果被众人一通臭骂，活该。

 

[如假包换的马甲]

最初由 ottawax 发布
very quick to change your cover, as quick as lightning, from bitch to SOB.

You don't understand what S.O.B means, do you? Otherwise, how does you being a SOB excludes you from being a bitch? of course, except you don't understand the simple biological concept of inheritance. Either way could prove your stupidity.

 

[如假包换的马甲]

Re: Re: Re: 并非虚构-我们身边的故事

最初由 mooncake 发布

错的是搂住，以为又找到嘲笑中国人的把柄了。结果被众人一通臭骂，活该。

就是，那个MOM当着他的面侮辱，歧视中国人，本来就是不给他面子，不把他当回事。谁知此君不但不以为意，自己给人打了巴掌还要好好反省是他自己的事，还要非要全体中国人跟他一样。谁知大部分人都不像他那样喜欢作践自己。讨骂的主。

本人遇到不少年轻的白人男女向我讨钱，我都经常没有拒绝。难道我不是中国人？

 

[ottawax]

Better learn how to speak and write first
are you so stupid to learn a bit basic first???????

"how does you being a SOB excludes you from being a bitch?"
maybe it apply to you only, who else is agree with your reasoning? certainly not me

admitted her/himself/ her mom are bitches

she think Chinese not only won't buy but also will bully her son???

最初由 如假包换的马甲 发布


You don't understand what S.O.B means, do you? Otherwise, how does you being a SOB excludes you from being a bitch? of course, except you don't understand the simple biological concept of inheritance. Either way could prove your stupidity.

 

[京华倦客]

多假算假？以为我没卖过啊？贱了吧唧一给就是一盒。一盒啊！那什么概念啊！好几十块儿呢！这儿又不是国内，人多。哪个学校不是就近招生啊，有时候和trick or treat时候似的，一来好几拨儿，伺候得起么

 

[如假包换的马甲]

最初由 ottawax 发布
Better learn how to speak and write first
are you so stupid to learn a bit basic first???????

"how does you being a SOB excludes you from being a bitch?"
maybe it apply to you only, who else is agree with your reasoning? certainly not me

admitted her/himself/ her mom are bitches

she think Chinese not only won't buy but also will bully her son???

what is wrong? what you don't understand?

'does'? This is address to "you being a SOB" so it's a concept not you that I was talking about there. Guess you are too grammatically simple to understand.

forgot to put 's,ing' at the end? --come on, this is CFC, not grammar class, do I have to be so careful, formal and rigid, otherwise you won't understand? that's really robotic of you.

 

[王牌间谍]

最初由 promise 发布


因为中国人有古训：“己所不欲，勿施于人”

呵呵，中国的古训现在还有几个是被人们遵循的了？ 只能说世道不一样了~

 

[ottawax]

you are simply an idiot and beyond reasoning, poor illiterate!

最初由 如假包换的马甲 发布


what is wrong? what you don't understand?

'does'? This is address to "you being a SOB" so it's a concept not you that I was talking about there. Guess you are too grammatically simple to understand.

forgot to put 's,ing' at the end? --come on, this is CFC, not grammar class, do I have to be so careful, formal and rigid, otherwise you won't understand? that's really robotic of you.