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In my case,从怀孕，生孩子，坐月子和带孩子几乎全是我自己独立承担，my husband was really busy,couldn't take care of us,he hasn't changed any diapers for my son so far.
因为我老公也不在家吃饭的，月子里，我都是用微波炉加热老公预先做好的一大锅食物，吃多少就拿多少出来，自己做些饭和蔬菜，有时候炖些汤喝。月子后的几个月，我时常一只手抱着儿子，另一只手做饭或者吃东西。现在我儿子3岁了，他属于比较好动的，但我也就这样过来了，期间我还照看别人家的宝宝们。：）
人总是想有个依赖的好，但不是每个人都那麽幸运有父母或者公公婆婆帮忙的。就算雇人也不一定合乎自己的心意，对吧。某些情况而言，靠人不如靠自己吧。
I agreed what you said. I also at the same stage like you. My husband left me when I was pregnant, i sleep alone everynight, up and down go to toilet in the midnight, nobody know even fell down few times.
My husband only appear when i gave birth in the hospital. I couldnt give birth naturally because of my baby's size even i pain for more than 16 hours. I didnt cry and feel difficult even i was alone everynight in the hospital because i feel very happy to see my son.
After coming home, I take care my son for 24hrs until today he is 7months old now. I'm still breast feeding for him, wake up more than 3 times in the midnight. I didnt go anywhere beside medical checkup once a month for my son.
Lucky that I dont need to take care and worry husband anymore, I only need to cook for my son and myself everyday.
Bath for him, play with him, read books when breast feeding. I feel very happy to have this son, he brings me hope and happiness. Sorry to him that I cried sometimes when i was pregnant, I shouldnt do that.
The most important is take care ourself for taking care our son.
Wish everybody is happy forever with your lovely child.
听说若用真诚心求子女，观音菩萨就会感应到，并会给您送个乖娃娃。嘻嘻！特此把这首歌送给即将生宝宝的姐妹们。愿菩萨给你们送个健康活泼又可爱的宝宝。把这首歌也送给每一位为宝宝辛勤无私付出的妈妈们，愿您们和家欢乐，幸福平安！
