Yeah. That will happen sooner or later. That's why 80% international marriage ended with divorce.
You Chinese girls (especially in China) don't know what is the culture in western countries. I have been in north america for 10 years. Let me give you some of your common misunderstandings.
1. Most Chinese ladies think "Equal" means "Equivalent". For example, I cook today, then you should cook tomorrow. I comfort the kids to bed, and you should get up early and prepare breakfirst. You girls are wrong. "Equal" means equal responsibility. Man has man's responsibiltiy. Woman has woman's reponsibility. Taking your own responsibility means EQUAL and FAIR. Supporting a family is the responisibility of man. If you try to work hard and support the family, that's not right. If you are very smart and energetic, you can find something to do on top of your family responsibilities.
2. Canadians value the family a lot. Statistics shows that 89% married couples only married once, 10% married twice, and only 1% married more than two times. The rule for the marriage in western countries is to marry and to take your responsibility. Otherwise stay single. Most Chinese girls look at marriage as a way to relax and to be lazy or to find somebody to lean on. Marriage is the result of love. Marriage can only continue if you obey the rules of marriage. Looking for irresponsible freedom in a marriage makes both suffering.
3. .... (you name the rest)
