在加拿大不能帮忙的几件事 - ZT [转贴]

出国后,大家好象更不信任EACH OTHER了。
 
这跟信任不信任无关.是法律责任的问题.
Redfox也做过租房子的co-signer(不能看着朋友没地方住),但条件是朋友必须买
房子保险,Redfox不想万一出什么事,法庭来收Redfox的房子抵债.
 
最初由 ...... 发布
出国后,大家好象更不信任EACH OTHER了。

tell the truth, nobody 信任 you!
 
All fucking selfish nonsense!! (except the third point which I don't know)

This class of people always try to grow their little brain, try to be "smart" and "wise" on life, what is life? Life is your bank account per your view!

Anything involving money and benifit would show your ugly face and selfish personality. Please don't try to be "SMART" any more, please don't post this kind of ugly shit any more teaching others how to live their life.

A stupid cheap car and couple thousand dollars insurance money would make you turn your cold ugly face to even your best friend! Best friend?? Do you even have fucking "best" friend? You wouldn't even trust your parents and your wife, I believe.

Get this shit off the web, please! This kind of shit would only make our community uglier and worse place.

"Credit is important in Canada", what do you need the most? I would suggest you to find the fundamental character of being a man and a citizen in the society. What you really lack and what the society really needs is integrity, honesty and a daring, caring and loving heart which makes a man. Not the fucking vehicle asset or your bank credit or insurance dollars which is fucking useless when Titanic is sinking, when World Trade Center is collapsing, when others is really in need....

Shut up your smart speech, please! The society doesn't need people being smart and the creation of the fucking "smart" game rules, pretending to be legal, honest, or being a decent man in streets.

Our community needs brave fire-fighters who put their own safety after others, our community needs people to give blood when somebody is in accident, our community needs neighbours and friends care and love each other. We need love!

Get out of here! Red fox, along with your fucking good credit and excellent driving record.. get out of here!




最初由 Redfox 发布
我自己来了多年,有几件事情不管是什么好朋友都不可以帮忙:

1)不借车给别人开。我可以开车帮忙。因为出了事情坏的是我的信用和保险纪录。

2)不替人做co-sign担保。一般人刚来时没有credit,租车买车,开信用卡,做个人贷款都可以找一个已经有信用史的人共同申请,叫做co-sign,如果出了问题,co-sign的人是要负责到底的。

3)不做professional referrence,只做personal referrence.有时候找工作雇主希望应聘者提供三个本地的reference。有的朋友希望我能够做professional referrence, 证明她/他的专业水平达到本地相应水平。雇主打电话来,我只能说:“我只是从个人角度了解到这个朋友,他/她做事情认真,刻苦,的确是从哪个学校毕业等等,他/她以前在那些单位工作过,但我没有和他/她共过事。”如果我说谎,这位雇主手头有我工作单位,电话,部门等,这个世界很小。我以后也不用给其他人做reference了。

这些都牵涉到信用问题。而信用在加拿大对一个人是很重要的
 
主要是那些有房子,有资产的人害怕担责任,一下把自己的老本都拖进去.

象俺这样的穷人,无产阶级,无所谓.
 
Re: Re: 在加拿大不能帮忙的几件事 - ZT [转贴]

先引下来. 如果去掉脏话, 还是有些道理.


最初由 hxp417 发布
All fucking selfish nonsense!! (except the third point which I don't know)

This class of people always try to grow their little brain, try to be "smart" and "wise" on life, what is life? Life is your bank account per your view!

Anything involving money and benifit would show your ugly face and selfish personality. Please don't try to be "SMART" any more, please don't post this kind of ugly shit any more teaching others how to live their life.

A stupid cheap car and couple thousand dollars insurance money would make you turn your cold ugly face to even your best friend! Best friend?? Do you even have fucking "best" friend? You wouldn't even trust your parents and your wife, I believe.

Get this shit off the web, please! This kind of shit would only make our community uglier and worse place.

"Credit is important in Canada", what do you need the most? I would suggest you to find the fundamental character of being a man and a citizen in the society. What you really lack and what the society really needs is integrity, honesty and a daring, caring and loving heart which makes a man. Not the fucking vehicle asset or your bank credit or insurance dollars which is fucking useless when Titanic is sinking, when World Trade Center is collapsing, when others is really in need....

Shut up your smart speech, please! The society doesn't need people being smart and the creation of the fucking "smart" game rules, pretending to be legal, honest, or being a decent man in streets.

Our community needs brave fire-fighters who put their own safety after others, our community needs people to give blood when somebody is in accident, our community needs neighbours and friends care and love each other. We need love!

Get out of here! Red fox, along with your fucking good credit and excellent driving record.. get out of here!




 
Re: Re: Re: 在加拿大不能帮忙的几件事 - ZT [转贴]

最初由 小贱贱 发布
先引下来. 如果去掉脏话, 还是有些道理.



有什么道理?完全是胡乱推理加jump to conclusion.不作co-signer的人不见得就不会去献血,作co-signer的何以就一定会去献血?下次谁想学车找fire fighter试试,人家未必在这种事上会帮你.

帮助别人是对的,应该鼓励的.但是用"毫不利己,专门利人"的高标准要求人,能建设出什么样的社会?中国已经尝试过了.

海子转贴的一篇关于社会道德标准的文章很有道理.无时不刻地要斗私批修的社会产生不了圣人,只能制造口是心非的小人.
 
What really embarrassed me and disappointed me is -- none of your guys did put a single criticism word onto this ugly shit, (except "......" guy felt some sadness), you Ottawa men and women all indulged into the little stupid personal benefits and forgot what is the true value we should treasure in our society. What a shame! All of you turned blind to the ugly shit under the hood of "honest" and "wisdom".

Most of you guys dipped into the useless technical arguments to those details of personal gaining or lose, which is nothing to our society as a whole. Do we need to calculate every penny we would gain or lose in any circumstances? People at Bank of Canada or Toronto's Bay Street would do a much better job than any of you guys! Don't try to grow your pathetic little brain any more, every kindergarten kid knows to grab candy from others and put in his/her own mouse. We don't need to teach our kids or new comers this ugly human weakness any more!

Yes, none of us has a holy spirit, but we should at least be able to distinguish between right and wrong, ugly and beautiful, stink and fragrant! Feel really shameful of your guys living in our nation's capital. The clear Ottawa River and white snow didn't clean any of you.
 
最初由 hxp417 发布
What really embarrassed me and disappointed me is -- none of your guys did put a single criticism word onto this ugly shit, (except "......" guy felt some sadness), you Ottawa men and women all indulged into the little stupid personal benefits and forgot what is the true value we should treasure in our society. What a shame! All of you turned blind to the ugly shit under the hood of "honest" and "wisdom".

Most of you guys dipped into the useless technical arguments to those details of personal gaining or lose, which is nothing to our society as a whole. Do we need to calculate every penny we would gain or lose in any circumstances? People at Bank of Canada or Toronto's Bay Street would do a much better job than any of you guys! Don't try to grow your pathetic little brain any more, every kindergarten kid knows to grab candy from others and put in his/her own mouse. We don't need to teach our kids or new comers this ugly human weakness any more!

Yes, none of us has a holy spirit, but we should at least be able to distinguish between right and wrong, ugly and beautiful, stink and fragrant! Feel really shameful of your guys living in our nation's capital. The clear Ottawa River and white snow didn't clean any of you.

Nice to see you are talking about "holy spirit". Amen, brother.

Please keep it in your mind: Ottawa men or women, none of them is under your judgement. "Be not judges of others, and you will not be judged."
 
跟楼上hxp417:

实在不知你究竟想表达哈么?
你的意思是我们的COMMUNITY 应该向三箭客那样,“我为人人,人人为我”?
另外,你不是想一竿子打扁所有OTTAWA 中国人吧?
 
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