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You never know what kind of neighbour you will have, just try to let it go, make youself happy.
if they do something, then you do something back...... after all of all, you won't be happy at all. Understand your feeling very much. but sometime we all have bad luck. you will have good luck at other way.
首先谢谢大家关心！本来都是道听途说得到一些知识，也没空去查。现在情况比较清楚了。 希望本贴也可以对有类似问题的人们提供一点借鉴。
事情从头说起，我们刚搬入新居时，没有任何打算去做FENCE。从心理讲，本人非常喜欢后院由大家SHARE，既敞亮又省事，也便于邻居相互交流。可是，我们的左邻居要建FENCE，还希望我们和他SHARE 他的石头小道。因为，他自己将后院全部铺成水泥地。而我们全是草地。尽管对我们没有好处，我们也答应了。但是当左右两边建FENCE时，都尽量向我的这一边靠。搞得我们大约损失15-20公分。这就是我们要做好邻居的结果。事情不大， 但反映了老外邻居的心态，让我们很不舒服。
当我们做我们的第三面时，有人告诉我们（和西西妈说得一样）要向后让6英寸。为了防止以后的纠纷，我们就建了可移动的FENCE，随时可调 （实际上当时我们已经让了10公分左右）。现在后面的邻居既使用了我们的FENCE，又提出异议。我们准备将FENCE向后撤，直到满足市政府的法律要求。
另外，尽管大家崇尚中华美德， 我觉得“让他三尺又何妨”在这里，绝对不适用。那是站着说话不腰痛。你自己让让试试！
事情从头说起，我们刚搬入新居时，没有任何打算去做FENCE。从心理讲，本人非常喜欢后院由大家SHARE，既敞亮又省事，也便于邻居相互交流。可是，我们的左邻居要建FENCE，还希望我们和他SHARE 他的石头小道。因为，他自己将后院全部铺成水泥地。而我们全是草地。尽管对我们没有好处，我们也答应了。但是当左右两边建FENCE时，都尽量向我的这一边靠。搞得我们大约损失15-20公分。这就是我们要做好邻居的结果。事情不大， 但反映了老外邻居的心态，让我们很不舒服。
当我们做我们的第三面时，有人告诉我们（和西西妈说得一样）要向后让6英寸。为了防止以后的纠纷，我们就建了可移动的FENCE，随时可调 （实际上当时我们已经让了10公分左右）。现在后面的邻居既使用了我们的FENCE，又提出异议。我们准备将FENCE向后撤，直到满足市政府的法律要求。
另外，尽管大家崇尚中华美德， 我觉得“让他三尺又何妨”在这里，绝对不适用。那是站着说话不腰痛。你自己让让试试！
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The fencing issue has always been there, and addressed by different laws or regulations since 200 years ago... 
There is a saying "Good fencing makes good neighbors."
Did anyone find the regulation from Ottawa City By-law about this "要向后让6英寸" term? I couldn't find it and believe it's a practical way for both neighbors to get the chance to fix a fence from the other side.
From the view of the property's ownership, my understanding is that you don't have to make the 6-inch room if you don't worrying about repairing the fence from the other side in future - as long as you erect your fence along the property line on your side...
There is a saying "Good fencing makes good neighbors."Did anyone find the regulation from Ottawa City By-law about this "要向后让6英寸" term? I couldn't find it and believe it's a practical way for both neighbors to get the chance to fix a fence from the other side.
From the view of the property's ownership, my understanding is that you don't have to make the 6-inch room if you don't worrying about repairing the fence from the other side in future - as long as you erect your fence along the property line on your side...
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发这一贴的目的，一是向大家学习这方面的知识，另一方面，也给后来者提个醒，到时候遇到同样情况，如何合理合法的处理，又要出了这口气。[/quote]
there is one true story, because the cost was not agreed with both side, my manager thought talk about it later then she went on vacation, after she back, her neighbour already built the fance, but they paint her side black. (my manager is black). then the lawyer was involved, took about two years, spent money for sure(I don't know how much!) the lawyer said they did built the fance inside their property, you cannot do anything..... the problem is after all of all, no solution.
If you really angry, took the fance off, leave it open, or plan the trees, and never cut the branch which in their side.
there is one true story, because the cost was not agreed with both side, my manager thought talk about it later then she went on vacation, after she back, her neighbour already built the fance, but they paint her side black. (my manager is black). then the lawyer was involved, took about two years, spent money for sure(I don't know how much!) the lawyer said they did built the fance inside their property, you cannot do anything..... the problem is after all of all, no solution.
If you really angry, took the fance off, leave it open, or plan the trees, and never cut the branch which in their side.
There are many post about build fence with neighbours. I believe the best way is to share with neighbour and make sure the fence is on property line. If your enghbour want to build a fence, share with them. If they don't want a fence, just wait. They may just don't have the money at the moment. Just decide go on your own, don't complain later.
