申请探亲签证怎么那么难！！

[artart]

我妈妈也被拒拉。。。：《

 

[artart]

请问楼主为什么被拒的？

 

[QBoy&Girl^_^]

生老大时带宝宝，做饭，家务，都是我1个人，老公也帮不上忙。生老二时第1个月老公只负责带老大出外，照顾宝宝，做饭，家务也是我。生后第2周，就带老大去学游泳，呵呵，没有坐月子的概念了。有人帮忙固然好，靠自己也没有不好的.

加油姊妹们！

 

[绿袖子]

给姐妹们打打气，真的，大家都能行的。我没生老大之前看有人自己带孩子，觉得真是了不起。
后来我也得自己带两个了，老大那个时候也才刚一岁半，我觉得自己也能坚持下来。我还到处做"广告"，跟和我探讨育儿经的姐妹们常说“没什么了不起，逼到那份儿上谁都行！”。加油吧！有问题就去查查资料，看看书，和姐妹们讨论一下，祝大家顺利轻松的享受作妈妈的感受！

 

[sunnygg]

看了很多探亲的拒签理由，都是公式一般，怕逾期不回还有就是申请人资金不足。真是没话说了。好在我一直在看怀孕和育儿的书，多少了解些，老公现在开始看月子餐的准备。
还想顺便问下，宝宝11月末出生，从医院回家的时候穿什么，穿多少才够暖？还有脐带没有掉之前，能穿连体衣吗还是就穿和尚服，下面只包尿片？

 

[Yidiandian]

楼主和我一样情况啊,我妈也是被拒两次,我还有7周预产.
只好接受事实,希望和老公两个人会弄的过来.

try to hire someone help you for few weeks.
You still have to do all the things by yourself after. My parents came help for four month, but they didn't like here...... lots of problem you never thought before. It is tough, but you will be ok.

 

[summer2007]

能生就不要怕养;父母不来也可能是好事,都那么大岁数了,我们带都嫌累,老人肯定会更累.

 

[绿袖子]

看了很多探亲的拒签理由，都是公式一般，怕逾期不回还有就是申请人资金不足。真是没话说了。好在我一直在看怀孕和育儿的书，多少了解些，老公现在开始看月子餐的准备。
还想顺便问下，宝宝11月末出生，从医院回家的时候穿什么，穿多少才够暖？还有脐带没有掉之前，能穿连体衣吗还是就穿和尚服，下面只包尿片？

医生建议新生儿所处环境18-21度为宜.出院回家就穿一般的连体服,外面在car seat上那种保暖罩子就可以.
脐带没掉之前注意清洁,穿什么都没关系.我的孩子穿的都是连体衣.

 

[sunnygg]

thanks

 

[salas88]

"他还容易吐奶，所以吃完还要拍很长时间" ----That's not a good idea to pat him for a long time at one time, you may hurt him.

 

[大漠沙如雪]

如何看出是被拒签了?

如何看出是被拒签了? 今天和家里联系了, 说是收到了从加拿大大使馆退回的签证的东西.但是除了可以看出来被打开过外, 没有任何拒签或什么的痕迹.

请问有人知道被拒签在哪里显示吗?

很急, 请回复. 多谢了.

 

[wiki]

给签证了吗？没给就是拒了呗。如果拒了应该有一封信说明理由。

 

[snow6688]

Re:

我们是父母和公婆申请都被拒了。我也是不到2个月就生了，看来只有靠自己和老公了。我们资料什么的都很齐全，感觉签证官就是骗钱的。

 

[puppy888]

It is too bad to know your parents declined.

If you are young and are a person full of energy. I guess you 2 can handle it. If you are not, it is a good idea to find someone for helping your cooking at the first month.

Somehow, I guess it is not a bad idea to hire someone to help you, if you think you really need and financial allowed. The first 1 month is really exhausted for you and your husband.

If you would like to take care by only you 2, you'd better read more books for baby feeding. It is very important. And you'd better preparing as many as food. Then you 2 can save some time for cooking. At that time you will need time for sleeping. It is very important for your producing milk. Remember let your new baby eating well and sleeping well is the most important thing at the first several months. So read more information about it. It is my experience.

Good luck and you will be fine...

 

[sunnygg]

相信我们都能战胜暂时的困难。 建议和我一样自己坐月子带孩子的妈妈们多看看书，我从怀孕开始一直看书，这会帮助新妈妈爸爸增加很多信心。