Sounds like your 剪不断 is more because of your own neediness, and not because of him being too good for you to forget. One advice that is always good to women is not to depend on man's love for their own happiness. It is not a reliable source of happiness. Consider that only as 锦上添花,生活的锦还得自己织。
If having a family and kids is a priority in your life now, then be proactive and look around, but don't waste time with someone who is not ready for you. You can't push a guy into sth he is not ready for.
so ture.....
I kind of know I can't depend on a man for my own happiness. but how come I still keep deluding myself? maybe that's why women should stop watching romantic movies and reading romantic novel.... those things are not helping...
but he does have the ability to make my heart skip a beat sometimes, and there are few men in this world that can make me feel that way.