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It's not easy to have the strength to go for a devorce. I heard too many families after devorce both sides hurt physically,emotionally, and financially. Expecially for immigrated families.
同情和理解。
名字不是nobodyknow吗？我不说，他又怎么会知道是你呢？ 在这里发泄发泄对你对他都有好处。
Be strong
Be strong, if your husband will not cooperate, living with him only cause you pain, why don't you stand up for yourself? people always say it will hurt, you are in your own shoes, only you know if you can take it anymore. You don't want your kid repeat the same pattern, do you?
No matter you stay or leave, speak your mind, do not give up your power.
Be strong, if your husband will not cooperate, living with him only cause you pain, why don't you stand up for yourself? people always say it will hurt, you are in your own shoes, only you know if you can take it anymore. You don't want your kid repeat the same pattern, do you?
No matter you stay or leave, speak your mind, do not give up your power.
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If all the love as the above describtion, that all the families will be perfect. I wish I could have that kind of husband, and I would like to try to be that way. But if only one side involved cannot be succesful. I'll try as I do usually. Sometimes I have to believe that is my destiny. I studied/worked very hard for my carrer, I believe that we should and we can control ourself. But to people, I gave up.
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不知道怎么说了。愿神赐你智慧来处理了，也愿神保守你及孩子们。
You need confidence
From what you said, I can sense your husband has some mental problem, your son can see it, you just ignored it, did you try send him to see a doctor? He has typical controlling charactor, you might need some profesional help.
If only reason you stay in the marriage is children, did you ask yourself this family will give childrean happiness or sadness? Can they grow up without copy their dad. Most likely children will repeat the pattern, you need to think about break the cycle.
If you trust your instinct, do your research, help yourself, you are lucky if he want to divorce. He need pay high price. Even you stay, let him know you are confident, he knows your weekness(not exactly, sometime too kind is weekness too) and use it against you.
Never try to find someone save you, you are a very nice woman, deserve be treated better, but only if you be mentally independent, only after you are free, otherwise you might fall in same trap. Respect came from trust.
From what you said, I can sense your husband has some mental problem, your son can see it, you just ignored it, did you try send him to see a doctor? He has typical controlling charactor, you might need some profesional help.
If only reason you stay in the marriage is children, did you ask yourself this family will give childrean happiness or sadness? Can they grow up without copy their dad. Most likely children will repeat the pattern, you need to think about break the cycle.
If you trust your instinct, do your research, help yourself, you are lucky if he want to divorce. He need pay high price. Even you stay, let him know you are confident, he knows your weekness(not exactly, sometime too kind is weekness too) and use it against you.
Never try to find someone save you, you are a very nice woman, deserve be treated better, but only if you be mentally independent, only after you are free, otherwise you might fall in same trap. Respect came from trust.
