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[oread]

Dont' indulge yourself into loving another person if you are married. A lot of times, we'll find ourselves either physically attracted to or have so much more in common with another person, but try to convince yourself that what you have is the best you could get. There are a lot of temptations around everyone, particularly in this Internet age. When you think that you deserve better, balance your desire with the level of hurt you'd bring to your significant other. If for some reason you find that you really can't stand your marriage anymore, then get a divorce first. Don't make it harder than it already is for your spouse, after all you did make a promise to love him/her when you were married. A love affair is not something that should be looked at lightly.

 

[guest]

Your ideas are very common. And because of these ideas, a lot of couples just maintain their marriage for their life time. What a pity it is! Love really has the greatest power in the world!

 

[oread]

RE: love story
Are you referring to what I said? What exactly did you mean? Are you saying that we should just follow our hearts no matter what and let marriage, promise or responsibilities go to hell? Love is a multi-facets prisma, and I think marriage is the ultimate promise of love.

 

[guest]

Life is really not so easy, you even can not love the one you want to love. That is why somebody in this bbs does not want to live any more.

 

[oread]

RE: love story
If you are only looking for an excuse to get out of your marriage, DON'T. It's a free country, do whatever pleases you, simple as that. I'm only saying, you have to take into consideration the feelings of your spouse, and maybe your children, God forbid! You did love him/her, didn't you? What about the promise you made to him/her when you married the guy/girl?? Does marriage ever mean anything to you or it's only a cheap piece of paper??? If you think you are still young, and while you are still young, why not enjoy your life, then it's your choice. Married means UNAVAILABLE! If you don't love the guy/girl anymore, get a divorce first before fooling around with your newly founded "love"! Get it?

 

[wtf]

路过~

 

[guest]

It's totally unnecessary for you to speak in such a strong way.

 

[guest]

I speak the above to Sage. Sage seems to be a man lack of patience.

 

[oread]

捶兄, 我看此人动机不良. 什麽爱不爱的, 只不过想在这儿寻找点感情支持. 有必要吗? 都是自己的选择, 爱干嘛干嘛. 结了婚的人还敢大言不惭地问能不能爱别的人? 己所不欲, 无施于人.