该怎么分开

[thinkinenglish]

同意楼上的说法。没什么过不下去的，珍惜生活，多些容忍。在这里生活挺不容易的，互相关爱吧，象对待自己家兄弟姐妹一样对待另一半。

 

[sherry710427]

要是空气中永远是火药味,随时一触即发. 不论大事小事,哪怕一句话,都要引起一场战争.然后互相刻薄,这样的生活还能过吗?

 

[anny1234]

火药味？世界大战吗？家庭里争吵肯定会有的，有人说这是生活的情趣或者是增加了解的过程。生气的时候大家都会很冲动，说出来的话口气不好，怎么都不中听，说实话，我想大家说话互相刻薄，只会使关系更加紧张，变的不好吧。俗话说一个巴掌拍不响，这时候如果一个人退一步让一下，或者干脆走开，那另一个会吵的起来吗，总不会没事找事来吵架吧，如果觉得没什么大不了的，过后忘了就算了，如果觉得真的是对方不对，那等大家心情好的时候好好谈谈，也不用一直过于纠结。这大概就是大家说的婚姻的经营之道。

 

[gettomaybe]

楼主在魁省啊。你不能向安省的法庭申请的。

 

[duane]

河东狮吼中有这么一段台词：

从现在开始你只疼我一个人，宠我，爱我，不会骗我，答应我的每一件事情你都会做到，你讲的每一句话都是真话,不会欺负我，骂我，要相信我，有人欺负我，你第一时间来帮我，我开心的时候你会陪着我开心，我不开心你哄我开心，永远都觉得我最漂亮，做梦都会梦见我，在你的心里只有我

如果你们上面这些都做到了，还是要离婚，那说明真的到了尽头；如果没做到，就说明还有不离婚的余地，为什么每个人不先检讨一下自己呢？自己为对方做了些什么？做过些什么？除了刻薄的语言？

 

[charman]

河东狮吼中有这么一段台词：

从现在开始你只疼我一个人，宠我，爱我，不会骗我，答应我的每一件事情你都会做到，你讲的每一句话都是真话,不会欺负我，骂我，要相信我，有人欺负我，你第一时间来帮我，我开心的时候你会陪着我开心，我不开心你哄我开心，永远都觉得我最漂亮，做梦都会梦见我，在你的心里只有我

如果你们上面这些都做到了，还是要离婚，那说明真的到了尽头；如果没做到，就说明还有不离婚的余地，为什么每个人不先检讨一下自己呢？自己为对方做了些什么？做过些什么？除了刻薄的语言？

如果上面的都做到了，那就真的要离婚了，这种一点火性都没有的，阴气十足的男人还是男人吗？

 

[Shi]

听说如果俩人都同意离婚，不就签个字就得，干嘛非得找律师呀？

 

[anyone8chatroom]

Everything is bonus, work like this.
Sherry, how about you do these: (sorry i can not type Chinese in this computer)
1, you treat him as visitor, of course then you two will not sleep together, this reach your goal of " apart"
2, of course once in your mind register he is the "visitor", then you treat him with respect and kind, treat him with good meal and provide him with nice room to sleep,
3, he is a visitor now, of course you will not order visitor to do anything for you, right, hei, what if you need to go out to meet friend to take a break?
you first need baby sitter, where to get baby sitter?
4, this visitor may say he is happy to watch your kid without charge, wow, this is a big bonus! there you go, bonus 1, listen carefully, from now on, going to count your bonus, you are a single mom now, everything have to do your self, ok.
5, this visitor sometime take garbage out, wow, bonus 2, you do not like the dirty heavy garbage bag,
6 winter time, snow remove, this visitor will do for you again for free without you asking, bonus 3,
7, you neighbor is very crappy, put things near your house, damage your fence park on your property, hei, your visitor may also go over to help you correct these nuisance things. bonus 4,
Sherry, keep counting your bonus form the help of this visitor and you will find the solution yourself.
good luck

 

[anyone8chatroom]

remember, don't forget to say "thank you" every time you get the bonus, ok