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一、談逆境 Adversity

- 碰到逆境时，应心生感激，这是可遇不可求啊！
碰到逆境時，應心生感激，這是可遇不可求啊！
In the face of adverstiy, be grateful, for such opportunities do not come by easily.

- 逆境、是非来临，心中要持一『宽』字。
逆境、是非來臨，心中要持一『寬』字。
When conflict and adverstiy arise, always preserve a spacious heart.

- 要原谅一个无心伤害人的人，不能做一个轻易被别人伤害的人。
要原諒一個無心傷害人的人，不能做一個輕易被別人傷害的人。
Forgive those who unintentionally hurt us. Do not be someone who is easily hurt by others.

- 人在平安的时候，很容易迷失自己。偶尔有小挫折或坎坷，反而能唤醒良知、长养善根。
人在平安的時候，很容易迷失自己。偶爾有小挫折或坎坷，反而能喚醒良知、長養善根。
When life is safe and smooth, we can easily lose our direction. Yet even a small setback or misfortune can awaken our conscience, and nurture the seeds of kindness.

——慈济釋证严
慈濟釋證嚴
-By Shi Zheng Yan

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二、谈家庭

家庭不能只追求丰富的物质生活，应着重心灵的沟通，使亲子、夫妻间和谐、圆满。[ 家庭不能只追求豐富的物質生活，應著重心靈的溝通，使親子、夫妻間和諧、圓滿。]
Do not just seek a rich material life for your family. It is more important for parent and child, and husband and wife to communicate and nurture harmonious, and close relationship.

鸟要有巢，人要有家，如果夫妻子女各居一方，何来天伦之乐？[ 鳥要有巢，人要有家，如果夫妻子女各居一方，何來天倫之樂[FONT=&quot]？[/FONT][FONT=&quot]<o></o>[/FONT]]
Birds have nests; people have homes. If family members live far apart, how can they have a happy family life?

与人相处要去除我执，扩大心胸，客客气气，互让互爱。[[FONT=黑体]與人相處要去除我執，擴大心胸，客客氣氣，互讓互愛[/FONT][FONT=&quot]。[/FONT]]
You must be free of ego when you are with others, so expand your heart, be courteous, cooperative, and loving.

人生多病！身体四大不调是病，家人吵嚷不和是病，社会动荡不安也是病。[ 人生多病！身體四大不調是病，家人吵讓不和是病，社會動盪不安也是病[FONT=&quot]。][/FONT][FONT=&quot]<o></o>[/FONT]
Life is full of illness. Disease is illness, family dispute is illness, social unrest is illness.

想要家庭吉祥、和睦，就应该常常起欢喜心，天天为自己的家祝福。[ 想要家庭吉祥、和睦，就應該常常起歡喜心，天天為自己的家祝福[FONT=&quot]。[/FONT]]
To have a warm and happy family, we should nurture a heart of joy and shower our family with blessings.

社会型态源自于家庭教育，家庭教育源自于个人修养。[[FONT=黑体]社會型態源自於家庭教育，家庭教育源自於個人修養[/FONT][FONT=&quot]。[/FONT]]
Social order rests on family education. Family education rests on individual integrity.

——慈济釋证严
慈濟釋證嚴
-By Shi Zheng Yan

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三、谈知足（談知足）Contentment

世间的物质本来是为人所用，但不知足者因欠缺智慧，竟沦为『被物所用』。
世間的物質本來是為人所用，但不知足者因欠缺智慧，竟淪為『被物所用』。
Material objects were meant to be tools for us to use. Yet, lacking wisdom, we are perpetually discontent, and we thus become enslaved by material objects.

人生有求即多苦！如果只是一味地要求他人，会为自己招来无穷的痛苦。
人生有求即多苦！如果只是一味地要求他人，會為自己招來無窮的痛苦。
How bitter life is when we have desires! Our demands on others bring endless misery.

人生若能减低欲望，生活上便没有什么值得计较！
人生若能減低慾望，生活上便沒有什麼值得計較！
If we can reduce our desires, there is nothing really worth getting upset about.

[有]则惜福，[无]则知足。
[有]則惜福，[無]則知足。
When we have something, let us cherish it. When we do not, let us be content.

知足的人，心量开阔；心量开阔，对人对事就不会计较。
知足的人，心量開闊；心量開闊，對人對事就不會計較。
One who is content is immensely broadhearted. A broadhearted person will not be in dispute with others over any matter.

人要知福、惜福、再造福。
人要知福、惜福、再造福。
Know your blessings, cherish them and sow more blessings.

世间的海可以填平，但是小小一个嘴巴，却永远填不满。
世間的海可以填平，但是小小一個嘴巴，卻永遠填不滿。
The ocean can be filled, yet the tiny mouth of a human being can never be filled.

——慈济釋证严
慈濟釋證嚴
-By Shi Zheng Yan

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四、谈说话（談說話）

话要讲得恰到好处，多一句、少一句都不好。
話要講得恰到好處，多一句、少一句都不好。
Speak with care, for one word more or one word less could bring negative consequences.

脾气、嘴巴不好，心地再好，也不能算是好人。
脾氣、嘴巴不好，心地再好，也不能算是好人。
If we have a bad temper and a sharp tougue, we cannot be considered a good person even if we have a good heart.

面对恶言恶语，也是一种修行。
面對惡言惡語，也是一種修行。
Enduring verbal abuse is also a kind of spiritual practice.

话语称起来不重，但稍一不慎，却会重重地压到别人的心。
話語稱起來不重，但稍一不慎，卻會重重地壓到別人的心。
Words themselves have no tangible weight, but a careless remark can weigh people’s hearts down.

一言为重，千言无用。言重则信重，信重则有大用。
一言為重，千言無用。言重則信重，信重則有大用。
One earnest word can be worth more than a thousand discourses. It inspires trust, and with trust, much is possible.

无心往坏处想，则任何话都是好话。
無心往壞處想，則任何話都是好話。
Having no inclination to think in a negative way, all that we hear will be helpful and constructive to us.

要批评别人时，先想想自己是否完美无缺。
要批評別人時，先想想自己是否完美無缺。
Before we criticize others, let us consider whether we ourselves are perfect and without flaws.

听到人间好话，要如海绵遇到水牢牢吸住；面对世间是非，要如水泥地般坚固，水过则干。
聽到人間好話，要如海綿遇到水牢牢吸住；面對時間是非，要如水泥地般堅固，水過則幹。
Take in meanningful words like a sponge absorbing water. Remain uninfluenced by gossip like cement that water quickly evaporates off of.

——慈济釋证严
慈濟釋證嚴
-By Shi Zheng Yan

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要批评别人时，先想想自己是否完美无缺。
要批評別人時，先想想自己是否完美無缺。
Before we criticize others, let us consider whether we ourselves are perfect and without flaws.

 

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五、談工作 work

人要真誠苦幹，才能領導別人，而非光靠能幹。
A true leader leads with sincerity and hard work, not just with competence and skill alone.

先把自己的棱角磨圓，就不會處處碰到別人的尖角。
Round your rough edges. Then you will not bump against others.

有多少力量就做多少事，不要心存等待，等待會落空。
However much we can do right now, just start doing it, for if we wait, we may wait in vain.

能善用時間的人，必能掌握自己努力的方向。
Those who make good use of time will be able to steer themselves in the direction they should go.

有事就有煩惱，若要做事，就必須先下決心——絕對不怕煩惱。
In human affairs, problems are inevitable. If we want to accomplish a task, we must not be afraid of problems or burdens.

心不專，念不一，做事難以成就。
If we are easily distracted and do not pay full attention to the task at hand, it will be difficult to accomplish anything.

多做多得，少做多失。
The more we do, the more we gain; the less we do, the more we lose.

小事不做，大事難成。
How can we expect to accomplish the big things if we don't do the little things?

工作就是運動，工廠即是道場。
Work can also be a form of exercise and our workplace a training place for personal growth.

沒有患得之心，就沒有患失之苦。
If we are not attached to outcomes then we will not suffer from the pain of fallen expectations.

在逆流中要有毅力，不要隨波逐流、旋轉而去。
When facing the tide of difficulties, be determined and persevere; do not let yourself be swept away.

停在半路，比走到目標更辛苦。
Stopping halfway is , in truth, more difficult and tiring than persevering on the path toward the final goal.

——慈济釋证严
慈濟釋證嚴
-By Shi Zheng Yan
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[FONT=宋体]談生活Life[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]要忙忙碌碌做菩薩，不要庸庸碌碌過日子。[/FONT][FONT=宋体]We should lead the busy life of a Bodhisattva rather than pass our days aimlessly.

[/FONT][FONT=宋体]真正的禪，是在日常生活中，不起煩惱妄想。[/FONT][FONT=宋体]True meditation is to calm the restless mind in everyday living.

[/FONT][FONT=宋体]善於利用時間的人，無時無刻不是修持參禪定好機緣。[/FONT][FONT=宋体]For someone who makes good use of time, every moment is good for meditation.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]感恩每一天。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Be grateful for every day.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]知足，生活才會富樂安穩。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Only by being content will life be rich with happiness and peace.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]如果大家都自覺平凡，人生就平安了。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]If each of us regards ourselves as ordinary, then there will be peace in life.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]能以他人的快樂為自己的快樂，是最滿足、最富有的人生。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]If we can regard others’ happiness as our own, then ours will be the richest and most satisfying life.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]人生有如高空走索，應專心一意往前看、向前走，不要回頭空懊惱。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Life is like walking on a tightrope. Walk straight ahead and concentrate on what’s in front of us; to keep looking back does us no good.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]人生若精神文化充足富有，縱使物質生活平淡，也會感到樂在其中。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]If we are spiritually rich and fulfilled, we will be happy, even if materialistically, our life is basic and simple.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]人的身體，有殘缺不算苦；人性的殘缺，才是真正的苦。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]True suffering comes not from physical impairment but from want in character.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]最平常的人最富有。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Richest is the person who is the most ordinary.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]一個人的快樂，不是因為他擁有得多，而是因為他計較得少。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Happiness is not about how much we possess but how little we bicker over trivials.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]最平淡的日子，心裡最安定。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]The most simple and ordinary life brings the most inner peace.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]分秒不空過。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Let no second pass by emptily.[/FONT]

——慈济釋证严
慈濟釋證嚴
-By Shi Zheng Yan
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親愛的朋友：
轉發一段祝福語因為覺得蠻有意思的
感悟： 好好活，慢慢動，一年還有幾萬多；
不要攀，不要比，不要自己氣自己；
不要攀，不要比，不要自己氣自己；
少吃鹽，多吃醋，少打麻將多散步；
按時睡，按時起，瑜珈跑步健身体
只要能吃飯，錢就不怕斷；
不怕賺錢少，就怕走得早；
官再大錢再多，閻王照樣土裡拖；
能牽手的時候，請勿只是肩并肩，
能擁抱的時候，請勿只是手牽手；
祝福您　
平安喜樂！​

 

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[FONT=宋体]談生活Life[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]要忙忙碌碌做菩薩，不要庸庸碌碌過日子。[/FONT][FONT=宋体]We should lead the busy life of a Bodhisattva rather than pass our days aimlessly.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]真正的禪，是在日常生活中，不起煩惱妄想。[/FONT][FONT=宋体]True meditation is to calm the restless mind in everyday living.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]善於利用時間的人，無時無刻不是修持參禪定好機緣。[/FONT][FONT=宋体]For someone who makes good use of time, every moment is good for meditation.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]感恩每一天。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Be grateful for every day.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]知足，生活才會富樂安穩。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Only by being content will life be rich with happiness and peace.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]如果大家都自覺平凡，人生就平安了。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]If each of us regards ourselves as ordinary, then there will be peace in life.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]能以他人的快樂為自己的快樂，是最滿足、最富有的人生。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]If we can regard others’ happiness as our own, then ours will be the richest and most satisfying life.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]人生有如高空走索，應專心一意往前看、向前走，不要回頭空懊惱。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Life is like walking on a tightrope. Walk straight ahead and concentrate on what’s in front of us; to keep looking back does us no good.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]人生若精神文化充足富有，縱使物質生活平淡，也會感到樂在其中。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]If we are spiritually rich and fulfilled, we will be happy, even if materialistically, our life is basic and simple.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]人的身體，有殘缺不算苦；人性的殘缺，才是真正的苦。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]True suffering comes not from physical impairment but from want in character.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]最平常的人最富有。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Richest is the person who is the most ordinary.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]一個人的快樂，不是因為他擁有得多，而是因為他計較得少。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Happiness is not about how much we possess but how little we bicker over trivials.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]最平淡的日子，心裡最安定。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]The most simple and ordinary life brings the most inner peace.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]分秒不空過。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Let no second pass by emptily.[/FONT]

——慈济釋证严
慈濟釋證嚴
-By Shi Zheng Yan​

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多谢教导。

 

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親愛的朋友：
轉發一段祝福語因為覺得蠻有意思的
感悟： 好好活，慢慢動，一年還有幾萬多；
不要攀，不要比，不要自己氣自己；
不要攀，不要比，不要自己氣自己；
少吃鹽，多吃醋，少打麻將多散步；
按時睡，按時起，瑜珈跑步健身体
只要能吃飯，錢就不怕斷；
不怕賺錢少，就怕走得早；
官再大錢再多，閻王照樣土裡拖；
能牽手的時候，請勿只是肩并肩，
能擁抱的時候，請勿只是手牽手；
祝福您　
平安喜樂！​

 

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[FONT=宋体]谈谦虚（[/FONT][FONT=宋体]談謙虛[/FONT][FONT=宋体]）[/FONT][FONT=宋体]Humility[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]即使已达智慧圆融，更应含蓄谦虚，像稻穗一样，米粒愈饱满垂得愈低。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]即使已達智慧圓融，更應含蓄謙虛，像稻穗一樣，米粒愈飽滿垂得愈低。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Those who have great wisdom must all the more be humble and unassuming, just like the rice stalk that bows under the weight of ripe grain.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]唯有尊重自己的人，能勇于缩小自己。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]唯有尊重自己的人，能勇於縮小自己。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]Only those who respect themselves have the courage to be humble.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]缩小自己，要能缩到对方的眼睛里，还要能嵌在对方的心头上。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]縮小自己，要能縮到對方的眼睛裡，還要能嵌在對方的心頭上。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]To be humble is to shrink our ego until we are small enough to enter other people’s eyes and reside in their hearts and minds.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]看淡自己是般若，看重自己是执著。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]看淡自己是般若，看重自己是執著。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]To regard our self lightly is wisdom. To regard our self highly is attachment.[/FONT]

[FONT=宋体]不能低头的人，是因为一再回顾过去的成就。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]不能低頭的人，是因為一再回顧過去的成就。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]People who are preoccupied with past achievements cannot humble themselves.[/FONT]

——慈济釋证严
慈濟釋證嚴
-By Shi Zheng Yan
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