今天孩子上summer camp被一个中国孩子打了。

对,我中华民族的处世之道就是,人不犯我我不犯人,人若犯我我必犯人。

软柿子在老外眼里就是LOSER,也是被人瞧不起的。

做人要有尊严底线,该出手时就出手。这个道理从小就应学会。否则,一辈子退让,一辈子让人欺负。
 
这类事情的处理,是个大学问。
 
Unbelievable! And you said that you didn't want your boy to be BULLIED? So your son will learn that it's OK to hit someone as long as his parents are around? What the heck was this?

I couldn't believe this!


I much prefer my kid be the bully than being bullied.

I saw some of the 2nd generation Chinese, they are soft and get pushed around in school, have no confidence. that will not happen to my children.

I teach them to fight back when they been hit, forget the crap of telling teachers.
 
即使是六岁小孩子说的话,大人也不能100%相信。 我儿子快七岁了,前几天camp组织室外玩水。 回来我问他水凉不凉,他说挺冷的,他用了个温度计到水里,才0度!
 
I much prefer my kid be the bully than being bullied.

I saw some of the 2nd generation Chinese, they are soft and get pushed around in school, have no confidence. that will not happen to my children.

I teach them to fight back when they been hit, forget the crap of telling teachers.

忍不住说一句,这英文惨不忍睹啊。
 
忍不住说一句,这英文惨不忍睹啊。

不至于吧? I have seen..have been hit..

what else?
 
不至于吧? I have seen..have been hit..

what else?

What about the following then? :p

"I much prefer my kid be the bully than being bullied."

"...they are soft and get pushed around in school, have no confidence. ...."

"I teach them to fight back when they been hit, forget the crap of telling teachers."
 
What about the following then? :p

"I much prefer my kid be the bully than being bullied."

"...they are soft and get pushed around in school, have no confidence. ...."

"I teach them to fight back when they been hit, forget the crap of telling teachers."

村长总是能看到问题的关键:D:D
 
村长总是能看到问题的关键:D:D

开个玩笑而已。

我的英文还不如人家的呢。不好意思,五十步笑百步了。:blowzy:
 
What about the following then? :p

"I much prefer my kid be the bully than being bullied."

"...they are soft and get pushed around in school, have no confidence. ...."

"I teach them to fight back when they been hit, forget the crap of telling teachers."

I would much..to be...than the bullied?

what else? my English is no good either..
 
I would much..to be...than the bullied?

what else? my English is no good either..

看看prefer这个动词的用法就知道了。
 
看看prefer这个动词的用法就知道了。

惨了啦,我还在interview上说我writting English 不错呢

到现在也没回音,也没问reference。。。唉,可能又白折腾了:crying:
 
惨了啦,我还在interview上说我writting English 不错呢

到现在也没回音,也没问reference。。。唉,可能又白折腾了:crying:

writting English 不错OR English writing 不错:confused:
 
村长说地很有道理,可是我们无法不承认中国移民中的歧视问题,老移民歧视新移民,家长在家里的言行,会潜移默化地影响到孩子。我觉得那个打人的孩子就是有潜意识的歧视弱者的心态。联想到我的孩子刚来的时候,就不喜欢和那些早来的中国孩子玩儿,尽管一句英语不会说,可是还是爱和当地的一些有教养的孩子玩儿,尽管孩子从没讲过问什么,不过身处类似的环境中,我能理解孩子。

楼主心疼孩子是可以理解的,但是要冷静,除了教孩子physical protection,其实更主要的是引导孩子心理调适。在孩子成长过程中,难免会受到委屈,就是父母也有委屈自己孩子的时候。如果家长表现得过度心疼,可能会给孩子造成很严重的心理暗示。所以我觉得面对这样的事,一方面要积极给孩子争取一个好的环境,另一方面要淡化它对孩子的心理影响。培养一个身心俱健的孩子,最大的受益人是你孩子自己。别人的孩子缺少教养是他们父母的责任,而且一定会在将来的某一天得到某种程度的反馈。

呵,孩子发生冲突的事情,遇到不止一次,鼻子打出血的时候都有。能去怪罪老师么?

想想自己小时候,学校里有没有打架的现象。自己家的兄弟姐妹还有打架的事情发生呢,不是么。
 
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