也挑老大

[闲哥]

呵呵，过奖过奖．

其实我也挺自豪的，以后我小孩问我，＂妈妈，你和爸爸怎么认识的？＂
我说，＂网上认识的呀．＂
孩子肯定用特崇拜的眼神看着我说，＂妈妈，你真酷！＂

孩子一定说，妈妈，你真俗，都啥年代了，还搞网友见面？

 

[幕天席地]

其实我们俩都没泡论坛，天天泡的人根本就泡不到媳妇，我老公当时就发了一个帖子，我们就成了．

这叫有缘分。
恭喜。
PS，你们年轻人都住哪儿啊，我周围住的都是比我大５－１０岁以上的，想找你们年轻人说说话，赶赶潮流都不行。

 

[Eye2010]

这叫有缘分。
恭喜。
PS，你们年轻人都住哪儿啊，我周围住的都是比我大５－１０岁以上的，想找你们年轻人说说话，赶赶潮流都不行。

行啊，加我ＭＳＮ，ＱＱＨ你

 

[carmen0612]

其实我们俩都没泡论坛，天天泡的人根本就泡不到媳妇，我老公当时就发了一个帖子，我们就成了．

完了，完了。。
帖子发了NNNNN个，
看来以后要天天盯着新用户的首贴了。。

 

[绿袖子]

真的假的，姐姐你是８０后的么，我好几对朋友都是网上认识的，然后成了，孩子都会打酱油了．．．

嘻嘻，我的意思是不知道yorkbbs上也可以发展发展

 

[苦逼热狗]

那就跟您讨论讨论。说的不对的请指教。

I agree that Php will be faster from development point of view. However, to build a web application better than cfc and with a modern look, I think two aspects need to be enhanced.

1. The backend social networking functionalities. In this respect using java or .net perhaps would be better for comprehensive business logic. Personally I like java, but I am not against .net.

2. User experience. In the regime of "rich internet application", which is the modern paradigm, client-ends are being highly enhanced. Flash perhaps will soon replace JavaScript ajax in modern applications. Of course, there are other alternatives than flash, ms silverlight etc, which can be competitive too. HTML 5 is coming up, which may save JavaScript. But it is not clear who will win the battle.

Comment on item 1:
You will need a dedicated server to enrich the social networking business logic. As matter of fact, I am currently working on a php+mysql based project. Even with paid web hosting service(shared space), there is only a few of hosting company offers access to stuff like cron job.

By the way, I voluntarily implemented a half completed Instant Messager for CFC about 6 years ago which is wrapping around the QQH system(when AJAX wasn't even introduced). Unfortunately I don't have the time to complete that. Guess what, renren.com/facebook.com is having the similar feature integrated into their site.

Well that was off topic. The issue this social networking idea on CFC forum isn't really ideal. People use this site as a life tool not a hangout site. I guess that's the reason behind the introduction of comefromchina.net.

Comment on item 2:
Flash? I don't think so. Things like that are just tool/framework/protocol from my point of view. You could do better than that.

It's more likely Web 2.0 will dominate the world in next couple decades (or it's already happening).

There is a trend for social publishing tool:
50-70s : Newspaper / TV (Media takes the lead)
80s : Internet (Website takes the lead)
90-00s : Internet (Users take the lead) (Web 2.0)

Newspaper / TV will die or barely survive as people from 50-70s will be gone, the meaning of having these tools is weakening.

That also apply to Internet (Website takes the lead) trend. 80s will die out in the next 50-60 years.

90-00s is a generation that willingly to express themselves publicly. They loves to let the world know what's happening around themselves. That, my friend, it's the future of business. People just haven't found the golden method to make the perfect website for 90-00s generation, and all these Flash, HTML5, Dojo, Ajax tools/frameworks/protocols will be disappeared/replaced/enhanced when the ingredients have been discovered.

 

[幕天席地]

行啊，加我ＭＳＮ，ＱＱＨ你

哦～终于要认识美女喽，那个，猫咪在哪儿呢？

 

[Eye2010]

完了，完了。。
帖子发了NNNNN个，
看来以后要天天盯着新用户的首贴了。。

恩，好男人哪有天天泡论坛发言的，估计你也不想找那样的当未来老公吧．
各位男士不要介意，你们都是有家室的人了，也不在这个范畴了．．．．．．．．

 

[绿袖子]

真的假的，姐姐你是８０后的么，我好几对朋友都是网上认识的，然后成了，孩子都会打酱油了．．．

对了，网上认识然后“成了”不是你们年轻人的专利哈

 

[冷笑一声]

歪楼专家们，此贴成发贴相亲经验贴了

 

[hcloud]

那就跟您讨论讨论。说的不对的请指教。

I agree that Php will be faster from development point of view. However, to build a web application better than cfc and with a modern look, I think two aspects need to be enhanced.

1. The backend social networking functionalities. In this respect using java or .net perhaps would be better for comprehensive business logic. Personally I like java, but I am not against .net.

2. User experience. In the regime of "rich internet application", which is the modern paradigm, client-ends are being highly enhanced. Flash perhaps will soon replace JavaScript ajax in modern applications. Of course, there are other alternatives than flash, ms silverlight etc, which can be competitive too. HTML 5 is coming up, which may save JavaScript. But it is not clear who will win the battle.

技术细节我就不说了， 这是一标准程序员思路……
More is better, blah blah blah...

醒醒吧！

 

[Eye2010]

嘻嘻，我的意思是不知道yorkbbs上也可以发展发展

其实我们村的优秀男人挺多的，只是我那个时候经常上约克潜水，就发现我老公了．ＭＭ你要找，还是关注这里吧．

 

[wiiwii]

我那天找你出来是单挑，呵呵，别误会．如果你真出来了，露面的是我老公．

你以为我会一个人来？几十个女保镖，人手一本明朝，见你老公就用那书扁，让他以后还敢看那书

 

[苦逼热狗]

打字打得真累

 

[Eye2010]

对了，网上认识然后“成了”不是你们年轻人的专利哈

这倒是，看文学城上面跨国的都有，那些比较牛，我这个也就小打小闹了