精华 [请求] 请帮帮那位被司机无理撵下车的中国女子

[yorktower]

我觉得这样的结果没有太大正面作用，他们就一句简单的"THANK YOU"让我们受那么大的气，而且最多也只是咱们中国人圈子里才知道。就象上次电台广播事件一样，电台敷衍了事的在中文报上道歉，那些听了广播的鬼老哪里知道。
我们应该团结起来，要求OC TRANSPO在渥太华的主要媒体上向我们道歉，以起到教育大众的目的！

 

[无湘不成军]

当时发生的事情，如果有人出来旁证，才会有把握让别人道歉。现在的结果也算是目前条件下最好的了。

 

[larry]

他也许忘记了。
Thank You是谢谢你给他看月票或付钱。

最初由 Pity 发布
Latest update:

当事人今早在同一时间和同一车站等候2路车,依然是那位司机. 不但给开了门, 还再她上车之后说了一句 Thank You.
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[itflyer]

最初由 yorktower 发布
我觉得这样的结果没有太大正面作用，他们就一句简单的"THANK YOU"让我们受那么大的气，而且最多也只是咱们中国人圈子里才知道。就象上次电台广播事件一样，电台敷衍了事的在中文报上道歉，那些听了广播的鬼老哪里知道。
我们应该团结起来，要求OC TRANSPO在渥太华的主要媒体上向我们道歉，以起到教育大众的目的！

我也觉得挺可惜的，浪费了一次机会。也许先不投诉就好了，“打草惊蛇”。在中国得说“中国话”，来加拿大咱们就得学会说“洋话”。“天下没有免费的午餐”是句非常地道的“洋话”，那么它的反话就是“天下没有轻易了结的伤害”。特别是这种伤害是和不小心碰你一下等无意的伤害是完全不同性质的2种。

 

[terry]

最初由 itflyer 发布


我也觉得挺可惜的，浪费了一次机会。也许先不投诉就好了，“打草惊蛇”。在中国得说“中国话”，来加拿大咱们就得学会说“洋话”。“天下没有免费的午餐”是句非常地道的“洋话”，那么它的反话就是“天下没有轻易了结的伤害”。特别是这种伤害是和不小心碰你一下等无意的伤害是完全不同性质的2种。

Agree!

I have pointed out in my second post message NOT to call complain phone number before getting more evidence.

Anyway, the strategy also depends on to what extent that lady (or Chinese community) would like the result to be.

If we just want that lady on board without "offencing" later, the result maybe satisfied from what poster said.

If she (or Community) demand for apology and admonishment, the result is NOT acceptable. "Thank you" means nothing.

Next time when one guy was hit on his face, he just got "Thank you, I won't hit you again" What will others who know this incident think?

 

[itflyer]

最初由 terry 发布


Agree!

I have pointed out in my second post message NOT to call complain phone number before getting more evidence.

Anyway, the strategy also depends on to what extent that lady (or Chinese community) would like the result to be.

If we just want that lady on board without "offencing" later, the result maybe satisfied from what poster said.

If she (or Community) demand for apology and admonishment, the result is NOT acceptable. "Thank you" means nothing.

Next time when one guy was hit on his face, he just got "Thank you, I won't hit you again" What will others who know this incident think?

 

[Sunnyboy]

最初由 itflyer 发布
一定要有证据！！！这点非常重要！！！在加拿大和美国这样的国家，如果没证据，即使你杀了人，也会当庭释放；但如果你没法证明，即使你真的没杀，无意中卷进来了，也样会被“枪毙”。

所以我的建议是：请相关联的同志们辛苦一下，让她再去专门上这个司机的车，然后安排一个人在不远的地方用摄像机“侯”着，实况录象。然后让这个女士准备一个小录音机，把所有对话都录下来。如果把“get out”、“shit”“****”之类的话都录上了，就有好戏看了。但要让这为女士千万注意自己的言语态度。同时也最好先安排1、2个证人，但千万别跟他吵。

这样虽然麻烦，但只有这样才能日后去法院之类的地方fight!

我的意见是，这件是如果是真的，决不能轻易了事，一定要“杀鸡给猴看”，觉得目前北美渐起一股反华恶华的风气，绝对要“打”回去，让那些无礼欺负华人的人也知道华人也他妈的不好惹！虽然咱的国家目前实力疲软，没法象美国那样“坚挺”、“雄起”持美国护照的国民，咱们海外的华人就自己来！为什么美国黑人不敢欺负人数反而少的犹太人，就是因为犹太人不象中国人怕事认栽，他们会奋起反戈一击！

 

[外乡人]

语言再不好.....

当时不应该下车，中国人因为在这里语言不好没有自信吃了不少亏！

 

[KuCaiHua]

"Thank you" means nothing. What we want is "I apologize..." or "I'm sorry...". But I don't think he will say so, because it means he committed his wrong behavior.
At least we should look for the apologies from either the driver or the company. That's only my point though.

 

[aroma]

still don't get it, why the bus driver asked the lady to get out? did he say anything about SARS?

 

[TOBI]

thank you?
for what?
"thank you" can pay anything?

 

[enough]

不要只说结果不能接受;请给出寻求更好结果的方案或建议.

 

[梦儿]

不论何事, 最后要婉转地问清姓名, 记住时间, 地点和可能的人证及相关信息. 小到长话公司.

 

[applemama]

Other than the phone and fax , you can send e-mail to them to complain a bad driver or to compliment good drivers, especially good drivers, unless in special situations, people usually tend to forget them.

The email is: ocserve@octranspo.com

Every bus has a unique 4-digit bus number in front of the bus. Include that number in your mail when you write.
Let's work together to make it a better world. Thanks.

Suggestions,
Compliments
& Complaints
phone 613-842-3600
fax 613-230-6543

 

[echo666]

最初由 有去无回 发布
Suggestions,
Compliments
& Complaints
phone 613-842-3600
fax 613-230-6543

以前也听说过这种事．　　要赢，一定要有证人．