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希望BDW能把持的住。毕竟是自己的事情,只有自己拿定主意,自己做主。尽信书,不如无书,更何况是网上言语呢。网上热心人多,但也人多嘴杂。若尽听,必易无所依,失方向。我赞同BDW go public,接触个网站媒体,甚至游行抗议,但这只能是手段之一。私下还得多咨询专业人士(不是对法律不懂的验房师助理及其助手(助手的助手?这是什么头衔?)寻求多方面的可能解决方案。
Be flexible,be always positive. $66k is not a small amount but it's not everything. You have 3 kids, it's a perfect time to teach them in action to let them know how to deal with a lifetime down turn and how to get up and move forward. When you have doubt, depression in your mind, please say "STOP" loud and change your thinking to a positive way. When you put the pressure "I have to defeat Minto" down in your mind, you will have a much more clear focus in your life and will take proper action for your next step. Don't worry too much what other people had to say about you. One said, "You should care other people, but you should NOT care how other people think about you." It's your life and you're in control, not someone else. You decide how your tomorrow looks like and you always have a choice. Don't be depressed by thinking "why this have to happen to me". The current you is the residue of your past actions. You can choose your action *now* to sculpture tomorrow's you. Yes, please always remember, you *always* have a choice!
and for LHJ, my suggestion is, if you really want to help BDW, try not to attack everyone that holds different view, that can only make things more complex. You can focus your energy to a single point, e.g. ChrisXu, it would be more powerful
Be flexible,be always positive. $66k is not a small amount but it's not everything. You have 3 kids, it's a perfect time to teach them in action to let them know how to deal with a lifetime down turn and how to get up and move forward. When you have doubt, depression in your mind, please say "STOP" loud and change your thinking to a positive way. When you put the pressure "I have to defeat Minto" down in your mind, you will have a much more clear focus in your life and will take proper action for your next step. Don't worry too much what other people had to say about you. One said, "You should care other people, but you should NOT care how other people think about you." It's your life and you're in control, not someone else. You decide how your tomorrow looks like and you always have a choice. Don't be depressed by thinking "why this have to happen to me". The current you is the residue of your past actions. You can choose your action *now* to sculpture tomorrow's you. Yes, please always remember, you *always* have a choice!
and for LHJ, my suggestion is, if you really want to help BDW, try not to attack everyone that holds different view, that can only make things more complex. You can focus your energy to a single point, e.g. ChrisXu, it would be more powerful
小鸭子有所不知,虽然,那二位或明或暗的,颠倒黑白的,用各种手段发布不实信息诋毁BDW,但本人一直隐忍不发,苦苦规劝他们。你要是看一下我给他们的回帖的先后顺序,及讲话的口气,你就会明白为什么语气逐步强烈。这二位太自信了,以为我认不出来他们,越来越过分。每次都是主动出击,让很多不了解内情的人,对BDW的事情产生错觉。昨天,要不是那小子主动出击,我仍然不会理他。他们的所作所为,若不戳穿,不仅害了BDW,以后还会有人被害。他们后期的做法,对BDW情感上的打击是致命的,远远超过这次事件本身对她的伤害,几乎令BDW崩溃,身体健康状况急剧恶化。使她对同胞的信任度大大降低。
对于是否戳穿他们,我纠结了很长时间,总觉得人非圣贤孰能无过,只要他们认识到错,也就算了。可他们现在的做法真让我明白了下面这句话:好人永远不会明白坏人的坏,坏人也永远不会明白好人的好!
BDW从未指责过他们,只是对他们敬而远之。到是他们二位死缠烂打,不肯放过BDW,变着花样的刺激、伤害BDW。一个资本家已经让BDW难以招架,他们的行为无疑是在BDW的伤口上撒盐,雪上加霜。