If you think LHJ was on purposely pushing away good advices from BDW, trying to make the situation worse, and
you have no evidence to show that LHJ was under BDW's instructions to do so, why the heck do you have to throw your stones to BDW and curse her more bad luck and darkness for her in the future if you really care what's going on here?

If you really want to help, you can just ignore those noises and tell BDW what you think about her case. If you come here for some other purpose, you can always find something/someone to accuse, even there's no LHJ here.