像我这样的情况，适合做单身妈妈吗？

[zaizai]

哎，这么多圣母劝楼主去生孩子，如果以后楼主的生活真的不好到要靠政府救济，吃food bank,我想知道这些圣母们会不会真的伸出援助之手还是只是纸上谈兵。

 

[OUUO]

哎，这么多圣母劝楼主去生孩子，如果以后楼主的生活真的不好到要靠政府救济，吃food bank,我想知道这些圣母们会不会真的伸出援助之手还是只是纸上谈兵。

不知这么多建议楼主尽快生的一方里有多少是婚姻不幸福、单亲家庭出生、现在单亲抚养孩子的女人。

他们在有过单亲类似经历后，变得“无比坚强”，举出种种个别例子来误导大家。

他们把充分条件和必要条件颠倒混淆，把不负责任称作坚强、把困难看似非常容易克服，忽略遇到现实困难后很难给孩子正常的爱的事实。

这些人，似乎还不如楼主更现实、更理性。

建议暂时不要的不是不希望楼主幸福，支持尽快生的却明显没有理性，充满了愤青式的叫喊。

愤青经常是盲目爱国或者说爱党，但是，建议楼主生的人里，却非常多的举这边某个黑人、或者18岁生孩子的单亲妈妈后来进了政府又结婚了等等的例子，这里就不提什么民族自尊心等等其它的了。

不过，各类观点，大家都是为了楼主好，虽然结果未知。

 

[ccc]

...：

1. 把一个孩子带好，到上大学的年龄，大概要多少花费？

2. ...。

没有人提到钱，因为这忒俗。

孩子需要爱，无条件的爱；但是，你需要钱！

我搜来的：

How much does it cost to raise kids in Canada?

By Krystal Yee

Having children is a big financial responsibility -- and it's important to know what you're getting into. Read this guide for an outline of some of the biggest costs.

According to MoneySense.ca, the average cost of raising a child to age 18 is a whopping $243,660. Break down that number, and that’s $12,825 per child, per year -- or $1,070 per month. And that's before you send them off to university.

While money isn’t the only factor when deciding when to have children, it’s still important to consider whether you can afford to raise a child -- and what short-term and long-term sacrifices you might have to make.

Here are some numbers to think about.

Maternity leave
Employment Insurance will only give you a maximum of $485 per week, or $45,900 a year -- and you have to pay income tax out of that amount -- so it’s important to think about how your household will deal with the loss in income during the first year of your baby’s life. In order to become comfortable with your reduced household income, calculate how much money you might receive in maternity leave benefits and try creating and living off of a reduced budget while or even before you are pregnant.

Lost wages
Not only will you lose a significant amount of income during maternity leave, but taking time off to raise children might also affect a parent’s long-term employability. MoneySense.ca suggests that for each year parents take off, they experience a three per cent wage loss. So if you return to the workforce after taking five years off, you are likely to earn 15 per cent less.

Mandatory expenses
Parents of babies need items such as a crib, car seat, stroller, high chair and baby gates. These items aren’t cheap, and can potentially cost thousands of dollars in total if you decide to buy new. Start your search for these items by asking friends, family, coworkers or neighbours who have recently had children. They might be willing to sell, lend or even give you the items that you are looking for. Make sure to check out Craigslist, Kijiji and neighbourhood yard sales for deep discounts on these expensive items.

Ongoing expenses
Children can be money pits. Not only do newborns go through a huge amount of diapers, formula and clothing, but the costs to feed and clothe your child will increase as they continue to grow. In fact, according to the MoneySense.ca cost breakdown, you could be looking at spending $48,760 just to put food in their mouths and clothing on their backs. Cut costs by breastfeeding if you can instead of buying formula, using cloth diapers and looking for hand-me-down clothing, toys and other miscellaneous items.

Child care
If both parents work full-time, the cost of day care will most likely be the biggest expense in raising a child, with costs ranging anywhere from $700 to $1,100 per month, per child, depending on your province and city. It can pay to do your research and get on waiting lists as early as possible. Note that day care is a tax-deductible expense, and the spouse with the lower income can claim up to $7,000 per year. So make sure to keep receipts for all child care-related expenses, such as nursery schools, nannies and day camps.

Shelter
MoneySense.ca calculated that the cost of shelter for one child, including furnishings and household operations, comes to $2,720 per year, or approximately $226.67 per month. Add up the expenses until age 18, and it will end up costing you $51,680 to put a roof over your child’s head.

Aside from the MoneySense.ca report, expecting parents can estimate how much a baby could set them back by using the detailed cost calculator at BabyCenter.com [http://www.babycenter.com/baby-cost-calculator]. It’s important to note that the information will be in U.S. dollars and geared toward American parents, but it still gives a good indication of what to expect before your little bundle of joy enters the world.

There’s no question that having kids comes with a hefty price tag, but most parents wouldn’t trade the experience of raising their children for anything in the world. Starting to save as soon as you can, collecting cost-cutting advice from other parents and planning far in advance of your due date will mean less financial stress for you once the baby comes -- and more quality time to spend with the newest addition to your family.

 

[OUUO]

没有人提到钱，因为这忒俗。

孩子需要爱，无条件的爱；但是，你需要钱！

我搜来的：

How much does it cost to raise kids in Canada?

By Krystal Yee

Having children is a big financial responsibility -- and it's important to know what you're getting into. Read this guide for an outline of some of the biggest costs.

According to MoneySense.ca, the average cost of raising a child to age 18 is a whopping $243,660. Break down that number, and that’s $12,825 per child, per year -- or $1,070 per month. And that's before you send them off to university.

While money isn’t the only factor when deciding when to have children, it’s still important to consider whether you can afford to raise a child -- and what short-term and long-term sacrifices you might have to make.

Here are some numbers to think about.

Maternity leave
Employment Insurance will only give you a maximum of $485 per week, or $45,900 a year -- and you have to pay income tax out of that amount -- so it’s important to think about how your household will deal with the loss in income during the first year of your baby’s life. In order to become comfortable with your reduced household income, calculate how much money you might receive in maternity leave benefits and try creating and living off of a reduced budget while or even before you are pregnant.

Lost wages
Not only will you lose a significant amount of income during maternity leave, but taking time off to raise children might also affect a parent’s long-term employability. MoneySense.ca suggests that for each year parents take off, they experience a three per cent wage loss. So if you return to the workforce after taking five years off, you are likely to earn 15 per cent less.

Mandatory expenses
Parents of babies need items such as a crib, car seat, stroller, high chair and baby gates. These items aren’t cheap, and can potentially cost thousands of dollars in total if you decide to buy new. Start your search for these items by asking friends, family, coworkers or neighbours who have recently had children. They might be willing to sell, lend or even give you the items that you are looking for. Make sure to check out Craigslist, Kijiji and neighbourhood yard sales for deep discounts on these expensive items.

Ongoing expenses
Children can be money pits. Not only do newborns go through a huge amount of diapers, formula and clothing, but the costs to feed and clothe your child will increase as they continue to grow. In fact, according to the MoneySense.ca cost breakdown, you could be looking at spending $48,760 just to put food in their mouths and clothing on their backs. Cut costs by breastfeeding if you can instead of buying formula, using cloth diapers and looking for hand-me-down clothing, toys and other miscellaneous items.

Child care
If both parents work full-time, the cost of day care will most likely be the biggest expense in raising a child, with costs ranging anywhere from $700 to $1,100 per month, per child, depending on your province and city. It can pay to do your research and get on waiting lists as early as possible. Note that day care is a tax-deductible expense, and the spouse with the lower income can claim up to $7,000 per year. So make sure to keep receipts for all child care-related expenses, such as nursery schools, nannies and day camps.

Shelter
MoneySense.ca calculated that the cost of shelter for one child, including furnishings and household operations, comes to $2,720 per year, or approximately $226.67 per month. Add up the expenses until age 18, and it will end up costing you $51,680 to put a roof over your child’s head.

Aside from the MoneySense.ca report, expecting parents can estimate how much a baby could set them back by using the detailed cost calculator at BabyCenter.com [http://www.babycenter.com/baby-cost-calculator]. It’s important to note that the information will be in U.S. dollars and geared toward American parents, but it still gives a good indication of what to expect before your little bundle of joy enters the world.

There’s no question that having kids comes with a hefty price tag, but most parents wouldn’t trade the experience of raising their children for anything in the world. Starting to save as soon as you can, collecting cost-cutting advice from other parents and planning far in advance of your due date will mean less financial stress for you once the baby comes -- and more quality time to spend with the newest addition to your family.

村长你小心被一些愤青称俗，因为在这里，似乎只有高举爱、高举无条件的爱、高举不支持楼主生孩子就是否定穷人有生育权就是让穷人自绝于世这类大帽子的愤怒青年控制

 

[ccc]

村长你小心被一些愤青称俗，因为在这里，似乎只有高举爱、高举无条件的爱、高举不支持楼主生孩子就是否定穷人有生育权就是让穷人自绝于世这类大帽子的愤怒青年控制

我那是在回答问题哦。

 

[mimi_ge]

知不知道去中国领养孩子要等多少年，要付多少钱吗

放在waiting list上，至少2年，2万5加币中介费。别说福利院不要钱，那都是老黄历了。也别说老外就有优先权领养孩子，国内10percent的家庭是不能生育或者不想生育的，所以现在孩子值钱的很。

 

[精灵精灵]

知不知道去中国领养孩子要等多少年，要付多少钱吗

放在waiting list上，至少2年，2万5加币中介费。别说福利院不要钱，那都是老黄历了。也别说老外就有优先权领养孩子，国内10percent的家庭是不能生育或者不想生育的，所以现在孩子值钱的很。

嗯，是滴，有段时间很想领养，打听完行情后，放弃了。。。。你说的这个时间和价格还偏低了。。

 

[mimi_ge]

嗯，是滴，有段时间很想领养，打听完行情后，放弃了。。。。你说的这个时间和价格还偏低了。。

钱差不多了，但时间要加上等待加拿大移民局批准的时间，有的前后4,5年。

 

[Lurker_Margarya]

嗯，是滴，有段时间很想领养，打听完行情后，放弃了。。。。你说的这个时间和价格还偏低了。。

领养的条件是啥？ 我是否还能领养？

 

[mimi_ge]

没有人提到钱，因为这忒俗。



孩子需要爱，无条件的爱；但是，你需要钱！

村长，我朋友，ottawa的，打labour的，一儿一女，女儿美国医学院毕业。

孩子有没有出息，同钱没有绝对关系的。

所以我一般看着讨论孩子教育贴都要笑。啥牛逼哄哄的，又是名校，又是ib。

我的好几个穷朋友，都租房子住的主，孩子都在ottaw的所谓名校。好几个高中生都是优等生，校外有part time小白领工作的。不过人从不上cfc显摆。

 

[mimi_ge]

领养的条件是啥？ 我是否还能领养？

net worth 至少8万美金

年收入至少1,2万美金

 

[Lurker_Margarya]

net worth 至少8万美金

年收入至少1,2万美金

这么点？ 我自己认为， 至少有能力担负其抚养孩子的生活教育成本。

 

[Lurker_Margarya]

村长，我朋友，ottawa的，打labour的，一儿一女，女儿美国医学院毕业。

孩子有没有出息，同钱没有绝对关系的。

所以我一般看着讨论孩子教育贴都要笑。啥牛逼哄哄的，又是名校，又是ib。

我的好几个穷朋友，都租房子住的主，孩子都在ottaw的所谓名校。好几个高中生都是优等生，校外有part time小白领工作的。不过人从不上cfc显摆。

俺们这些落后山区出生，父母都是大字不识一个的，没见过火车， 没听过收音机的也没感觉到比少部分教授子女落后多少。

 

[roller coaster]

不知这么多建议楼主尽快生的一方里有多少是婚姻不幸福、单亲家庭出生、现在单亲抚养孩子的女人。

他们在有过单亲类似经历后，变得“无比坚强”，举出种种个别例子来误导大家。

他们把充分条件和必要条件颠倒混淆，把不负责任称作坚强、把困难看似非常容易克服，忽略遇到现实困难后很难给孩子正常的爱的事实。

这些人，似乎还不如楼主更现实、更理性。

建议暂时不要的不是不希望楼主幸福，支持尽快生的却明显没有理性，充满了愤青式的叫喊。

愤青经常是盲目爱国或者说爱党，但是，建议楼主生的人里，却非常多的举这边某个黑人、或者18岁生孩子的单亲妈妈后来进了政府又结婚了等等的例子，这里就不提什么民族自尊心等等其它的了。

不过，各类观点，大家都是为了楼主好，虽然结果未知。

这段出自你这个教育工作者的漏洞百出，逻辑混乱，东拉西扯的言论，可真TNN地让俺开眼。

俺不跟你多费口舌，就批批你前三段。你是怎么用你的充分必要条件推论出异见者让LZ“尽快”生的结论。你凭什么认定异见者就有可能婚姻不幸，或来自单亲家庭，或是女人。你这充分条件是怎么得出支持者有过单亲经历变得无比坚强，继而把不负责任称为坚强，继而误导"大家“？

既然知道不同观点，结果未知，你嚷嚷什么愤青啊？

俺有个朋友，一表人才，经济优越，有豪车豪宅，正直善良，是个同性恋。可以给父爱，给不了母爱，配有孩子吗？

 

[OUUO]

这段出自你这个教育工作者的漏洞百出，逻辑混乱，东拉西扯的言论，可真TNN地让俺开眼。

俺不跟你多费口舌，就批批你前三段。你是怎么用你的充分必要条件推论出异见者让LZ“尽快”生的结论。你凭什么认定异见者就有可能婚姻不幸，或来自单亲家庭，或是女人。你这充分条件是怎么得出支持者有过单亲经历变得无比坚强，继而把不负责任称为坚强，继而误导"大家“？

既然知道不同观点，结果未知，你嚷嚷什么愤青啊？

俺有个朋友，一表人才，经济优越，有豪车豪宅，正直善良，是个同性恋。可以给父爱，给不了母爱，配有孩子吗？

你能否先不TNN地骂奶奶好吗，你再仔细看看想想理解理解再发言吧

先冷静，别骂人