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[闲聊] 今天取枫叶卡时在停车场的遭遇
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因周末出去钓鱼，没时间上这里看贴，今天看到我的贴子引起正反不同的反应，我想这很正常，因为各人有不同的价值观。
我发贴子的原意是告诉大家提高警惕和合理合法地报护自己。我并没有在贴子中牵涉是不是中国人。下面我再回复一些想法：
1）关于是不是预收押金，我无所谓。只是提醒大家在预收押金的情况下要合理报护自己，make sure 该付的停车费与停车的时间要合理的相对应。
关于住了三年多是不是白住了，都不知道停车场预收押金。老实说，来加拿大前我在日本住了两年，在美国住了三年多，算起来在国外住八年多，确实是第一次碰见在有人执勤的情况下（不管有没有栏杆）停车场要预收押金。
2）关于是不是浪费时间折腾这5元钱，我的初意完全不是这样。我是气愤他故意把不能用的钱找给我并且还扔进我的车窗。我一直用平和的语调与他讲话并且注意不人身攻击。再说我每年捐赠给United Way和儿童癌症基金会的钱远远超过5元，这是我自愿的，不是被别人用欺骗或蛮横的方法拿去的。
3）根据我与西人和日本人打交道的经验，如果你有理，就一定要合理合法地据理力争，这样他们才会更敬重你，你才有可能成为他们的朋友。再说我自问我的英语没有问题，才可以有自信与西人打交道。我在公司里就曾经有几次为我认为我有理而别人明显错和蛮横的事据理力争，最后都是以老板支持我，和那些人向我道歉了结。我们后来相处仍然不错。
4）对各位支持我的朋友我谢谢你们。对其他话里有话的朋友我也无所谓，只是期盼你们过的更充实并多给同胞以鼓励。
因周末出去钓鱼，没时间上这里看贴，今天看到我的贴子引起正反不同的反应，我想这很正常，因为各人有不同的价值观。
我发贴子的原意是告诉大家提高警惕和合理合法地报护自己。我并没有在贴子中牵涉是不是中国人。下面我再回复一些想法：
1）关于是不是预收押金，我无所谓。只是提醒大家在预收押金的情况下要合理报护自己，make sure 该付的停车费与停车的时间要合理的相对应。
关于住了三年多是不是白住了，都不知道停车场预收押金。老实说，来加拿大前我在日本住了两年，在美国住了三年多，算起来在国外住八年多，确实是第一次碰见在有人执勤的情况下（不管有没有栏杆）停车场要预收押金。
2）关于是不是浪费时间折腾这5元钱，我的初意完全不是这样。我是气愤他故意把不能用的钱找给我并且还扔进我的车窗。我一直用平和的语调与他讲话并且注意不人身攻击。再说我每年捐赠给United Way和儿童癌症基金会的钱远远超过5元，这是我自愿的，不是被别人用欺骗或蛮横的方法拿去的。
3）根据我与西人和日本人打交道的经验，如果你有理，就一定要合理合法地据理力争，这样他们才会更敬重你，你才有可能成为他们的朋友。再说我自问我的英语没有问题，才可以有自信与西人打交道。我在公司里就曾经有几次为我认为我有理而别人明显错和蛮横的事据理力争，最后都是以老板支持我，和那些人向我道歉了结。我们后来相处仍然不错。
4）对各位支持我的朋友我谢谢你们。对其他话里有话的朋友我也无所谓，只是期盼你们过的更充实并多给同胞以鼓励。
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请"捶"大狭弘传"大法", 渥太华的华人以后就不会受欺负了.
没看过"北京公共汽车"事件的报道,不知道"芝麻"是否属于那一类人.不过"芝麻"的帖子写得很好,我也决定不再对此加以评论.
但请"捶"大狭不要私藏宝贝,公布您的"大法".让大家都收益.渥京华人有救了.
至于日后的专利,知识产权问题,请RIVEN做证,放心,那是属于你的.
最初由 捶妮春 发布
这世界上被欺负的人特点都差不多.
也就老是在那里抗争和号召抗争找支持,
最后也没明白为什么被欺负了.
在北京公共汽车上, 被售票员踹出车的都是一类人,
再怎么抗争也不得其法.
没看过"北京公共汽车"事件的报道,不知道"芝麻"是否属于那一类人.不过"芝麻"的帖子写得很好,我也决定不再对此加以评论.
但请"捶"大狭不要私藏宝贝,公布您的"大法".让大家都收益.渥京华人有救了.
至于日后的专利,知识产权问题,请RIVEN做证,放心,那是属于你的.
Hi everyone:
I have been been in Canada for almost 5 years and I think I am entitled to say something here.
I strongly support 夏天的芝麻 !!! WHY??? Because for so many years I have found that we Chinese are so weak just because we are afraid of standing up facing challenges(even the smallest one like what 夏天的芝麻 has encountered, not mention standing up together like what immigrants from other country (Korea, Iran, Iraq, Russia, etc..., believe it or not, they're way much better than us in this regard). We are so cheap in lots (if not most) Canadian's eyes because there are so many COWARD among our Chinese community. I still remember in one of his speeches, Bush said 911 event is a an "action taken by coward", of course he does not think it is the Chinese who did that because Chinese are not even as bold as those cowards who dare to take the real actions, not even after their own embassy was bombed by US airforces.
Is our time so precious like gold that even spending some of it struggling against unfairness is a "waster of time"?!
I can't imagnine what could be more important than keeping our own self-esteem from being teased and raped?
IMHO, if everyone of us is able to stand up for our community (or even just for oneself)fighting for our rights and freedoms, we will be gaining more respect from Canadians and people from the other nations as well.
To xxx:
Don't try to pretend because you are a loser INDEED. Your word are so digusting making me sick for the whole afternoon. I am still angry about your altitude toward this issue. I am serious.
I am sorry I have to comment on this for one thing ---- justice and fairness, which is the very foundamental and basic rights everyone should be definitely concerned about.
Wanna be a loser yourself, go head, 'cause you already are. Don't expect any people to follow you, LOSER!
I have been been in Canada for almost 5 years and I think I am entitled to say something here.
I strongly support 夏天的芝麻 !!! WHY??? Because for so many years I have found that we Chinese are so weak just because we are afraid of standing up facing challenges(even the smallest one like what 夏天的芝麻 has encountered, not mention standing up together like what immigrants from other country (Korea, Iran, Iraq, Russia, etc..., believe it or not, they're way much better than us in this regard). We are so cheap in lots (if not most) Canadian's eyes because there are so many COWARD among our Chinese community. I still remember in one of his speeches, Bush said 911 event is a an "action taken by coward", of course he does not think it is the Chinese who did that because Chinese are not even as bold as those cowards who dare to take the real actions, not even after their own embassy was bombed by US airforces.
Is our time so precious like gold that even spending some of it struggling against unfairness is a "waster of time"?!
I can't imagnine what could be more important than keeping our own self-esteem from being teased and raped?
IMHO, if everyone of us is able to stand up for our community (or even just for oneself)fighting for our rights and freedoms, we will be gaining more respect from Canadians and people from the other nations as well.
To xxx:
Don't try to pretend because you are a loser INDEED. Your word are so digusting making me sick for the whole afternoon. I am still angry about your altitude toward this issue. I am serious.
I am sorry I have to comment on this for one thing ---- justice and fairness, which is the very foundamental and basic rights everyone should be definitely concerned about.
Wanna be a loser yourself, go head, 'cause you already are. Don't expect any people to follow you, LOSER!
