这年月,有人喜欢与公婆或岳父母同住的吗?

到时候再讲吧,总有办法活得积极精彩,活得不让子女担心。。。生活是让人享受的,不是让人来熬的,看你如何看待如何安排了。。。
安乐死是上佳选择,可这帮缺心眼的议员竟然反对安乐死。生于忧患,死于安乐的伟大目标终于成了共产主义了
 
和公婆同住中无比痛苦,公公还正常是个好人,婆婆懒得要死只比死人多做两件事,吃饭和上网,该管的不管,不该管的又啰里八嗦,种种种种......感觉只有离婚才是个解脱
这矛盾已经激化到了一定程度了:tx:
 
男人郁闷的多了。
人还是少郁闷些吧,外界环境很多时候是改变不了的,说到底,遇到什么事,遇到什么人,就是遇到了,没办法的。好好回答你的标题,这年头估计没人“喜欢”跟岳父母公婆同住,但如果摊上了,那就努力过好吧。郁闷抱怨除了让自己心情不好外,有什么改变作用吗?如果有办法改变,就积极改变,如果真没有了,那就认命好好过
 
是呀。我的 inlaws 不爱种菜,不爱做饭和做清洁,没有什么感兴趣的事。整天呆家里挺憋闷的。看看电视,看看报纸,散散步,说说话。他们觉得没法自己单独生活。回国几个月,他们觉得在中国挺忙。但立马就过来了。 没办法。哈哈。我们也没有小孩给他们解闷。反正,我觉得他们也挺可怜的。人生没有任何的追求和兴趣。我只知道,等我到他们的年龄,我可不想这样。
多给他们讲讲生理年龄和心理年龄的差异及青春的本质,让他们重新树立正确的人生观和崇高的个人理想,理想的实现都是从帮助儿女做家务一点一滴中实现的:shy:
 
18岁,你娃上学是自己pay学费生活费么?
As I said earlier, I may pay everything for my kids after 18 till they finish university. But I do not treat it as their obligation to have me and my spouse live in their house. I raise kids out of love.
Anyway, this is taking too much time now. I will stop writing for now... I do not agree with the traditional Chinese way of a few generations living together. I think each family, each couple, no matter old or young, should have their own space.
Everyone have fun. :) :)
This has been a good topic!!!
Thanks, everyone, for participation! We can clearly see how Chinese Canadians think from people's posts.
well done! please carry on....
 
明白了,大家都在谈对方的父母,不是自己的。

如果对方的父母思想很开明,或者是老外,那自己还真不用操心。
美女啊,老外婆婆也一样使人,不是圣人。是人就是有问题的,人生也就是充满问题的,看拿什么心态想和过了
 
As I said earlier, I may pay everything for my kids after 18 till they finish university. But I do not treat it as their obligation to have me and my spouse live in their house. I raise kids out of love.
Anyway, this is taking too much time now. I will stop writing for now... I do not agree with the traditional Chinese way of a few generations living together. I think each family, each couple, no matter old or young, should have their own space.
Everyone have fun. :) :)
This has been a good topic!!!
Thanks, everyone, for participation! We can clearly see how Chinese Canadians think from people's posts.

哎呀,才发现你给别人的帖子都回中文,唯独回猫妈帖子用英文,为嘛呀?欺负咱英文不好么?
well done! please carry on....
 
美女啊,老外婆婆也一样使人,不是圣人。是人就是有问题的,人生也就是充满问题的,看拿什么心态想和过了

:shy: 只是觉得老外婆婆不会认为跟儿子同住是天津地义的事,还有老外婆婆非要跟儿媳妇一起住的吗?不一起住,就拿不孝说事儿的:p:p

我一朋友 (比我妈还大),她就说她将来决不会跟她儿子一起住,以后老了就去养老院。她还不是老外,只是因为儿子在这边长大的。

相处是一码事,同住是另外一回事阿:shale:
 
“哎呀,才发现你给别人的帖子都回中文,唯独回猫妈帖子用英文,为嘛呀?欺负咱英文不好么?
well done! please carry on....”
抱歉。不是故意的。I am slow in typing 中文.
 
没娃的人拿娃说啥事?
等ta有了娃,自己再上点岁数再来说吧!
 
:shy: 只是觉得老外婆婆不会认为跟儿子同住是天津地义的事,还有老外婆婆非要跟儿媳妇一起住的吗?不一起住,就拿不孝说事儿的:p:p

我一朋友 (比我妈还大),她就说她将来决不会跟她儿子一起住,以后老了就去养老院。她还不是老外,只是因为儿子在这边长大的。

相处是一码事,同住是另外一回事阿:shale:
老外也一样有住一起的:p其实天下人都是五花八门的,哪都一样

我们这代受的教育,眼界,和我们的父母一代毕竟不一样,我们明白的,不能要求他们明白,那也没办法的
 
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