这矛盾已经激化到了一定程度了和公婆同住中无比痛苦,公公还正常是个好人,婆婆懒得要死只比死人多做两件事,吃饭和上网,该管的不管,不该管的又啰里八嗦,种种种种......感觉只有离婚才是个解脱
人还是少郁闷些吧,外界环境很多时候是改变不了的,说到底,遇到什么事,遇到什么人,就是遇到了,没办法的。好好回答你的标题,这年头估计没人“喜欢”跟岳父母公婆同住,但如果摊上了,那就努力过好吧。郁闷抱怨除了让自己心情不好外,有什么改变作用吗?如果有办法改变,就积极改变,如果真没有了,那就认命好好过男人郁闷的多了。
多给他们讲讲生理年龄和心理年龄的差异及青春的本质,让他们重新树立正确的人生观和崇高的个人理想,理想的实现都是从帮助儿女做家务一点一滴中实现的是呀。我的 inlaws 不爱种菜,不爱做饭和做清洁,没有什么感兴趣的事。整天呆家里挺憋闷的。看看电视,看看报纸,散散步,说说话。他们觉得没法自己单独生活。回国几个月,他们觉得在中国挺忙。但立马就过来了。 没办法。哈哈。我们也没有小孩给他们解闷。反正,我觉得他们也挺可怜的。人生没有任何的追求和兴趣。我只知道,等我到他们的年龄,我可不想这样。
As I said earlier, I may pay everything for my kids after 18 till they finish university. But I do not treat it as their obligation to have me and my spouse live in their house. I raise kids out of love.18岁,你娃上学是自己pay学费生活费么?
As I said earlier, I may pay everything for my kids after 18 till they finish university. But I do not treat it as their obligation to have me and my spouse live in their house. I raise kids out of love.
Anyway, this is taking too much time now. I will stop writing for now... I do not agree with the traditional Chinese way of a few generations living together. I think each family, each couple, no matter old or young, should have their own space.
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This has been a good topic!!!
Thanks, everyone, for participation! We can clearly see how Chinese Canadians think from people's posts.
哎呀,才发现你给别人的帖子都回中文,唯独回猫妈帖子用英文,为嘛呀?欺负咱英文不好么?
well done! please carry on....