这年月，有人喜欢与公婆或岳父母同住的吗？

[Melody]

“哎呀，才发现你给别人的帖子都回中文，唯独回猫妈帖子用英文，为嘛呀？欺负咱英文不好么？
well done! please carry on....”

抱歉。不是故意的。I am slow in typing 中文.

猫妈不care，只是好奇，为嘛只给咱英文大长篇读……

 

[小猫快跑]

哎，我觉得还真是思想问题。

 

[小猫快跑]

没娃的人拿娃说啥事？
等ta有了娃，自己再上点岁数再来说吧！

搂主只是说没有小孩子给老人玩儿，不等于没有大孩子呀　有的 ｔｅｅｎａｇｅｒ连父母都不理，何况是祖父母啦

 

[马甲1]

曾经跟一个本地老头聊天，问他是不是跟儿子，媳妇一起住。他说没错，但是是儿子和媳妇一家从英国伦敦过来投奔他

 

[Melody]

搂主只是说没有小孩子给老人玩儿，不等于没有大孩子呀　有的 ｔｅｅｎａｇｅｒ连父母都不理，何况是祖父母啦

你家有teen吗？
猫妈家有！
每家的teen都不一样的哈！

 

[胡说芝]

当然！我知道很多男人郁闷，郁闷的是媳妇和妈妈关系搞不好。

那男人又TNND没有BALLS。

 

[胡说芝]

男人郁闷的多了。

男人郁闷归郁闷，但更懂得如何对待生活，至少懂得自己选择了结婚就要承担结婚后随之而来的责任，不会郁闷了就把所有问题都推给岳母，也不想想，如果婆婆那么恶，能培养出你死活要嫁的那个男人吗。。。全考虑自己舒服的话，那就表结婚了

 

[小猫快跑]

你家有teen吗？
猫妈家有！
每家的teen都不一样的哈！

我也希望有ｔｅｅｎ．．．．．

 

[GuardianAngel]

这里

 

[Melody]

我也希望有ｔｅｅｎ．．．．．

猫妈家的teen，稍微得意一哈，就是希望自己以后长大挣钱了，买个大房子把猫爸猫妈，猫姥姥猫姥爷和太婆婆接来一起住，哈哈！
不过猫妈可不想，自己有空间多滋润啊！

 

[胡说芝]

多给他们讲讲生理年龄和心理年龄的差异及青春的本质，让他们重新树立正确的人生观和崇高的个人理想，理想的实现都是从帮助儿女做家务一点一滴中实现的

这个靠谱，讨论来讨论去全是瞎耽误功夫，帮助老人树立正确的人生观和崇高的个人理想是解决问题的根本，花钱我也要给你点赞！

 

[GuardianAngel]

last one：
这里义愤填膺的男士们，你们的父母常住你家或者打算接你父母来长住？ 我想是的。 好， you have balls! 哈哈。i hope your wife like this idea. But hey, you probably do not care anyway, is that right? Haha.
这里义愤填膺的女士们，你们与公婆长住？那你是楷模。Solute to you and your 公婆!

 

[ccc]

my last one:
如果你没有儿子，你将可能是幸福的老人。

 

[Jalise]

Our teenager daughter asked us to promise her we would not live alone when we are old ... we have to live with her (+ her family) as "old people are miserable on their own". We told her we will wait and see ...

 

[GuardianAngel]

my last one:
如果你没有儿子，你将可能是幸福的老人。

my not so last:
What difference does it make, 有儿子or 有daughter, if you plan to live on your own? I am sure your son or daughter will visit you with their family when you are old, and will help you out (does not mean to have you move in with them) when you can no longer help yourself.
Anyone watched the movie "the Notebook"? It is about an old couple. One of them got Alzheimer.

There was one old Chinese couple in Ottawa, whom I admire tremendously. They passed away a couple year ago. Lived a full life on their own. Had a lot of friends, young and old. Even helped others at their old age. Wise and always optimistic...
My Chinese input (google Chinese) tool is not coming out... will type in their names from my cell later.