最初由 haoren1 发布
You are the only one who can make that choice. Ideally, you can proceed with your plan to go abroad and then later manage to sponsor her to reunite with you.
The fact is, if you move to another country and the two of you live away from each other, chances are that you two will lose each other. Therefore, you have to follow your heart and mind. It's a very tough choice to make, but you have to figure out what is more important to you, a girl whom you love dearly or your desire to pursue opportunities and possibilities overseas.