你还知道吗:Why would people tend to share their negative information ( sad experience, unp

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你还知道吗:Why would people tend to share their negative information ( sad experience, unpleasant story, bad news etc.) with few others, rather than many others?
 
但在论坛上,我们趋向把不幸的事告诉给很多人,而不是少数人.
 
怕被别人说自己有什么地方不对,反而更难受。大多数人这是需要的是安慰,因此要找最可能得到同情和安慰的人。
匿名的时候可以告诉很多人,例如网上。
 
在不匿名的情况下,Why would people tend to share their negative
information ( sad experience, unpleasant story, bad news etc.) with fEW others, rather than many others?

feel ashamed/embarrassed

lost confidence/self-esteem

afraid of repercussion/punishment/consequences

won’t disappoint particular persons/important people

lack of enough/effective ability to help

do not know the whole story/situation/background

do not air the dirty laundry in public/ keep confidential/privacy

none of their business

more people knowing bad, just makes it worse

feel worse with more people knowing

take pleasure in your pain

laugh on you

used the information against you

look down/belittle you

think badly of you

untrustworthy

no good/close relationship

avoid risk of threaten/protect self

keep good reputation/social standing/image

对吗?anything else?
 
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