试试这个吧,也许对一些因情而受伤的人有所帮助.

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The Heart-Repair Calculator.

Time is the great healer. But how long will it take? After much study, this is the best formula for getting an estimate:

Short relationships (3 MONTHS OR LESS)

1. 
   [*]count the number of weeks that you knew the person before the relationship turned romantic, and then divide this number by 2
   
   [*]count the number of weeks that you were romantically involved
   
   [*]add-up A and B
   
   [*]count the average number of days per week you saw him/her during the romance, and divide this number by 2
   
   [*]multiply C and D - that's how many weeks it will take to begin feeling normal
   

Example: Lou met Barb. After 4 weeks they started dating. They dated for 8 weeks, seeing each other an average of 4 nights per week. Then Barb left. It will take Lou's heart about 20 weeks (or just under 5 months) to recover.
Mid-length relationships (1 YEAR OR LESS)

1. 
   [*]count the number of months that you were romantically involved
   
   [*]count the average number of days per week you saw him/her during the romance, and divide this number by 2
   
   [*]multiply A and B - that's how many months it will take to begin feeling normal
   

Example: Dave met Sandra. They had a passionate romance for 8 months, seeing each other about 3 times per week. Then Sandra left. It will take Dave's heart about 12 months (1 year) to recover.
Long relationships (1 YEAR OR MORE)

1. 
   [*]estimate how happy you were (day to day) on a scale of 1 to 3
   
   [*]estimate how physically attractive you found your mate on a scale of 1 to 3
   
   [*]add up A and B - and then divide this number by 2-- this will give you a number in years
   
   [*]subtract one year from the total
   

Example: John was happily married to Mary (he ranked his happiness a 2 out of 3. He found Mary very attractive, a 3 out of 3. Mary leaves. John's heart will take 1 ½ years to recover.

Five Steps To Heal A Broken Heart:

1. The Heart-Repair Calculator.
Use this formula to calculate how long it will take your heart to recover.

2. Music - Potent Medicine.
Here are the artists and albums that provide the greatest healing power.

3. Write. Write. Read.What to write, and what to read.

4. Back in time - a trip home.
A walk through your old neighborhood--mysteriously therapeutic.

5. Regaining Faith.
Getting a handle on managing your heart by hearing what your head has to say.

6. Step Six? Okay, this an optional 'bonus' step.
Treat yourself to a good-luck token.
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