[提议+投票] 辟邪，请下台
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回皮鞋的悄悄话
皮鞋啊，贱贱对你个人一点没意见，还很赞赏你的consistency(不然也不会请你来喝xz酒)，但你作为石滩斑竹真的不能算称职。原因呢也不能都怪你，人人都有个喜恶的选择，难免没有倾向性。打个比方，贱贱第一次看到小白讲坚强女人的帖子，义愤填膺，特想大骂那个负心汉；但后来得知坚强女人竟然是viverra, 马上不以为然起来。为此贱贱还特意思考了几天，明知不该，但不能自已，也没找到改进的方法。
你有明显的倾向性，所以贱贱从开始就不赞成你当斑竹。过客发的关于斑竹那贴其实挺中肯。听不听自然在你。但不公正的行为恐怕不能得到他人的尊重。
也算与你共勉吧。
皮鞋啊，贱贱对你个人一点没意见，还很赞赏你的consistency(不然也不会请你来喝xz酒)，但你作为石滩斑竹真的不能算称职。原因呢也不能都怪你，人人都有个喜恶的选择，难免没有倾向性。打个比方，贱贱第一次看到小白讲坚强女人的帖子，义愤填膺，特想大骂那个负心汉；但后来得知坚强女人竟然是viverra, 马上不以为然起来。为此贱贱还特意思考了几天，明知不该，但不能自已，也没找到改进的方法。
你有明显的倾向性，所以贱贱从开始就不赞成你当斑竹。过客发的关于斑竹那贴其实挺中肯。听不听自然在你。但不公正的行为恐怕不能得到他人的尊重。
也算与你共勉吧。
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贱贱，
下次最好先告诉我一声再把悄悄话发出来。就像以前有人一定要我拿出别人的悄悄话来对质一样，我当时认为在悄悄话里面如果没有得到发送人的同意，就贸然发出来这样有些不妥。你看呢？
该悄悄话全文如下：
下次最好先告诉我一声再把悄悄话发出来。就像以前有人一定要我拿出别人的悄悄话来对质一样，我当时认为在悄悄话里面如果没有得到发送人的同意，就贸然发出来这样有些不妥。你看呢？
该悄悄话全文如下：
小贱贱 在 Jan-17-03 05:31 PM 写到:
riven早开溜了。到多伦多逍遥去了。
皮鞋啊，贱贱对你个人一点没意见，还很赞赏你的consistency(不然也不会请你来喝xz酒)，但你作为石滩斑竹真的不能算称值。原因呢也不能都怪你，人人都有个喜恶的选择，难免没有倾向性。打个比方，贱贱第一次看到小白讲坚强女人的帖子，义愤填膺，特想大骂那个负心汉；但后来得知坚强女人竟然是viverra, 马上不以为然起来。为此贱贱还特意思考了几天，明知不该，但不能自已，也没找到改进的方法。
你有明显的倾向性，所以贱贱从开始就不赞成你当斑竹。过客发的关于斑竹那贴其实挺中肯。听不听自然在你。但不公正的行为恐怕不能得到他人的尊重。
也算与你共勉吧。
辟邪 在 Jan-17-03 05:20 PM 写到:
你有没有问过RIVEN？移到别的论坛的贴子就不在我的权限里了。还记得吗，PANZER也因为类似的情况没有去问VISITOR，就先满坛子嚷嚷上了，呵呵，最后他来一个死不认帐。
人看外界就是其内心的反映，辱人与被辱，自在各心。随意吧
小贱贱 在 Jan-17-03 05:10 PM 写到:
我去站长办公室找过，没有看见才去主坛发贴的。
人必自辱而后人辱之。Right?
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It's not good to post someone's QQH on the BBS. I realy hate that: no manner.
Who says: "Zi Yi Wei Shi".
Who says: "Zi Yi Wei Shi".
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OK, if it's QQH, why need to put on the BBS and let everyone know what you replied to "Bi Xie"? To show what? Even to show your point, that just the point you showed to "Bi Xie", not everybody. It's not respect for others.
I also feel quite disappointed to what you said to him.
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Alright, want to hear my side of the story? Here it comes:
No. 1: the private message was composed by ME, therefore I think that I have the ownership of that message.
No. 2: you are right, all I wanted was to demonstrate my point of view. Also I think it might be a good idea to share my point of view with others.
No. 3: the message was composed in the manner that I thought was NOT damaging or demeaning or condescending in anyway but rather constructive, don't you think?
No. 4: speaking of respect, how would you know what "others" think of my point of view? Can you really speak on their behalf?
Last but not the least: walk in someone else' shoes one day for a change, maybe it's not as simple as what you think.
p.s. I really thought communicatin was the key to every problem, that was what I did, and I wasn't going anywhere, so I'll stop trying. I was disappointed only because I had so much respect and high expectation for 辟邪。Unfortunately not anymore.
No. 1: the private message was composed by ME, therefore I think that I have the ownership of that message.
No. 2: you are right, all I wanted was to demonstrate my point of view. Also I think it might be a good idea to share my point of view with others.
No. 3: the message was composed in the manner that I thought was NOT damaging or demeaning or condescending in anyway but rather constructive, don't you think?
No. 4: speaking of respect, how would you know what "others" think of my point of view? Can you really speak on their behalf?
Last but not the least: walk in someone else' shoes one day for a change, maybe it's not as simple as what you think.
p.s. I really thought communicatin was the key to every problem, that was what I did, and I wasn't going anywhere, so I'll stop trying. I was disappointed only because I had so much respect and high expectation for 辟邪。Unfortunately not anymore.
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