[提议+投票] 辟邪，请下台

[green_grass]

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XJJ已经不是过去那个大家喜欢的Sage了。多说无益。

绿草姑娘，如来初次在你的坛子转贴了一文，你也不鼓励鼓励哈?

OH, when? I never saw you post any articles there.

As a matter of fact, I like your articles which posted in the tea house, but I cannot type chinese now, less words to express how I thought.

 

[假道学]

辟邪就是一个大傻子。 虽不后悔当初支持辟邪，但今后却要考虑考虑了.

 

[green_grass]

最初由 小贱贱 发布
Alright, want to hear my side of the story? Here it comes:

No. 1: the private message was composed by ME, therefore I think that I have the ownership of that message.

No. 2: you are right, all I wanted was to demonstrate my point of view. Also I think it might be a good idea to share my point of view with others.

No. 3: the message was composed in the manner that I thought was NOT damaging or demeaning or condescending in anyway but rather constructive, don't you think?

No. 4: speaking of respect, how would you know what "others" think of my point of view? Can you really speak on their behalf?

Last but not the least: walk in someone else' shoes one day for a change, maybe it's not as simple as what you think.

p.s. I really thought communicatin was the key to every problem, that was what I did, and I wasn't going anywhere, so I'll stop trying. I was disappointed only because I had so much respect and high expectation for 辟邪。Unfortunately not anymore.

On the opposite, no matter the message damaged or not, it's QQH at all. If this QQH was for me, I would also feel upset that you posted on the BBS but without my permission. See what the title you used: "Reply for Bi Xie's QQH." Is that the right word QQH you meant? Yes, of course you can demonstrate you point, but it's the wrong way. Is that called you had so much respect for Bi Xie?

I don't care how others think your point of view, and I even don't feel interesting in which shoes or MA JIA you will wear one day. I know what I am thinking, and I know what I am talking, that's the most important. Well, if it's simple or not, who cares!

By the way, I agree communication is a key to people, but it depends on which people you will communicate to. For somebody, I will never ever to waste time to communicate.

Maybe 如来's word is right.

 

[辟邪]

茶馆可以分左右席了

 

[oread]

Actually I'm not quite following you, but I'll try to make myself clear.

Once again, I disagree with you on the right to display MY message. It wasn't personal, there was no attacks, the intention was good, I used myself as an example, I had already said many many times on the public forum what I said in the message to Pi Xie...I really, I mean really can't see anything wrong with what I did. Seriously enlighten me, please.

It's rather interesting that you'd take the words from someone constantly using "ma jia". I have not yet and do not intend to use any "ma jia" if that's what you are worried about. Not that I like the idea of "ma jia" (on the contrarary I too hate that practice), but if what someone said makes sense, why bother? What I can't stand is someone using "ma jia", with the use of vulgar language, to personally attack other people! That I cannot and will not tolerate!

You are absolutely right in your last comment. I will no longer waste my time and effort on nonsense like this.

 

[oread]

茶馆是娘家，不谈国事。

最初由 辟邪 发布
茶馆可以分左右席了

 

[abby]

很少来站长办公室，不巧却看到了绿草的关于QQH的贴子。

其实，QQH并不一定是隐私，有时只为问和坛子关系不太密的问题。记得，在文学苑，
我曾经贴出绿草的QQH。QQH本没有什么个人细节在里，只是觉着和坛子主题不是很
紧，所以没有贴出来。后来，贴了出来，大家可以自己去看为什么贴了出来。
http://www.comefromchina.com/newbbs/showthread.php?postid=189050#post189050

很早的事了，翻了出来，说明两点，第一点，QQH不一定就是隐私，贴出来有时只是
想说清情况。IN MY CASE，几乎是绿草ASK FOR IT。第二点，版主不一定就公平，
因为他们也是各式各样的人，当版主也是各式各样的原因，不喜欢坛子，不去就行
了，没有必要闹成这样。TORONTO的ROLIA，流量比CFC大很多，却难看到闹成这样的。
网主一定也够烦的了。其实，上CFC这样非营利的网，就象到人家作客，两相情愿的。
客人要是总是要这要那，就显得对HOST不很礼貌。象大家不喜欢史坛，不去就完了。

 

[假道学]

abby 网友: 看了你的帖子,想与您商榷两点:

最初由 abby 发布
第一点，QQH不一定就是隐私，贴出来有时只是
想说清情况。IN MY CASE，几乎是绿草ASK FOR IT。

你的情况,"IN MY CASE，几乎是绿草ASK FOR IT",这与僻邪对别人公布给其的QQH的反应是不同的.至少,你公布的QQH应不使对方反感,对吗?

TORONTO的ROLIA，流量比CFC大很多，却难看到闹成这样的。
网主一定也够烦的了。其实，上CFC这样非营利的网，就象到人家作客，两相情愿的。
客人要是总是要这要那，就显得对HOST不很礼貌。象大家不喜欢史坛，不去就完了。

那就让我们来看看rolia的"坛规"吧:

http://www.rolia.net/help/forum_rules.php

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我认为,如果CFC也加上rolia论坛中红色字的限制,一定会少很多无聊的争吵和谩骂攻击.


不知您以为然否?

 

[green_grass]

Ok, whatever you said about, as for my opinion, QQH is for personal use, answer personal question. You have the right to say QQH is not 隐私, I have the right to think that you didn't respect for others.

See what Pi Xie said: "would you please ask me before you post?". That's called respect. After you posted your QQH, didn't that hurt Pi Xie's feeling?

What's more, I said that I wouldn't care about if you change clothes or not, never ever, why you said I was worried about that. Who cares yore clothes in the BBS, that's realy funny, don't put your thought on my mind.

And I think your last word is absolutely right, too. I will not reply for such nonsense anymore.

 

[浪客TANXIN]

最初由 如来 发布
abby 网友: 看了你的帖子,想与您商榷两点:



你的情况,"IN MY CASE，几乎是绿草ASK FOR IT",这与僻邪对别人公布给其的QQH的反应是不同的.至少,你公布的QQH应不使对方反感,对吗?




那就让我们来看看rolia的"坛规"吧:

http://www.rolia.net/help/forum_rules.php

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遵守加拿大和居住国的法律
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不对rolia会员或任何公众人物进行人身攻击。
不故意传播或制造无根无据的谣言
提倡不同族裔的平等和谐共处
避免在论坛上公开私人（包括本人或他人）信息，如真实姓名、地址、电话等，建议使用系统email功能交流私人信息。
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关于中国领导人的活动
关于中国的政治性或军事性话题
关于中国与其他国家地区(加拿大除外)的政治关系
并且，枫下论坛严格禁止以下内容：
粗俗不洁语言
人身攻击
违反加拿大法律
渲染色情、暴力，鼓动战争
宣扬仇恨（含种族仇恨，国家仇恨，阶级仇恨，宗教仇恨等）
宣扬狭隘民族主义
各种形式的歧视
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传销或类似性质的广告，如：网上挣钱等
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谢谢您的合作！


我认为,如果CFC也加上rolia论坛中红色字的限制,一定会少很多无聊的争吵和谩骂攻击.


不知您以为然否?

作为中国人连中国的事都不能说了还不如当初被小日本亡国算了:flaming:

 

[田目]

如来呀，如来
你的懦弱，奴性，和跪拜皇恩的态度难道来到异国也不能减轻一点吗？
还是那句话，没人逼你去参与那些讨论！！

 

[假道学]

最初由 田目 发布
如来呀，如来
你的懦弱，奴性，和跪拜皇恩的态度难道来到异国也不能减轻一点吗？
还是那句话，没人逼你去参与那些讨论！！

人身攻击,建议封"田目"的IP

 

[田目]

最初由 如来 发布


人身攻击,建议封"田目"的IP

拿鸡毛当令箭，在你眼里还有什么话不是人身攻击呢？你还是赶快回去转贴那些“男人需要女人，还是女人需要男人”的小资文章去吧。这里真的真的不适合你！！！