公公非要吃捡回来的野蘑菇，该让他吃吗？
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of course not!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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人老了,性格特不好改变,固执的要命,老人看来很多都这样,没办法.还以为就俺娘这样呢,唉!
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not poisioned
those mushrooms are white right? they aren`t poisonous. i think you father-in-law knows that and the good taste you can`t buy from store. if your mom had to cook after you are gone,that`s tragedy.why would they be afraid of own children like that?f you are afraid of being poisoned,don`t eat it yourself.i don`t like your way of referring you f-i-l,that`s hyporite.and i think you are voilating their "human rights"
those mushrooms are white right? they aren`t poisonous. i think you father-in-law knows that and the good taste you can`t buy from store. if your mom had to cook after you are gone,that`s tragedy.why would they be afraid of own children like that?f you are afraid of being poisoned,don`t eat it yourself.i don`t like your way of referring you f-i-l,that`s hyporite.and i think you are voilating their "human rights"
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The issue is not the mushroom!
The issue deep down is he felt like he is no longer in control in his life. He is getting older, don't have the means to bring in money, don't have the language skill any more. He cannot get around unless someone bring him somewhere. He felt like he is a burden of the family.
When he compare the good old days in China, he should be the boss, the head of the family. In his mind, he is providing his family (bring in money like he once did). Your rejection is like rejecting his afford to provide.
Understand his feeling, and don't hold it again him. I bet he doesn't understand it either. Get him more involve in family affair, ask for his input that could make him feel better.
Unfortunately, not much could be done for him. Just wish when we were older we don't get into the same situation.
The issue deep down is he felt like he is no longer in control in his life. He is getting older, don't have the means to bring in money, don't have the language skill any more. He cannot get around unless someone bring him somewhere. He felt like he is a burden of the family.
When he compare the good old days in China, he should be the boss, the head of the family. In his mind, he is providing his family (bring in money like he once did). Your rejection is like rejecting his afford to provide.
Understand his feeling, and don't hold it again him. I bet he doesn't understand it either. Get him more involve in family affair, ask for his input that could make him feel better.
Unfortunately, not much could be done for him. Just wish when we were older we don't get into the same situation.
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never hurt anyone in your family for these little things.what`s the matter anyway?
