正相反，我就是想说，家长不要管的太多。
中学绩好，不见的以后的成绩就好。反之，亦然。
昨晚教育局关于Gifted Program 的讨论会
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中学绩好，不见的以后的成绩就好。反之，亦然。
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不可以吗？有些家长就是愿意把孩子从头管到脚，弄的孩子一点都不自立。但是家长自己没意识到。
你是指Gifted就是好，非gifted就不好了？我不那么认为。
还说一个。大学9月份开学，有个孩子不到感恩节就退学了。原因是从没离开过家，到大学不适应自己生活。
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我也不认为Gifted就是好，非gifted就不好。
但我也不认为家长应该不管，不应该做决定。
让孩子高兴很容易。比如说男孩子，让他玩游戏他肯定很高兴。
我想说的是，家长和孩子的关系不是管与被管的关系。和孩子有关的决定应该让孩子参与；家长与孩子应该互相倾听。不能一名话“孩子乐意上哪儿就上哪儿。家长管那么多干吗”。不然的话，还要家长干什么？
至于Gifted的好坏，仁者见仁，智者见智。
但是我想问那些考过gifted的孩子的父母，你们真正花过时间和你们的孩子坐下来谈一些他们感兴趣、但课堂未必能找到答案的话题吗？你们发现没，沿着他们的兴趣，你们可以就一下话题不断的往深入谈？你们发现没也许你会觉得很吃力的去回答他们的问题？如果没有，我建议你们花几个小时的时间和他们聊一下。然后你再考虑上gifted有没有必要。
下面是从Ottawa School Board上搞来的，
The aim of the Gifted Program is to provide enrichment rather than acceleration. The program is designed to encourage the development of complex thinking and problem-solving skills using extension activities. As well the program encourages cooperative work; peer and self evaluation tasks are based on criteria determined by both teacher and students. The program allows children of similar abilities and interests to work together
所以gifted program目的很清楚，不是要教育出成绩好的，不是要把他们送到好大学，不是要把他们教育成乖孩子。是要provide enrichment。
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啊？失望... 那可能就不去上了。不过还早着呢，以后再烦
多谢信息，给您加声望了！
谢谢传谣希望您说的是真的！
谢谢。不过未必是谣。参见http://publicapps.ocdsb.ca/au_hi_student transfers.asp
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March 7, 2012: 10:29 AM ET
Graduating from a top school and scaling the corporate heights won't necessarily lead to a long, happy life, says a new study.
By Anne Fisher, contributor
FORTUNE -- How do you define success?
That's the question at the core of an exhaustive research project by Timothy Judge, a professor of management at the University of Notre Dame's Mendoza College of Business. "Despite their many accomplishments, ambitious people are only slightly happier than their less-ambitious counterparts, and they actually live somewhat shorter lives," says Judge.
His study tracked 717 go-getters, born in the early years of the 20th century, and measured ambition, achievement, and various indicators of health and happiness at key points in the subjects' lives, from childhood into young adulthood and beyond.
Many in the group graduated from Harvard, Yale, Princeton, Stanford, and other prestigious schools, and then went on to demanding, high-status, highly paid careers. Yet, when compared with a control group of more laid-back peers -- folks with the personality profile psychologists sometimes label Type B -- the high-achieving group was not markedly happier. What's more, the slackers, on average, outlived the high-achievers.
"We discovered that ambition has, at most, only a very slight positive effect on life satisfaction, and actually a slightly negative impact on longevity," says Judge. "So, yes, ambitious people do achieve more successful careers, but that doesn't seem to translate into leading happier or healthier lives."
Although the study doesn't address the reasons for higher mortality rates among ambitious people, Judge speculates that "perhaps the investments they make in their careers come at the expense of the things we know affect longevity," such as "healthy behaviors, stable relationships, and deep social networks."
Note to parents: Pushing kids to aim for the stars, get into a prestigious school, and pursue a high-powered career may not do them any favors in the long run.
"If your biggest wish for your children is that they lead happy and healthy lives, you might not want to overemphasize the importance of professional success," says Judge. "There are limits to what our ambitions can bring us -- or our kids."
The study, "On the Value of Aiming High: The Causes and Consequences of Ambition," will appear in a forthcoming issue of the Journal of Applied Psychology.
http://management.fortune.cnn.com/2012/03/07/ambition-success-happiness-not-quite/
灌些水：
Ambition = success = happiness? Not quite.
March 7, 2012: 10:29 AM ET
Graduating from a top school and scaling the corporate heights won't necessarily lead to a long, happy life, says a new study.
By Anne Fisher, contributor
FORTUNE -- How do you define success?
That's the question at the core of an exhaustive research project by Timothy Judge, a professor of management at the University of Notre Dame's Mendoza College of Business. "Despite their many accomplishments, ambitious people are only slightly happier than their less-ambitious counterparts, and they actually live somewhat shorter lives," says Judge.
His study tracked 717 go-getters, born in the early years of the 20th century, and measured ambition, achievement, and various indicators of health and happiness at key points in the subjects' lives, from childhood into young adulthood and beyond.
Many in the group graduated from Harvard, Yale, Princeton, Stanford, and other prestigious schools, and then went on to demanding, high-status, highly paid careers. Yet, when compared with a control group of more laid-back peers -- folks with the personality profile psychologists sometimes label Type B -- the high-achieving group was not markedly happier. What's more, the slackers, on average, outlived the high-achievers.
"We discovered that ambition has, at most, only a very slight positive effect on life satisfaction, and actually a slightly negative impact on longevity," says Judge. "So, yes, ambitious people do achieve more successful careers, but that doesn't seem to translate into leading happier or healthier lives."
Although the study doesn't address the reasons for higher mortality rates among ambitious people, Judge speculates that "perhaps the investments they make in their careers come at the expense of the things we know affect longevity," such as "healthy behaviors, stable relationships, and deep social networks."
Note to parents: Pushing kids to aim for the stars, get into a prestigious school, and pursue a high-powered career may not do them any favors in the long run.
"If your biggest wish for your children is that they lead happy and healthy lives, you might not want to overemphasize the importance of professional success," says Judge. "There are limits to what our ambitions can bring us -- or our kids."
The study, "On the Value of Aiming High: The Causes and Consequences of Ambition," will appear in a forthcoming issue of the Journal of Applied Psychology.
http://management.fortune.cnn.com/2012/03/07/ambition-success-happiness-not-quite/
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