暖暖午后茶

我写过好几篇六四的小说,在国内根本不可能写这样的题材:
六月街火

悲城之恋

upload_2017-3-7_22-27-5.png
 
我觉得海外有一个优势,就是真正的可以想写什么写什么。而且,现在写小说也很难赚钱,所以更可以想怎么写怎么写。
我写过好几篇六四的小说,在国内根本不可能写这样的题材:

六月街火

悲城之恋

谢谢拥抱,我去好好拜读欣赏一下。
 
人类的情感之复杂,超乎想象。爱因斯坦之聪明,还不是无法驾驭?文艺作品又是其最为复杂的映像。要求一切反射美好,我们只有回到50年代的中国。真实的世界,需要阴阳美丑善恶悲欢离合,需要正负。

Why Sad Songs Make Us Happy



So. Many. Feels.

By Shaunacy Ferro July 15, 2013
Adele.tv

Sometimes It (Doesn't) Hurt Instead

Even though listening to sad songs should leave us feeling terrible, we have a tendency to actually kind of like them. Case in point: A 2008 study found that minor-key music sounded sadder than major-key music to people, but that people found it more likable.

Well, a group of Japanese researchers just got paid to figure out why we enjoy crying it out with Adele over her broken heart so much. It's not just masochism--although we understand that the song is supposed to evoke sadness, we end up feeling more positive or ambivalent emotions in response.

In a study of 44 people, participants listened to one of three lesser-known classical pieces--to avoid emotional influence from memories connected to hearing the piece before--in both a major and minor key. Researchers asked them to pinpoint the feelings they experienced while listening to the music, as well as predict what kind of emotions they perceived other people would experience while listening to the song.

Participants perceived the sad music (the songs in a minor key) as tragic, but it didn't make them as miserable as they thought another person would feel, the researchers write:

The listeners felt less gloomy, meditative, and miserable as well as more fascinated, dear, in love, merry, animated, and inclined to dance when they listened to sad music compared with their actual perceptions of the same music.

Part of the reason for this could be that we expect to feel sad, and are thus pleased when our expectations come to pass, a phenomenon called "sweet anticipation."

"Even if listeners experience negative emotions when listening to sad music, sweet anticipation might still allow them to feel positive emotions," the paper concludes. "Even if the music itself is perceived as negative, and negative emotion is aroused in listeners in part, we have a tendency to experience ambivalent emotions by concurrently feeling pleased by virtue of our cognitive appraisal."

It could also have to do with the fact that the sadness we feel isn't the direct result of a sad situation. Listening to someone else sing about his or her sadness is a vicarious experience, so the sadness we feel isn't as threatening to our well-being. We can just sit back and enjoy someone else's heartbreak.

The study is published in Frontiers In Emotion Science.


赞同。
人类的情感是不易驾驭的,喜怒不形于色,我认为不是控制了情感和情绪,而是控制了表情。要做到控制驾驭情感真的很难,首先得有成熟和宽容的认知,这需要人生经验,需要良师益友,需要阅读和学习,等等。不是一朝一夕可以炼成,但是一旦形成,会受益一生。
文艺作品的确是最为复杂的映像。能反映真实的世界,能如实反映阴阳美丑善恶悲欢离合的作品才有其价值和生命力。
 
适合我小说里的男主。小说里的男主都是又高又帅还心肠特好。

拜读了拥抱哥的部分作品后,脑中浮现的拥抱就是这个样子,现主任提供了一些关于拥抱的宝贵信息,一尘又温馨提示美文一篇,我想,如再次抽空画拥抱,该是另一模样了。
 
谢谢凡心,把我画得太好太帅了。眼睛和眉毛太有神了。
收藏了,以后我就拿这个当标准像了,谁找我要相片,我就把这个发给谁。。。

拥抱哥不用客气,我还一直有些担心,怕不能入你法眼呢,最近较忙,还只是拜读了你部份作品,待我读完你更多作品后,再加上主任热心提供的那么多一手信息,若拥抱不介意,到时我再另贴一张图。
 
拥抱哥不用客气,我还一直有些担心,怕不能入你法眼呢,最近较忙,还只是拜读了你部份作品,待我读完你更多作品后,再加上主任热心提供的那么多一手信息,若拥抱不介意,到时我再另贴一张图。
谢谢凡心,画得非常好,一张已经足够了,不要再给我画了。我知道每一张画都是要花许多时间,也是挺费心血的。
 
谢谢凡心,画得非常好,一张已经足够了,不要再给我画了。我知道每一张画都是要花许多时间,也是挺费心血的。

不用客气,只要拥抱哥觉得好就行。我也不是立刻构图,或许一年半载的,待我找时间好好拜读更多拥抱的大作再说。
 
鲸鲸没来呀,又有好玩的图片了:p:p:p

你拍过的老师和同学最搞笑的一张照片是什么?神一样的抓拍...

正在拍照的时候,班主任突然出现了……
5.jpe
 
高中同学上课想睡觉,贴了个假眼睛,连老师都笑出声!!!
13-1.jpe


他们都说打篮球能找到女朋友,但…
15.jpg
 
后退
顶部