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Ontario’s sex-ed backlash isn’t about children’s safety

DEBRA SOH
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PUBLISHED 8 HOURS AGOUPDATED JULY 15, 2018
Debra Soh holds a PhD in sexual neuroscience research from York University and writes about the science and politics of sex.

Last week, Ontario’s Education Minister, Lisa Thompson, announced that the province will revert to a previous version of its sex-education curriculum when students return to school in the fall. The older curriculum, last updated in 1998, will remain in effect until the government completes parental consultations for feedback. The decision follows promises made by Premier Doug Ford during his leadership campaign earlier this year.

Based on the resulting public backlash, you would think we were facing an apocalypse. Indeed, both versions of the curriculum could afford to be improved. Kathleen Wynne’s controversial program, first introduced in 2015, had the goal of keeping kids safe in an age when the Internet exposes them to all kinds of information in a terrifyingly unfiltered way.


According to Ms. Wynne, about 4,000 parents, in addition to psychologists, psychiatrists, and the police, were consulted when formulating her curriculum. This was hardly a representative sample, working out to only one selected parent for each publicly funded elementary school.

supporter of the updated sex-ed curriculum, but watching how its unscientific claims about gender identity have spread so prevalently has dampened my enthusiasm. The curriculum promotes the idea that there are more than two genders and that gender identity is socially constructed.


The fact that few people have pointed out how these teachings aren’t based in science should raise a red flag in parents’ minds.

According to one survey, less than 1 per cent of people in the United States identify as transgender. That means for over 99 per cent of us, our biological sex is our gender.

A curriculum that teaches gender fluidity is misleading and will impair a child’s ability to have an accurate understanding of the world.

The 1998 curriculum has its downfalls, too. Many parents welcoming a return to it have voiced misguided fears that the updated curriculum was not age-appropriate. But science-based sex education has been shown to be effective, leading young people to delay becoming sexually active and increasing the likelihood that they will engage in safer sex practices when they do.

The sexual landscape has changed immensely over the past 20 years and the curriculum needs to reflect that. For those who remember 1998, it predated social media and marriage equality. Sex-ed from that era failed to address complex, modern issues such as cyberbullying, sexting and consent. I was taught Ontario’s sex-ed curriculum around that time and, even then, it felt clinical and out-of-date.


But the level of outrage in response to Ms. Thompson’s announcement is not commensurate to the decision made. As a former academic sex researcher, I can tell you that Canadians – as open-minded and reasonable as we are – could still afford to be more sex-positive. I have a hard time believing that families are really that distraught over the fact that their children’s sex-ed lesson plans are going to be less intensive. Ontario’s government is not doing away with sex-ed altogether.

The backlash is emblematic of a disdain for those who lean right politically, and a desire to rally against Mr. Ford for the sake of political divisiveness. This is evident in the number of media outlets and individuals on social media, angrily pointingthe finger at social conservatives.

It brings us to the question of who gets to dictate how a child is raised – should it be the responsibility of the parent or the state? Sexual education cannot be blindly outsourced to the education system. As uncomfortable as it may be, parents must be savvy about the issues their kids are contending with in 2018.

Even if an ideal, fact-based, comprehensive sex-ed curriculum was being implemented, whether intentionally or not, parents still shape a child’s view
s. When children are able to have open conversations about sex with their parents, this leads them to make better decisions regarding their sexual health. It also sends a wider, crucial message that talking about human sexuality is both acceptable and necessary for our well-being.
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支持一下,sexed这件事情上交锋的左右两派涉及很多点

1. 谁有权力教育儿童?父母还是政府?政府权力需要与父母权利平衡,走到哪里这种平衡就会被打破。安省大选已经很明晰。

2. 性别生物定义与心理认定与心理疾病与自由主义与社会契约。。。这一点上争论最为深刻,也最为神经病。

3. 政治的极端化倾向与中间道路的对战。正是出于这一点,很多知识分子最终选择反对激进教纲。极端就是找死。这在政治上,是非常重要的一条。

4. 言论自由,与儿童洗脑。安省决定干预言论自由,强制别人使用特殊性别称谓,被大学教授顶回去了。但是教纲却大张旗鼓地洗脑儿童。摆在明面上,就说要儿童形成“正确”观念。实际上正确与否,这又涉及到,政府只能问题。父母的权利问题。

小小性教纲,为什么能够成为保守党上台后标志性的动作?起码这4点。标志着加拿大最大省份开始从极左回头。
 
我这次省选投了保守党,但不是因反对自由党的性教纲而投。很多反对性教纲的人认为性教育是家长的权力,但有多少父母有比较全面的性教育知识?又有多少父母会系统地传授或与孩子交流这方面的知识?我的两个孩子都是在这出生和长大的。我个人和朋友的经验认为学校这方面的教育远比父母强。
 
我这次省选投了保守党,但不是因反对自由党的性教纲而投。很多反对性教纲的人认为性教育是家长的权力,但有多少父母有比较全面的性教育知识?又有多少父母会系统地传授或与孩子交流这方面的知识?我的两个孩子都是在这出生和长大的。我个人和朋友的经验认为学校这方面的教育远比父母强。
也许没改之前的效果不错。你怎么知道结果自由党大幅改革之后的效果还是不错呢?
反的是过分极端的性教纲。
 
家长不知性?绝大多数家长只是不知道72中性而已。
不要走极端,走了极端好事变坏事,安省极端教纲的问题不在于他进步,而在于它完全不信任家长,完全剥夺家长判断的权利,推行极端理念。过早,过乱。过于极左。过于幼稚。

剥夺别人的权利终归是自己的权利被剥夺。

如今应验。
 
家长不知性?绝大多数家长只是不知道72中性而已。
不要走极端,走了极端好事变坏事,安省极端教纲的问题不在于他进步,而在于它完全不信任家长,完全剥夺家长判断的权利,推行极端理念。过早,过乱。过于极左。过于幼稚。

剥夺别人的权利终归是自己的权利被剥夺。

如今应验。
你现在剥夺了他们的权利是不是在为他们将来再次剥夺你的权利做准备啊?:eek:
 
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你现在剥夺了他们的权利是不是在为他们将来再次剥夺你的权利做准备啊?:eek:
脑子煮熟了?他们是政党,我们是人民公民。我们剥夺他们的,天经地义。反过来他们剥夺我们的,这年头就是找死。
 
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脑子煮熟了?他们是政党,我们是人民公民。我们剥夺他们的,天经地义。反过来他们剥夺我们的,这年头就是找死。
那你们号召大家花15刀加入政党是肿么回事儿?:rolleyes:
大概是为了公平起见,下次他们就可以剥夺你们的政党的权利了:good:
 
保党华人助选团推的这篇文章明明是说:
2015年教纲除了性别错识变性人教育不太科学外,其它都很好。现暂时教1998年大纲,在家给孩子上2015年大纲是家长的責任,不要推给学校。不要因教纲的问题臭骂保守党,骂他们极端右翼。
楼主来解释下,是不是这意思。真是这意思,我都要替反教纲的华人家长骂人。我们只想要孩子有纯真的童年青年,不要随便改改,又拿2015年教纲糊弄我们。
 
最后编辑:
接上段。

这嘴都还是硬的。哈哈
 
反对性教纲的种种理由中其实最主要的是它体现的价值观与许多反对者不一致。但是那些性异常在现实中是客观存在的,它们有可能是邻居或孩子同学的父母,也不要低估当今信息流通对孩子们的影响。性教纲不可怕,关键是学校老师如何解释这些性现象和如何引导孩子。
 
很快咱们就进入悖论了。我不说了,大家自己想。

反对性教纲的种种理由中其实最主要的是它体现的价值观与许多反对者不一致。但是那些性异常在现实中是客观存在的,它们有可能是邻居或孩子同学的父母,也不要低估当今信息流通对孩子们的影响。性教纲不可怕,关键是学校老师如何解释这些性现象和如何引导孩子。
 
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