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[楚歌]

当一个人时时刻刻想着和另一人分手的时候，这种作为就不离奇了。
另外，不管哪里人的群体都会有吝啬的个体，不可一言蔽之。看来这段议论又要挑
起各城市性格的争论。
不过，这位老公实在愚蠢，他老爹死了他还要上遗产税。房子动则数十万，遗产税
可要去掉大半。鼠目寸光！

 

[火焰琥珀]

那怕是和他闹的再僵也不能离婚,不然你老公反而觉得他现在这样做更是正确的了.虽然主张男人可以在产权上采取一些保护措施,但是这样的做法还是有点说不过去.所以你要在经济上独立.你可以问他有没有考虑到你这方面的感受,虽然不是为了财产,但是这样会伤感情.一定要酌情处理哟!!

 

[kool]

I don't think he is stupid to put his father name on, if this is for business reason.
and this house can purchase under the corporation..then it will be totally different story la...

the woman will have nothing after divorce and even his father die, he don't need to pay the damn tax.. everything still belong to corpration. (corpration not necessary has to make money)

the best way to avoid this happen, is very simple too. all she needs to do is >>>>>talk to a lawyer before purchase this house.

 

[datamine]

divoice as long as you can take your son.

 

[badboy88]

do not divorce...

 

[wenda]

人世间真是什么人都有.

这样的男人你也要守着?

 

[ell]

真的假的?怎不见楼主的声音??

 

[男蔻]

上海人做到这个份上，也确实太过精明了。

 

[howardhao]

同样作为一个男人,我觉得你的老公太过分了.我不想太过分的指责上海男人,但是大多数上海男人确实如此.你一定要争取到你自己应得的那一部分,你为这个家贡献了你的青春与热情,但是你的老公却将你排除在外,女人不是生产工具和保姆.你不能太软弱了!!

 

[nativebell]

我怎么周围看到的上海男人家庭是相反的例子？！不说房屋财产共享，许多象银行定
期存款，股票帐户都是在女方名下，理由很简单--省税。是不是，你们婚姻已出现
问题，还是平时钱各归个的？退一步说，你老公能给家里争大钱，创造更好的物质
生活条件，就是维持当代脆弱婚姻的一个充分条件。既然你老公认错了，就和归于
好吧。平时必要时，跟他宣读一下上海老公“老婆老大，孩子老二，自己老三”的
三大纪律，八项注意。

 

[lazy susan]

Now I am a bit confused. If the house ownership has only the husband's name and he accidentally died, the wife won't get the house? Or only when they divorce, the wife won't get part of the house?

Because only my name is on the deed, now I am worried if I died in the near future ( not quite likely), my husband won't get the house. Will the house be returned to the government or something like that?

 

[lazy susan]

Also, if there's only problem when they get divorced, do you think it's possible that it's a way that the husband thinks that he can keep his wife for ever? Of cause it's not a normal way and not an efficient one either, if somebody wants to leave you, a house can't do much.

 

[amigo111]

不签! 都一家人了还这样办事情 太没意思了!

 

[kool]

最初由 爸爸的草鞋 发布
上海人做到这个份上，也确实太过精明了。

对！就小看你这地方的人。。怎么不服气呀。。

 

[kool]

最初由 howardhao 发布
同样作为一个男人,我觉得你的老公太过分了.我不想太过分的指责上海男人,但是大多数上海男人确实如此.你一定要争取到你自己应得的那一部分,你为这个家贡献了你的青春与热情,但是你的老公却将你排除在外,女人不是生产工具和保姆.你不能太软弱了!!

是不是比不过上海男人， 丫在这里发泄武大郎的私愤。。不是我小瞧你， 你不是让她要争取自己的利益吗>？ 你倒是出个好注意？？ 即能使家庭和睦， 也能保障此女的利益。。别老在这里狂畎。。。