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[Wanderer]

最初由 chef 发布
不是说一定就要通过法律解决问题.看看

1.你的好友
2.你的其他家庭成员
3.你所在的社区服务中心
4.你的同事
5.你常去的教会
6.你参加的社团组织
7.你的家庭医生
8.你可以借助的媒体(网,报纸甚至电视)
...
能不能帮助你.

 

[Wanderer]

最初由 渐渐 发布
Ok your definition of 磕磕碰碰 is not far from mine, normal family dispute is what I'd define it. However normal family dispute that escalates to the use of physical force is considered abuse. Again, I urge you to use common-sense.

In response to the case you described below, you should treat your wife as EQUAL party. Equality for many Chinese men are merely punch words, but don't actually mean anything. Members of the family should share equal responsiblities and make joint decisions together. Why should men be the ones making all the decisions? Why would men take more responsiblity for family problems? Would that be a normal family?

I did not say that men should make all the decisions.....

Does the Canada law make sure that every members of a family share equal responsiblities? Does the Canada law say how every members of a family share equal responsiblities?

 

[SUPER&ME]

最初由 渐渐 发布
I diagree, without knowing the root cause of a problem, it's impossible to solve it.

不是不去了解.我所强调的重点应放在如何解决问题上

 

[oread]

Are you trying to say that you agree with what we've been discussed so far, however your only problem is with battered women seeking help from law enforcement?

The law is there to protect each citizen. Of course it is not the ONLY means to resolve domestic problems, but it is ONE way to get help. You sounded like that battered women SHOULD NOT seek help from law enforcement agencies whatsoever.

My intention here is to provide some information for women in an abusive relationship, that there are helps available, and that they are not alone.

最初由 Wanderer 发布


I did not say that men should make all the decisions.....

Does the Canada law make sure that every members of a family share equal responsiblities? Does the Canada law say how every members of a family share equal responsiblities?

 

[oread]

Do you have any thoughts on that?

最初由 chef 发布


不是不去了解.我所强调的重点应放在如何解决问题上

 

[SUPER&ME]

最初由 渐渐 发布
Do you have any thoughts on that?

有.但我保留沉默的权利...

 

[Wanderer]

最初由 渐渐 发布
Are you trying to say that you agree with what we've been discussed so far, however your only problem is with battered women seeking help from law enforcement?

The law is there to protect each citizen. Of course it is not the ONLY means to resolve domestic problems, but it is ONE way to get help. You sounded like that battered women SHOULD NOT seek help from law enforcement agencies whatsoever.

My intention here is to provide some information for women in an abusive relationship, that there are helps available, and that they are not alone.

If a woman has decided to divorce and wants to put her ex-husband in law trouble, she can seek any available helps. It is like a war.

If not, she has to think about what kind of help she should seek, what kind of results she and her husband could accept.

To all couples: change your words to avoid argument first.

 

[Wanderer]

最初由 丫丫 发布

:flaming: 这是一种非常无耻的逻辑:flaming:

对不起，俺骂人了，可是，俺不准备收回:smokin: [/B]

Something was wrong here.

 

[oread]

I should have said that!

 

[oread]

You have not addressed the issue.
Do you have a problem with abused women seeking law enforcement help?

最初由 Wanderer 发布


If a woman has decided to divorce and wants to put her ex-husband in law trouble, she can seek any available helps. It is like a war.

If not, she has to think about what kind of help she should seek, what kind of results she and her husband could accept.

To all couples: change your words to avoid argument first.

 

[shusheng]

最初由 Wanderer 发布


If a woman has decided to divorce and wants to put her ex-husband in law trouble, she can seek any available helps. It is like a war.

If not, she has to think about what kind of help she should seek, what kind of results she and her husband could accept.

不同意。

当时在主坛上就有这样的言论，好象老婆要想把老公怎么样，一个911就行了。借此告戒女人，报警前要三思。

我就不懂，为什么老公这么怕老婆报警？所谓心底无私天地宽，老公到底有什么怕警察知道的？怕女人报警，本身就说明老公知道自已做得不对。做老公的，难道就没有胆子坦荡的说，即使警察来了我也没有什么可以隐瞒的？

 

[oread]

哼哼, I wasted my time on someone like you!
I over-estimated once again the size of some men's brain le, my fault.

最初由 Wanderer 发布
可是谁结婚是为了挨打得？ 听话的不挨打.

 

[有去无回]

最初由 Wanderer 发布
可是谁结婚是为了挨打得？ 听话的不挨打.



:flaming: 这是一种非常无耻的逻辑:flaming:


对不起，俺骂人了，可是，俺不准备收回:smokin:

实在对不起，俺本来是回帖子的，按错了，把原贴给改了:blowzy:

 

[oread]

This is from a so called "educated" person. I'm truly speechless...looks like we have a long long way to go.

Is anyone else as frustrated as I am now??? :flaming:

最初由 Wanderer 发布
可是谁结婚是为了挨打得？ 听话的不挨打.

 

[有去无回]

最初由 渐渐 发布
This is from a so called "educated" person. I'm truly speechless...looks like we have a long long way to go.

Is anyone else as frustrated as I am now??? :flaming:

I was too frustrated to click the right button