最初由 Huiuiui 发布
Actually, for the current me, I would rather get the encouragement like your opinion. I love her so much. She is nice and kind. She already had much more painful experiences in her life. I really don't want to hurt her. It's too hard for me to give up the relationship.
1. About you: The chances for HCV passed to you are low if you know how to pretect yourself. Since there is no vaccine at this moment, you have to learn some basic knowledge about HCV and know how to protect yourself. My Mom had HBV but my father never get HBV even they live together for decades, and no vaccine at that time.
2. About the girl you love: HCV will always be a life threat for her, until some new drugs come.
Let's assurme the worst situation, say from
HCV-->cirrhosis-->cancer, the probablity is 1-2%,
and the time, in most cases (not all), need 20-30 years (most of those 1-2% people get cancer at 50-60 years old). SO even in the worst situation, you still have a good chance to enjoy a long happy time with her. And you never know in that long time period, what kind of new drug will come. (in Canada, half of marriage even wouldn't last that long
3.About the baby: The risk of HCV transmission to the baby is low compared to other viruses such as hepatitis B or HIV. Approximately 5 out of 100 mothers who have HCV might pass it to their babies before or at the time of birth. Unfortunately, there is currently no effective way to prevent or reduce the risk of HCV transmission to the baby(different with HBV, HBV can be cut off now).
So 5%. But I wouldn't let my baby take even 5% risk. You can wait, until there is a way to prevent the pass. Or you don't have baby at all.
4. About Love: Sad to see someone won't take any risk for Love. If I am dumped by them because I am not perfect healthy, I wouldn't be sad. I want my partner to be able to share our happyness, aslo
be able to share our pain. Don't forget, love and marriage themself are risk investment.
More than 100 million people in China has HBV. Seveal million in US has HCV and HBV. Majority of them, get married and have a normal life.
It's a war between belife of Love and belife of Fear, a war between emotion and reality, a war between hope and despair.I see other people's choice here. I don't know yours. But I knew , and my wife knew, ours.
Best Regards
