老公和家婆异口同声叫我让步, 我很无奈, 怎么办?

[oread]

I dug out the old post from 我爱我家:
http://www.comefromchina.com/newbbs/showthread.php?s=&threadid=68462

最初由 Obiwan 发布


I am glad that you think that way.

 

[Fenix]

最初由 渐渐 发布
I dug out the old post from 我爱我家:
http://www.comefromchina.com/newbbs/showthread.php?s=&threadid=68462

Wow, that was a short discussion. I guess it was because it didn't involve in any relationship between family members.

 

[oread]

There is a risk simly being alive.

You could get cancer from simply brushing your teeth (latest rumor that Colgate causes cancer). You could have allergic reactions to genetically-engineered food, oh BTW, over 70% of vegetables we eat today ARE genetically-engineered, don't know about that? Well you do now. The air you breath in everyday could be filled with pollutant which in turn causes lung diseases; the sun that everyone loves to see could cause skin cancers if you are not protected, who knows! Sure there is a risk in everything we do, but what are you going to do? Are you going to lock yourself up in a bubble?

最初由 红颜知己 发布
If there is a risk, there is always a risk no matter how small it is. This is what the gambler believes: there is always a chance you could win next time.

 

[胖蹄阿克]

最初由 March 发布

再问一句 - 这个people也包括你吗？

:lol:

 

[shusheng]

最初由 March 发布

再问一句 - 这个people也包括你吗？

March看来太郁闷了，该找别的地方去散散心。:lol:

 

[帮工]

最初由 阡陌 发布


渐渐,

这件事情的本质是婆媳关系, 其次才是宠物爱心. 您好象对什么CGI有私怨. 硬指其为小海豚的老公. 而且, 您的英文语凋也很冷. 其实, 英语用好了, 也可以很温暖的. :blink:

i once told her that she had this condescending attitude. she just brushed it off.

 

[bello]

最初由 渐渐 发布


You are not me, you can't speculate how I feel. My cats are members of my family, family members get it? Not a commodity that you can simply get rid of, partitularly when the cats pose no real danger but rather PERCEIEVED danger.

My dog would NEVER EVER abandon me, EVER! If I can't do at least that for him, then I don't deserve to be a HUMAN. Seeing some of the comments here I AM ashamed to be a human.

我建议您可以搬家了，去野生动物园吧

 

[nicyr]

好像有个词叫爱屋及乌。
猫的传染病现在根本就不是问题。
看来两个人因该为对方做个让步。
老公疼爱老婆，就应该帮老婆养猫，喂食或者清理粪便。
老婆要是爱老公，可以不再养猫，给猫猫找个好人家。
现在看来，是不是双方都不愿意让步呢？
你们要不要好好谈一谈呢？
希望楼主早日找到答案。

 

[bello]

最初由 红颜知己 发布
If there is a risk, there is always a risk no matter how small it is. This is what the gambler believes: there is always a chance you could win next time.

but the fact, gamblers risk their own money to gamble, this lady is risk her baby;s health and life to gamlbe..what kind of mom is this?

 

[bello]

最初由 nicyr 发布
好像有个词叫爱屋及乌。
猫的传染病现在根本就不是问题。
看来两个人因该为对方做个让步。
老公疼爱老婆，就应该帮老婆养猫，喂食或者清理粪便。
老婆要是爱老公，可以不再养猫，给猫猫找个好人家。
现在看来，是不是双方都不愿意让步呢？
你们要不要好好谈一谈呢？
希望楼主早日找到答案。

您的谦让处理家庭关系的建议不错， 但你有没有足够确凿的证据， 此猫对新生儿的免疫系统不会产生危险？？连医生都不敢如此肯定的说。。 我想你哪<<猫的传染病现在根本就不是问题>>的结论比较不付责任。

 

[oread]

这话可不象BY人说的，倒象QH人说的。:lol:

最初由 March 发布

再问一句 - 这个people也包括你吗？

 

[bello]

March 渐渐。。。只是这件事

 

[oread]

You don't have evidence that the cat WILL cause any problem either right?

Isn't it obvious that this has nothing to do with the cat?

最初由 bello 发布


您的谦让处理家庭关系的建议不错， 但你有没有足够确凿的证据， 此猫对新生儿的免疫系统不会产生危险？？连医生都不敢如此肯定的说。。 我想你哪<<猫的传染病现在根本就不是问题>>的结论比较不付责任。

 

[oread]

最初由 bello 发布
March 渐渐。。。只是这件事

:glowface::glowface:

 

[bello]

最初由 渐渐 发布
You don't have evidence that the cat WILL cause any problem either right?

Isn't it obvious that this has nothing to do with the cat?

good answer, So why you take the risk?? because no one has 100% answer of this, why u gamble baby's health? risk means you are taking something you don't know.

what for lunch today?