Actually I'm not quite following you, but I'll try to make myself clear.
Once again, I disagree with you on the right to display MY message. It wasn't personal, there was no attacks, the intention was good, I used myself as an example, I had already said many many times on the public forum what I said in the message to Pi Xie...I really, I mean really can't see anything wrong with what I did. Seriously enlighten me, please.
It's rather interesting that you'd take the words from someone constantly using "ma jia". I have not yet and do not intend to use any "ma jia" if that's what you are worried about. Not that I like the idea of "ma jia" (on the contrarary I too hate that practice), but if what someone said makes sense, why bother? What I can't stand is someone using "ma jia", with the use of vulgar language, to personally attack other people! That I cannot and will not tolerate!
You are absolutely right in your last comment. I will no longer waste my time and effort on nonsense like this.