这段话很有道理

[何去何从]

最初由 Kent以东首帅哥 发布
"把任何别人的帮助,得到的好处视之当然;得到好处后便扬长而去,得不到好处则到处怨天尤人;为达到目的不择手段,不达目的誓不罢休;有求于人时,好话说尽,达到目的后可以翻脸不认人;斗争性奇强,敢于斗争,善于斗争,雄揆滔滔,永远有理;张牙舞爪,咄咄逼人"

同意上面观点

yeah, I agree. There are many chinese who are utterly despicable!!!

Well, I believed there are still some good chinese though.

 

[Jacinthe]

I don't understand~~~

 

[DanceWithWolf]

最初由 visitor 发布


可能是因为中国人民比较shy，不太善于表达谢意，不信你去168市场，给来往的同志们开门，看看有多少国人会对你表示谢意。

Visttor,
This time, you comment objectively.

 

[DanceWithWolf]

Why do you expect something when you are willing to help out? Are you willing to do that?

 

[DanceWithWolf]

Re: Re: 这段话很有道理

最初由 何去何从 发布



yeah, I agree. There are many chinese who are utterly despicable!!!

Well, I believed there are still some good chinese though.

Sir, don't blame self-people. Chinese have ALREADY had too much blamed.

Give ourself a break please. We need compliment and confidence. Thx

 

[DanceWithWolf]

最初由 开喜 发布


鼓励大家说谢谢. 实在不敢张口的, 微笑一下.

That is the way we are supporsed to take.

 

[DanceWithWolf]

最初由 Rogue 发布
没错.

我来到这里,帮了很多中国人,需要帮忙的时候,态度好得很,现在见了我连理都不理.有人丢了东西,我找到了,物归原主,见了我连理都不理.每次都得我先打招呼给别人,滚!

You just stop helping out.

 

[dropinto]

Re: Re: Re: 这段话很有道理

最初由 DanceWithWolf 发布


Sir, don't blame self-people. Chinese have ALREADY had too much blamed.

Give ourself a break please. We need compliment and confidence. Thx

we blame others because we keep hope, hope others better.

 

[Gay]

最初由 DanceWithWolf 发布


You just stop helping out.

那不行.帮助别人是我的个人原则,个人习惯.

 

[DanceWithWolf]

In my opinion, we, ZHONGGUOREN, should learn how to smile, and care the appearence with confidence.

 

[DanceWithWolf]

Re: Re: Re: Re: 这段话很有道理

最初由 dropinto 发布


we blame others because we keep hope, hope others better.

You should take your good behaviour to influence others, not blaming words.

Again, Chinese need compliment!

 

[DanceWithWolf]

最初由 Rogue 发布


那不行.帮助别人是我的个人原则,个人习惯.

That's nice. So, please keep going without complaining.

 

[Gay]

最初由 DanceWithWolf 发布


That's nice. So, please keep going without complaining.

唉,这不只有如此了.

 

[visitor]

如果中国MM们能学会对周围的路人微笑，效果会比较好，现实是，中国的MM们大部分比较严肃。不妨做个实验，你在电梯里碰到一个中国MM，当你二人眼光交错时，......

 

[DanceWithWolf]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: 这段话很有道理

最初由 dropinto 发布


I agree. Chinese people have many good characters. As woman, I really appreciate many good characters from Chinese men. I talked this to the local people. Their feeling were so complicated after my speech.

However up your posting I couldn't compliment you.

You need not care about local people's response as long as you are confident.

"We need compliment" what I said is related to a deeper topic. The brief idea is -

We, ZHONGGUOREN, got/are getting TOO much blame from other nations because ZHONGGUO was weaker, poorer and unindustrialized. Gradually, some of us perceive the opinions forced by others. Then, they(some of us) began to blame ourself people, and that makes ZHONGGUOREN lose confidence.
You know what? To compliment is the effective way to encourage people and make people confident.


P.S.
I wont mind if you compliment me because I am a reasonable, confident person. I believe I responded properly in all my posting.