sorry i cannot type Chinese by using this PC, since i dont' have Chinese system in this computer.
we've been together for over 5 years. He used to be good to me, when he's not in bad mood. i dunno whether i should leave my love if he just put u as his second or third priority, while his parents are his first priority. We live with his parents. Actually his parents come to canada to live with us for about six month every year. I can sense that his parents dont' like me, especially his mother. Everything shows on her face. Even i tried to treat her good, but she just disregard.
My love treats his parents sooo good! Especailly his mother, he is unbelievably good to his mother. For example, he hugs his mother almost every time he returns or leaves home, but he never hugs me (unless his parents are in China). They go out for shopping or others without asking me to go. The most unacceptable thing for me is that when they go out for their private family gathering, he lied to me and tried to hide everthing from me. WHen his parents go out themselves, they just left without saying a word to me (like 'goodbye'), while i tried to repect them all the time.
Sometiems they wanted to walk around the place we live after having dinner at home. But my love seldom asked me to go together. Yesterday, same thing happened again, they want to San Bu around after dinner, and i asked my love privately if i could go together. But he looked very reluctantly and at last he agreed.. Maybe he doesn't want to hurt me that much. But i was already hurt by reading the sign on his face. I did not go with them at the end
Now i feel that i'm just a Wai Ren to them. I'm not part of the family. I feel really sad. Especially his mother doesn't like me. And i strongly feel that his son is by her side. He used to say to me: if his mother and I happened to fight, it must be my fault.
sorry, i didnt' check my english grammer at all. maybe it's in a mess. Hopefully you could understand what i meant here. I am really too sad to continue now.
please let me know what i should do. i'm lost. but don't ask me to talk to my love privately about this issue. 'cause i tried already, but it didnt' work out. He did not even want to listen or talk about it. He thinks his parents are always rite.
we've been together for over 5 years. He used to be good to me, when he's not in bad mood. i dunno whether i should leave my love if he just put u as his second or third priority, while his parents are his first priority. We live with his parents. Actually his parents come to canada to live with us for about six month every year. I can sense that his parents dont' like me, especially his mother. Everything shows on her face. Even i tried to treat her good, but she just disregard.
My love treats his parents sooo good! Especailly his mother, he is unbelievably good to his mother. For example, he hugs his mother almost every time he returns or leaves home, but he never hugs me (unless his parents are in China). They go out for shopping or others without asking me to go. The most unacceptable thing for me is that when they go out for their private family gathering, he lied to me and tried to hide everthing from me. WHen his parents go out themselves, they just left without saying a word to me (like 'goodbye'), while i tried to repect them all the time.
Sometiems they wanted to walk around the place we live after having dinner at home. But my love seldom asked me to go together. Yesterday, same thing happened again, they want to San Bu around after dinner, and i asked my love privately if i could go together. But he looked very reluctantly and at last he agreed.. Maybe he doesn't want to hurt me that much. But i was already hurt by reading the sign on his face. I did not go with them at the end
Now i feel that i'm just a Wai Ren to them. I'm not part of the family. I feel really sad. Especially his mother doesn't like me. And i strongly feel that his son is by her side. He used to say to me: if his mother and I happened to fight, it must be my fault.
sorry, i didnt' check my english grammer at all. maybe it's in a mess. Hopefully you could understand what i meant here. I am really too sad to continue now.
please let me know what i should do. i'm lost. but don't ask me to talk to my love privately about this issue. 'cause i tried already, but it didnt' work out. He did not even want to listen or talk about it. He thinks his parents are always rite.
